A Joke About “Three Wives” Re-Ignites Jewish, Muslim Tensions At California College
A student at the University of California, San Diego posed in a keffiyeh, infuriating Muslim classmates. Now the campus is reckoning with a bitter divide on Israel, a deleted article in the student newspaper, and a conservative Israeli politician coming to town. [Updated]
The photo went up Sunday night on a student’s Facebook page: Ashton Cohen was posing, one of the women in the image wrote jokingly, with his “three wives,” a campus paper reported.
And the photo and caption ignited the latest skirmish in the bitter proxy war over Israel and Palestine, Jews and Arabs, that has raged for years on campus at the University of California San Diego and its sister schools. It also offered a glimpse into the rawness of communal campus tensions, with Arab-American students calling it part of a pattern of racism, while the student in the picture called the outraged responses a ploy to “tarnish” him for his support of Israel.
“I was offended and disgusted that someone would think that was OK to wear to a party,” Noor El-Annan, a member of the Arab Student Union and Students for Justice in Palestine, told the student newspaper.
Cohen “didn’t even acknowledge that it might offend somebody — something that my grandmother might have worn was funny to him.”
Muslims on Campus, complained Amal Dalmar, a co-chair of the Student Affirmative Action Committee, to the paper, “are not even seen as individuals, and it’s [seen as] OK because they’re not from here.”
Cohen told BuzzFeed he never intended to offend anyone, and that he simply decided to wear an outfit he’d purchased on a recent trip to Dubai to a campus costume party, where the photo was taken. He also said that two of the women in the picture, including the one who initially posted the photo to Facebook, were Muslim, and that they were “mystified” when others found the image offensive.
Cohen says he received “harassing” messages and verbal attacks from El-Annan and others, including several Facebook messages calling him racist and implying that he should be impeached from his position as senator on UCSD’s Associated Students council.
And he says all this is about more than just the photo: he says students with anti-Israel leanings have resented him ever since he spoke out against a resolution to divest UCSD of holdings in companies that do business with Israel. That resolution ultimately failed, and he thinks many students blame him. The photo, he says, was “a convenient way to tarnish me.”
Mock Israeli checkpoint at UCSD, posted by Michelle Zousmer. Via: plus.google.com
Debate between supporters of Israel and its critics has become increasingly bitter at UCSD over the past year. In April 2011, twenty-eight faculty members wrote an open letter, published as a paid ad in the UCSD Guardian, in which they argued that the “muted reaction” of Arab and Muslim groups to the Arab Spring uprisings showed that their on-campus activism was “driven less by positive impulses of fraternity toward fellow Arabs and Muslims than by hateful impulses to destroy the world’s only sovereign Jewish nation.” Thirty other professors then responded with an open letter of their own arguing that “such intemperate and inflammatory prose by a group of professors targeting three student groups identified by their Arab/Palestinian ethnicity and Muslim religion is unacceptable” and that the authors of the first letter were trying to bully students and stifle debate.
Then in February 2012, the Student Affirmative Action Committee accused professor Shlomo Dubnov, one of the signatories of the first letter, of harassing Noor El-Annan after the divestment vote. In an email to several UCSD administration officials titled “Students of Color Attacked on Wednesday 2/29,” students from the affirmative action committee, Students for Justice in Palestine, and the Muslim Student Association claim that Dubnov followed El-Annan out of the divestment meeting “to verbally attack her and to tell her that her narrative about surviving bombings in Lebanon was ‘cheap and ridiculous.’” The email also alleged that a university staff member had called students of color at the meeting “pieces of shit” and said she “would rather work at another university because of [us].”
Dubnov told BuzzFeed he’d never actually spoken to El-Annan, and that her accusations were part of “a new intimidation trend by pro-Palestinian groups that is meant to silence voices of anyone opposing demonization and delegitimization of Israel.” He said he had in fact encouraged the university to investigate the incident so his name could be cleared — the UCSD Office of Prevention of Harassment and Discrimination did clear him of all charges.
