How Almost Anyone Can Take You Off Facebook (And Lock You Out)

Getting your buddy’s Facebook account turned into a “Memorial” state is surprisingly easy — and locks them out of Facebook. Warning: this will seriously mess up someone’s account.

I know, right? Now tell your friends!
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Katie Notopoulos

Facebook has offered “memorialization” for accounts of deceased people for a while, but it seems that the bar has been lowered for how they verify the person in question is actually expired. Ideally, how it works is a friend or relative of a deceased person fills out a form from the Facebook Help section that gives the name, email, and account name of the deceased person. It also asks if you’re a friend, immediate family member, or other.

Lastly, it asks for proof that your friend is dead, but it will accept a link to an online obituary as sufficient proof. If your friend has a common enough name, just Google their name + “obituary” and you’ll probably find a match.

Once memorialized, your buddy will be locked out of his or her account. R.I.P.!

(WARNING: Don’t do this. It’s at the very least a pain in the ass for your friends.)

Update: Why is it so easy to fake a friend’s death? A Facebook spokeperson tells Buzzfeed, “we try to take all necessary precautions when processing user requests and provide an appeals process for any possible mistake we may make.” It doesn’t explain why there’s no email confirmation or why an obituary for someone 50 years older than the alleged deceased was accepted as valid proof of his death.

2. 1. To kill BuzzFeed’s John Herrman, I just filled out the memorial request form:

I claimed to be an immediate family member of FWD editor John Herrman to make it seem more real (there’s no verification I’m related).

Here’s the page.

3. 2. For the “proof of death”, I found an obituary for a guy with a similar name (not even spelled the same!) who was 74

The details of this obituary don’t match up at all - this guy is way older, and lives in Nebraska instead of New York.

Even worse, the names aren’t even spelled the same: he’s “Herrmann” (double R, double N) whereas the John I’m killing is “Herrman” (double R, single N)

4. When the “dead” person tries to login to their account, this happens:

5. Getting the account back requires filling out a special form. It’s not clear how long this takes. It’s not instant:

6. And when John filled it out, he got a form letter. The wrong one:

In other words, you can take someone offline by filling out a simple form, claiming to be family, and linking to an obit. Pretty bad!

7. Rusty Foster, who tipped us off on this issue, says he hasn’t been able to get his account back for days:

@katienotopoulos @jwherrman So far 2 1/2 days, three or four reports, nothing even resembling a human response.

Update: About an hour after filling out the form, John’s account was reactivated. This is the email Facebook sent:

“It looks like your account was suspended by mistake. I’m so sorry for the inconvenience. You should now be able to log in. If you have any issues getting back into your account, please let me know.”

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    • DramaticallyGiles thinks How Almost Anyone Can Take You Off Fa... is Win  about 3 months ago
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    • Chris Smowton 4 months ago

      Hey, what a surprise: Facebook noted that the berieved commonly don’t have access to the dead person’s email account, so it’s difficult to prove their death without posting death certificates, which the family are likely in no mood to do. They relied on honesty, which broadly worked, until you guys came along and gave the feckless troll du jour a new way to abuse a reasonable trust. Thanks for that, Buzzfeed.

    • lissaa 4 months ago

      Why post a story like this at all? I commented when it first went up under the title “How to murder your friends on Facebook” and stated that it would lead to incessant cyberbullying. Changing the title does not change the intent. Or the inherent damage this “practice” can cause. My question is, why give ANYONE the keys to pranks like this? Again, my comment last week about irresponsibility in journalism stands. Why is this being provided at all? I wrote the author who has not yet replied. My original comment (at the bottom of this thread stands; I urge you to (for want of a better term” kill this story and make sure it isn’t archived. There are too many malicious people who will take this and run with it.

    • didid2 4 months ago

      Big deal. Why get your knickers in such a twist over something so negligible in the big scheme of things? You may have given people a “how to lesson”. And?? As if the info cannot be found anywhere else? It’s FB people, not The Magna Carta.

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    • Beckysaurus-Rex 4 months ago

      You can no longer do this. They never got back to me after I tried tk memorialise my friend’s page. Sad times.

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    • thegameneedsme 4 months ago

      showing kids how to take cyber bullying to another level. (although i may have to do this to my douche bag ex bf’s account.)

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    • jimie 4 months ago

      3rd time posted!
      A great Aunt of mine recently passed away at the grand old age of 103, she loved her Facebook account and we had to close it down using these steps.
      Someone re-opened the account and defaced all her pictures!
      Her mother has made a formal complaint to Facebook, it’s wrong how people think this is funny!

    • jimie 4 months ago

      A great Aunt of mine recently passed away at the grand old age of 103, she loved her Facebook account and we had to close it down using these steps.
      Someone re-opened the account and defaced all her pictures!
      Her mother has made a formal complaint to Facebook, it’s wrong how people think this is funny! http://www.jimbase.com/facebook-when-you-die/

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    • anonymous 4 months ago

      They changed it now, so you now have to upload a death certificate or proof from an authority.

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    • A.Leigh 4 months ago

      I don’t understand why everyone gets so worked up on these kinds of articles about how *awful* it is that you’re telling people how to do it. Listen, this is the internet. If he posted an article saying you could do it with no insight into how, anyone who felt like trying it could simply Google it and know how in thirty seconds. And obviously people have already figured out how to do it, or we wouldn’t be talking about it. Anyone who wants to do it is going to, whether they explain how it works or not. As for the issue itself, I feel like maybe the person trying to log in should flag it as a possible mistake to begin with. Dead people don’t usually log into Facebook (though of course it is possible that it’s someone else).

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    • Beckysaurus-Rex 4 months ago

      Just submitted this for my friend. Photoshopped some pictures of a funeral. Got loads of people involved. Thanks for making my Friday night!!

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    • lissaa 4 months ago

      And while you so irresponsibly give the instructions on how to harass someone by DEactivating their account without their permission, you do not give them the instructions as to how to reactivate it. How incredibly damaging this can be to teens who will randomly, and probably with widespread glee, pick on their targets in ways unforeseen to those kids. Buzzfeed, you’ve messed up big time. Again, either take down this article, or provide warnings that it is harassment. And for the sake of decency, give instructions as to how to recover the accounts!

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