"I want you to think of how many big girls you see," she said, "wearing bathing suits, lingerie, shorts, dresses, tight- fitting clothing, who aren't openly mocked ... And now you have the answer as to why a lot of who look like me — and by a lot, I mean not very many — post pictures of themselves showing their thighs or their stomach or parts that other women and other people show proudly and are never questioned on because that's what we're used to seeing and we're comfortable with that."