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    11 Things That Actually Surprised This Sex Therapist

    Brandy Engler, Ph.D., talks libido, porn, and cuckold fetishes.

    As a sex and relationship therapist, Brandy Engler, Ph.D., has some super-fascinating insights into love and intimacy.

    1. So many people are just going through the motions during sex.

    2. More men than women suffer from low libido in Engler's practice.

    3. When women have low libido, it doesn't always mean they don't want sex at all, they usually just don't want to have sex with their partners.

    4. People actually come to sex therapy to ponder threesomes and other sexual propositions.

    5. Cuckold and chastity fetishes are kinda big right now.

    6. Men usually seek help when their penis isn't working, and women usually come in when a sex problem is affecting the relationship.

    7. Lots of men want sex to be more meaningful.

    8. Engler has noticed a lot more women prioritizing sex over love lately.

    9. Lots of couples let household frustrations bleed into their sex lives.

    10. Tons of people have a problem with porn.

    11. Single people go to sex and relationship therapy, too.