Science·Posted on 30 Nov 201615 Things People With Arthritis Want You To Know"My joints feel like lead, and I can be in such pain I can sometimes be physically sick."by Ailbhe MaloneBuzzFeed StaffLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail 1. There's no one type of arthritis. View this photo on Instagram 2. And "aches and pains" are not the same as arthritis. View this photo on Instagram 3. Your self-esteem can take a hit. 4. Diagnosis can be tricky. 5. It's not just stairs that are a challenge. 6. A typical day can vary. 7. Treatment plans differ, but they're all long-term. View this photo on Instagram 8. You have to ration your energy. View this photo on Instagram 9. It can be tough on relationships. View this photo on Instagram 10. But family and friends can make all the difference. 11. People can be rude and unthinking. 12. You never know what someone else is going through. View this photo on Instagram 13. It's tough on parents as well as children. 14. It's hard to plan ahead. View this photo on Instagram 15. But you learn to adapt. View this photo on Instagram Thanks to Arthritis Research UK for their help with this piece.