Health·Posted on Aug 15, 201522 Small But Important Lessons Most People Learn The Hard WaySometimes learning things the hard way is the only way. Inspired by this Reddit thread.by Carolyn KylstraBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. Don't make fun of how someone laughs or eats — they may never want to do either one around you again. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. No one has the answers, and everyone is faking it most of the time. View this photo on Instagram 3. If you ever have to put down a beloved pet, stay with them in the room until it's over. 4. You can and should end toxic friendships, even if you've been friends for your whole life. 5. It's totally OK to fail, or to be bad at something. 6. No one is invincible. 7. Don't be a jerk. View this photo on Instagram 8. Buy clothes that fit you NOW, not clothes you hope will fit after you lose weight in the future. View this photo on Instagram 9. Form your own opinions about people — don't just believe what other people are saying about them. 10. Live below your means, and always try to save something out of every paycheck if you can. 11. Don't play hard to get. 12. Only ever have sex with people who have given enthusiastic consent. View this photo on Instagram 13. Measure your front door and stairwells before you buy that couch. 14. If you're always complaining about drama, you might just be the one who's creating it. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. Talk to your family and loved ones as often as possible when they're alive — because they won't always be. View this photo on Instagram 16. Everyone is as uncomfortable and uncertain as you are. 17. Your parents are fallible humans and make mistakes sometimes, and that's OK. 18. Never assume malicious intentions if you haven't yet ruled out mistakes, incompetence, neglect, or plain old thoughtlessness. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 19. It may feel like the end of the world now, but it very likely won't feel so terrible in 10 years. 20. Be kind to yourself. View this photo on Instagram 21. Just remember that you broke up with that person for a reason. View this photo on Instagram 22. No one is paying that much attention to what you do — so do what you want and what makes you happy! Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF