Here's What You Need To Know About The Male G-Spot

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    Well, you're definitely not alone. We've actually gotten a few questions like this.

    First of all, your sexual orientation is not dictated by what you like to do (or wear) in bed.

    So being curious about prostate stimulation or wearing thongs doesn't mean you're gay — it means you're curious about prostate stimulation or wearing thongs.

    OK, so let's talk about the male G-spot, otherwise known as the prostate.

    There are lots of ways to stimulate your prostate, but the experts suggest starting slow and solo.

    After that, you might want to try a butt plug or prostate massager.

    And definitely, definitely do not forget lube.

    Also, give yourself a big pat on the back for being open to experimenting with different sex acts and taking some steps to find out more.

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