28 Horrifying Replies To Being Rejected That "Nice Guys" Had The Nerve To Hit Send On

    I'm so tired.

    If you have somehow never heard of a Nice Guy, allow me to define one for you. First of all, they must consider themselves to be nice. Second, they must feel entitled to romantic attention, whether it be male or female. And third, they turn manipulative, toxic, or straight-up really mean once rejected.

    Man in fedora tipping his hat with the fedora labeled "fedora optional"

    It's a pretty horrifying reality that many people — especially women — deal with, and it's come to my attention recently that some people are not quite aware of just how horrible Nice Guys can really be.

    In case you've never experienced this — or have many times and would like to be seething with rage — here are 28 Nice Guys who truly give men a bad name.

    🚨WARNING: Many of these texts contain violent and racist language and threats of sexual assault. Please read at your own risk.🚨

    1. Well, that escalated quickly.

    2. As did this.

    3. This whole exchange is a doozy (and a GREAT example of the whole "putting your own self-esteem issues on a person who has rejected you rather than actually working on yourself" thing).

    It's a bit long, so I'll show you some highlights.

    Guy says he's too polite and will stop being that way because he'd rather be a happy asshole than an unhappy good guy, and the girl replies this is making her feel she made the right decision

    Like...write this in your diary.

    "Nice Guy" saying he should just become a fuckboy and always should've been one

    Please don't do this.

    Nice Guy asking what the girl likes about him and then apologizing saying it sounds like he has huge self esteem issues

    4. Nice Guys are a plague for other men, too. This guy literally knew this person for a week and sent him this.

    Text from Nice Guy saying he's done with them and loves them but the other person broke their heart; he asks why he keeps hurting him because he's dying then asks if the other guy feels the same way

    "I've been here for you through everything" — it's literally been a week??

    Texts saying "I hope you die" and saying he's done being nice and also saying the other guy's new relationship with a girl won't last, as well as saying that he's been there for the guy through "everything" and now doesn't even want to be friends

    Oh, and did I mention this was in a group chat? Tag yourself; I'm the bro piping in to say, "That's fucked up."

    The Nice Guy says he'll pray for the other guy and his new girlfriend to die and a friend pipes in to say "That's fucked up"

    5. This guy dated this woman for two weeks and had the nerve to say this when she got a new boyfriend.

    "I don't want you fucking talking to me ever again you selfish, heartbreaking piece of shit. I gave you my heart. And I mended yours and you take mine and throw it away like garbage. AGH! I don't even know anymore. Don't talk to me"

    And then he brought in some racism because at that point, why not?

    Guy replying "Go lie in a damn hole you fucking bitch. All you black girls are the same don't give a damn about nobody but yourself"

    6. I just love when you don't respond to a stranger and he goes from kind to "Go fuck yourself."

    Ope from niceguys

    7. Since it can be hard at the very beginning to tell if a guy is actually nice or if he's a Nice Guy™, it's always cool when they self-eliminate by showing their true colors before you've even rejected them!

    Friendly intro texts on a dating app then the guy saying "good talk" after the girl didn't reply for 9 minutes

    Things went from bad to worse...

    The guy goes on a rant about online dating being pointless and how girls can't carry a conversation and expect men to do everything, and that they have so many options and put in zero effort

    ...and then he STILL asked if he had a chance.

    The guy calls her response catty then asks where they go from here and if they'll keep talking, and the girl asks if he's joking then lists off all the disrespectful things he's done and said

    8. This guy literally rejected himself after the other person wasn't able to respond for 20 minutes.

    the guy says the girl must not like aboriginal boys and it would've been nice to get to know her but he's not good enough, the girl says she was only gone for 20 minutes and the guy says he's been rejected his whole life

    And then still tried to make it work while also having major sad pick-me energy.

    The guy says he's different in person but they don't have to hang out since no one wants to hang out with him and no girl is interested in him — the girl says it's his personality not his face that's the problem, and the guy says he's not handsome

    9. This guy also rejected himself because a girl didn't reply to a dating app message all day...and then proved to her that she'd dodged a massive bullet.

    Guy asks if there's a reason the girl decided to match with him and get his hopes up or if she just likes making guys feel like shit, then calls her callous and malicious and says he already knows he's ugly and worthless

    He then seemed to double back and possibly head toward an apology...only to do a major U-turn...

