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How Is Your Sex Life?

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  1. 1. What counts as sex, in your opinion?

    As Jerry Seinfeld puts it: If a nipple's out, it's sex
    As long as someone's genitals are involved in some way, that's sex
    Oral sex and any kind of penetration
    Just penetration of the vaginal or anal variety
    Just vaginal penetration

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1. What counts as sex, in your opinion?
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    As Jerry Seinfeld puts it: If a nipple's out, it's sex
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    As long as someone's genitals are involved in some way, that's sex
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    Oral sex and any kind of penetration
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    Just penetration of the vaginal or anal variety
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    Just vaginal penetration

*For the record,* when we talk about "sex," we mean anything that involves genitals.

  1. 2. Have you ever had sex?

    Yes
    Not yet, but eventually!
    No, and it doesn't really interest me

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2. Have you ever had sex?
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    Yes
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    Not yet, but eventually!
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    No, and it doesn't really interest me
  1. 3. How often do you think of sex?

    Not often, if ever
    Every once in a while
    Daily
    If I had a thought bubble above my head, it would say "SEX" all of the time

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3. How often do you think of sex?
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    Not often, if ever
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    Every once in a while
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    Daily
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    If I had a thought bubble above my head, it would say "SEX" all of the time
  1. 4. What's your least favorite word for "sex?"

    Coitus
    Intercourse
    Lovemaking
    Copulation
    Nookie
    Fornication
    All of these make my skin crawl
    I don't mind them

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4. What's your least favorite word for "sex?"
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    Coitus
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    Intercourse
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    Lovemaking
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    Copulation
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    Nookie
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    Fornication
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    All of these make my skin crawl
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    I don't mind them
  1. 5. How many partners have you had, based on our definition of genital involvement?

    None
    1–5
    6–10
    10–20
    20–30
    30-plus

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5. How many partners have you had, based on our definition of genital involvement?
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    None
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    1–5
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    6–10
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    10–20
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    20–30
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    30-plus
  1. 6. When was the last time you've had sex?

    Today
    Yesterday
    Within the past week
    A few weeks ago
    Last month
    Few months ago
    Over six months ago
    Over a year ago
    YEARS. IT HAS BEEN YEARS.

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6. When was the last time you've had sex?
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    Today
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    Yesterday
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    Within the past week
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    A few weeks ago
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    Last month
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    Few months ago
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    Over six months ago
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    Over a year ago
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    YEARS. IT HAS BEEN YEARS.
  1. 7. If you're not in a relationship, on average, how often do you have sex?

    7-plus times a week
    4–6 times a week
    1–3 times a week
    Few times a month
    About once a month
    Few times a year
    Ugh don't even remind me how long it's been
    I don't have sex outside of a relationship
    I've never had sex

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7. If you're not in a relationship, on average, how often do you have sex?
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    7-plus times a week
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    4–6 times a week
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    1–3 times a week
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    Few times a month
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    About once a month
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    Few times a year
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    Ugh don't even remind me how long it's been
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    I don't have sex outside of a relationship
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    I've never had sex
  1. 8. If you're in a relationship, on average, how often do you have sex?

    We keep it hot! 7-plus times a week
    Usually 4–6 times a week
    1–3 times a week
    A few times a month
    About once a month
    Once every few months
    Almost never
    I'm in a long-distance relationship, so whenever we're together
    I'm in an open relationship, so it varies
    We don't have sex out of choice/we're waiting until marriage

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8. If you're in a relationship, on average, how often do you have sex?
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    We keep it hot! 7-plus times a week
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    Usually 4–6 times a week
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    1–3 times a week
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    A few times a month
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    About once a month
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    Once every few months
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    Almost never
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    I'm in a long-distance relationship, so whenever we're together
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    I'm in an open relationship, so it varies
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    We don't have sex out of choice/we're waiting until marriage
  1. 9. Have you ever withheld sex to get what you want?

    Yes
    Nope

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9. Have you ever withheld sex to get what you want?
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    Yes
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    Nope
  1. 10. Do you and your partner(s) use any sex toys? If yes, what kind?

    No, they don't do much for us
    No, but we'd like to try!
    Only vibrators and/or dildos
    We have an assortment: vibrators, plugs, restraints, etc.
    We own sex furniture/swings
    A combination of the above

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10. Do you and your partner(s) use any sex toys? If yes, what kind?
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    No, they don't do much for us
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    No, but we'd like to try!
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    Only vibrators and/or dildos
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    We have an assortment: vibrators, plugs, restraints, etc.
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    We own sex furniture/swings
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    A combination of the above
  1. 11. What's the wildest place you've had sex?

