LGBTQ·Posted on May 9, 201214 Steps That Will Evolve Your Views On Gay MarriageAttention! People who don't like gay people! Read this!by Matt StoperaBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail Step 1: Blame yourself. Step 2: Realize gay marriage is inevitable. Statistics show people's views are rapidly changing on the issue. Step 3: Imagine how stupid you'll look in 40 years. Step 4: Listen to Louis CK. Step 5: Let go of the idea that same-sex marriage is ruining the sanctity of marriage argument. Step 6: Take a closer look at the Bible. Step 7: Read their story and watch their video. Try not to cry. View this video on YouTube Unfortunately Ed passed away in December. He was never able to marry Derrence. Step 8: Take a look at the people in your own life. How many couples do you know that have stayed together as long as these couples? Step 9: Imagine their wedding. Step 10: Look how happy these people are. Come on, seriously. Step 11: Ask yourself if you could say no to these kids? Step 12: Ask yourself if you could say no to Neil Patrick Harris? Step 13: Look at the consequences. Step 14: Imagine the alternatives.