    The guy says he was drunk when he sent the other message but still believes the girl would've ghosted him. then later is drunk again and says he hopes she learns not to walk all over guys and says pretty girls have no struggles

    ...and then leave the interaction with this message.

    "I've spent the entire day thinking about pretty much nothing but you and this whole situation and still I can't find the words to express just how much I fucking despise you and everyone like you"

    10. This guy realllyyyy couldn't deal with not getting a reply, either. I can't imagine he's doing well in the job market.

    11. This man pulled a 180 REAL fast. Like, in a day.

    12. As did this guy.

    Guy calls a girl cute and she says thanks then he asks her to hang and she says she's planning on staying in then the guy says "fuck you bitch, you weren't even that cute I'm a nice guy you should give me a chance" then that she missed her chance

    13. This person was just being straight up with the guy she'd been talking to for a week and hadn't even met in person yet, and got told to "get in shape."

    Woman says there isn't a connection and guy says to get her body right and lose her fat and get in shape, and the girl says she was being civil and he should get over himself

    14. This guy went on the CLASSIC Nice Guy™ rant. It's almost textbook.

    15. This guy decided to ask for nudes "as a friend" despite the fact that the person had already politely declined and rejected him.

    Girl tells guy she wants a platonic friendship and the guy asks her to send nudes so he can finally finish and go to sleep because he's been jerking off for an hour

    16. This guy told a girl he was undressing her with his eyes, then backtracked.

    Guy says he's been undressing girl in his mind and wants to see her, then says it was a joke and asks if him saying poker was his job scared her off, then talks about how much money he makes

    And then when the girl called it "off-putting," he said it was a "joke."

    The girl says it has nothing to do with poker, then calls the undressing thing "off-putting" and he says it was a joke and that if he said it to 100 girls in a bar, not one would get a restraining order

    17. This guy also played off his aggression as a joke.

    Girl says she doesn't have anything in common with guy and he asks why and she says she doesn't like him getting mad when she ends a conversation and doesn't respond promptly and he says it's a joke and she's malevolent like other girls

    The whole "Thought something was off when you ... didn't even include a kiss at the end of your message" — lord.

    Guy says majority of women don't know what's good for them, and don't give nice men a chance, and are malignant tumors, and he knew something was off when she didn't send a kiss emoji, and she tells him to fuck off

    18. This guy got upset that a girl didn't want to meet him alone at his house, and said he hoped she'd let a friend know where she was.

    Girl says she's not comfortable going over guy's house alone and he says he doesn't get why she won't meet him alone and asks if she thinks something bad would happen and says he assumes she'd let her friends know where she was

    And then he got mad when she was a little uncomfortable with him pressuring her to meet him alone.

    Girl says she was thrown off by their messages and they should part ways, then the guy says "most girls who want to continue having shitty lives decline so its ok" and says she's lazy with no drive

    19. This guy was nice enough to break into his cousin's computer, get the number of a girl with a boyfriend, then harass her.

    20. This girl missed out big time on a novel-writing, instrument-playing neuroscientist.

    21.  I don't usually feel qualified to speak for all women...but here I think I can say with confidence that we all would rather eat guacamole.

    22. This guy tricked a girl into talking to him by suggesting he'd hire her for a gig, then tried to turn a professional interaction romantic, then went off the deep end when he was politely refused.

    Guy asks if girl does private gigs and she says yes and asks about gig and he says she's beautiful and asks her out, and the girl declines but he harasses her and says she doesn't know what's best for her and her life is shit, then says to kill herself

    23. Pro tip to all men: Tell a girl she sounds like a cat you'd like to euthanize!

    Girl says she has a boyfriend and guy asks how since she's not pretty and calls her a liar, asking why she gave her number last year and if she's playing hard to get, then saying she's a 3/10 with a bad voice and they could've worked out but she's greedy

    24. This guy tried to act as if he was looking out for this girl's boyfriend.

    25. This "friend" turned threatening very quickly.

    26. This guy pulled so many reverse Uno cards, I'm surprised he has any cards left to play.

    27. This Nice Guy took his friend's boyfriend's death as an opportunity to swoop in.

    Guy says girl can call if she needs anything and she thanks him then he says he'll never love like he loved her and she asks him to stop and he says she looks at him as a piece of shit and she was his life and maybe if he was dead she'd care

    28. And finally, this guy got utterly exposed for saying a girl was "gatekeeping pussy" but not sending nudes.

    Be safe out there, everyone. These cockroaches are everywhere.

    H/T: r/niceguys.