Health·Posted on Jul 16, 201515 Things That Definitely Aren't ConsentA primer for anyone who isn't totally 100% sure.by Casey GuerenBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. The fact that you two have already had sex. View this photo on Instagram 2. Carrying condoms. View this photo on Instagram 3. Having a penis. View this photo on Instagram 4. Dating someone. View this photo on Instagram 5. Drunk texting. 6. Looking really freaking hot. View this photo on Instagram 7. Wearing anything that might be considered ~suggestive~. View this photo on Instagram 8. Or wearing nothing. View this photo on Instagram 9. Having an erection. View this photo on Instagram 10. Spending the night together. View this photo on Instagram 11. Saying yes while drunk or high. View this photo on Instagram 12. Convincing someone that it's a good idea. View this photo on Instagram 13. Not ~technically~ saying no. View this photo on Instagram 14. Openly and obviously flirting. View this photo on Instagram 15. Or even hooking up in other ways. View this photo on Instagram Here's what consent actually is: View this photo on Instagram