    A bed
    In the great outdoors, baby!
    In a closed public area, like a closet or bathroom
    In a partially covered public area, like a movie theater or photo booth
    In front of others
    A combination of the answers above

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11. What's the wildest place you've had sex?
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    A bed
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    In the great outdoors, baby!
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    In a closed public area, like a closet or bathroom
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    In a partially covered public area, like a movie theater or photo booth
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    In front of others
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    A combination of the answers above
  1. 12. When you're having sex with someone, how often are you fantasizing or thinking of someone who isn't them?

    Rarely or never
    OK, every once in a while
    Most of the time, but only for a few seconds, I swear!
    Pretty much every time, the whole time

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12. When you're having sex with someone, how often are you fantasizing or thinking of someone who isn't them?
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    Rarely or never
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    OK, every once in a while
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    Most of the time, but only for a few seconds, I swear!
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    Pretty much every time, the whole time
  1. 13. How often do you masturbate alone?

    Daily...or more often
    A few times a week
    A few times a month
    About once a month
    A few times a year
    Basically never

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13. How often do you masturbate alone?
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    Daily...or more often
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    A few times a week
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    A few times a month
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    About once a month
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    A few times a year
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    Basically never
  1. 14. Do you have secret fantasies that you're kinda dying to act out?

    With the right partner, definitely
    Yes, DYING
    Not really

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14. Do you have secret fantasies that you're kinda dying to act out?
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    With the right partner, definitely
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    Yes, DYING
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    Not really
  1. 15. If you're in a serious monogamous relationship, do you regret not having sex with more people?

    No way, I only have eyes for my one and only
    No, I got it out of my system
    Sometimes, I wish I had experimented more
    Yes, but it makes me feel guilty
    Yes, I wonder what I missed :/

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15. If you're in a serious monogamous relationship, do you regret not having sex with more people?
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    No way, I only have eyes for my one and only
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    No, I got it out of my system
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    Sometimes, I wish I had experimented more
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    Yes, but it makes me feel guilty
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    Yes, I wonder what I missed :/
  1. 16. What do you think of saving sex for marriage or your lifelong partner?

    Beautiful — everyone should do it
    Romantic in theory but unrealistic in modern times
    I thought about it, but I didn't do it
    Absolute insanity — gotta test drive a car before you buy it!

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16. What do you think of saving sex for marriage or your lifelong partner?
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    Beautiful — everyone should do it
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    Romantic in theory but unrealistic in modern times
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    I thought about it, but I didn't do it
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    Absolute insanity — gotta test drive a car before you buy it!
  1. 17. Do you keep a list of people you've slept with anywhere?

    How else would I remember?
    I prefer not to leave a paper trail, but I have a mental list
    I don't track any bedpost notches

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17. Do you keep a list of people you've slept with anywhere?
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    How else would I remember?
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    I prefer not to leave a paper trail, but I have a mental list
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    I don't track any bedpost notches
  1. 18. Have you ever cheated on someone?

    Only emotionally
    Yes, but it wasn't sex!
    Yes, I slept with someone else
    No, but I've thought about it
    No, I could never

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18. Have you ever cheated on someone?
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    Only emotionally
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    Yes, but it wasn't sex!
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    Yes, I slept with someone else
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    No, but I've thought about it
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    No, I could never
  1. 19. Do you have fantasies that turn you on but that you'd NEVER want to act out?

    Yeah, just check my browser history
    I want to do everything
    I don't...think so?

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19. Do you have fantasies that turn you on but that you'd NEVER want to act out?
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    Yeah, just check my browser history
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    I want to do everything
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    I don't...think so?
  1. 20. Threesomes:

    Hell yeah
    Hell no
    Fun to think about, but terrifying in practice
    Only if the other two people only pay attention to me, me, me

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20. Threesomes:
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    Hell yeah
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    Hell no
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    Fun to think about, but terrifying in practice
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    Only if the other two people only pay attention to me, me, me
  1. 21. How sexy do you REALLY think "Fifty Shades of Grey" is?

    Very — I've even acted out some of it
    A fun read but it didn't inspire me
    Pffft, that stuff is vanilla
    I didn't read it

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21. How sexy do you REALLY think "Fifty Shades of Grey" is?
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    Very — I've even acted out some of it
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    A fun read but it didn't inspire me
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    Pffft, that stuff is vanilla
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    I didn't read it
  1. 22. What movie title best describes your sex life?

    Home Alone
    The Usual Suspects
    The Hangover
    Midnight Cowboy
    Toy Story
    The Fast and the Furious
    Miracle on 34th Street
    It's a Wonderful Life

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22. What movie title best describes your sex life?
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    Home Alone
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    The Usual Suspects
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    The Hangover
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    Midnight Cowboy
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    Toy Story
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    The Fast and the Furious
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    Miracle on 34th Street
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    It's a Wonderful Life