Controversy continued into April, when Students for Justice in Palestine staged a mock “Israeli checkpoint” on campus, including some members dressed as Israeli soldiers. Cohen said of that event, “as a Jewish student I’m offended and disgusted that SJP students think it’s OK to dress up as Israeli soldiers, physically and verbally harass students, and actively portray Israelis as aggressive and abusive.”
Mock Israeli checkpoint at UCSD. Via: plus.google.com
After the initial burst of outrage, El-Annan and campus Muslim groups didn’t respond to an inquiry from BuzzFeed.
The Muslim Student Association did issue a statement on March 17 asking the UC system as a whole “to seek consultation on diversity initiatives with groups that fight for the civil liberties of Muslims, Arabs, and all marginalized communities (other than the Anti-Defamation League and the Museum of Tolerance) in order to create a safe campus climate for all students attending UCs.”
The Guardian, meanwhile, has removed its original article from its main website. A staffer at the paper said it will explain its decision in an editorial Thursday.
Meanwhile, tensions around Israeli and Palestinian politics continue to plague the entire UC system. UC President Mark Yudof issued a letter to the whole UC community in March, condemning UC Davis students who allegedly accused Israeli soldiers who came to speak on campus of being linked to “rapists and murderers,” as well as vandals who wrote “terrorists” across an Israeli flag at UC Riverside. The UCSD Muslim Student Association, for their part, said this letter showed “President Yudof has chosen to silence pro-Palestine activism at UC campuses.”
UCSD students from the group Tritons for Israel. Via: swuconnect.com
Israel’s hawkish Deputy Foreign Minister Danny Ayalon is scheduled to speak at UCSD Thursday. Pro-Israel group StandWithUs said in a press release about the Cohen photo that university officials are concerned about disruptions at the talk.
The UCSD Office of Communications and Public Affairs has yet to comment on the issue. But given Ayalon’s appearance and the publication of the Guardian editorial on the Cohen incident, Thursday is bound to be a tense day on campus.
Update: Thursday’s editorial by Guardian editor Angela Chen contains an apology for the initial article about the Cohen photo, saying it improperly politicized El-Annan’s criticisms and also portrayed Cohen in an unfairly negative way. Cohen also has a guest editorial in the paper today, reiterating his position that criticisms of his costume were in fact “politically motivated.”
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mattc42 a year agoIt’s amazing that, with all the letters, writings, and back-and-forth debate, the real issue is totally missing! And it’s the essential reason that the Israeli-Palestinian conflict never gains any traction towards improvement: Each side is so polarized and ideological that an honest, open discussion is impossible to achieve. Muslim groups (and liberal “justice” groups) HAVE, in fact, been virtually silent regarding human rights’ abuses perpetuated by Arab dictators. And Israeli defenders have refused to acknowledge that legitimate claims of oppression, violence and religious supremacy drive much of Israel’s current policy; not all criticism of Israeli policies are based on “hate towards Jews” or the “discrimination towards the only Jewish nation.” The sad part is that the real victims are all but ignored so that student groups and professors can display faux-outrage and feel important. What is all this doing to curb settlers from taking more land in the West Bank (under the claim of religious right)? How is this stopping the execution of gay Iranians for simply being themselves? That’s the point: This academic and meaningless “outrage” is accomplishing nothing of any value. And then we wonder why every peace plan fails?
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MrFoster a year agoJesus, this whining about discrimination & disrepect from every Tom, Dick & Harry is tiresome. Jews have been on the North American continent since colonial times, Islamists only relatively recently. Maybe if the Muslim world hadn’t shown such hostility toward the West for so many centuries, Muslims would be more well received in the U.S.
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Moidi a year agoEasily offended people are the best source of my amusement. Don’t like it? Tough shit. The day they outlaw offending people is the day the first amendment is repealed from the constitution. And… pattern of racism? The racism card? Seriously? If I wear a kilt does that suddenly make me racist toward Scottish people? Would it have been acceptable if he was of Arabic descent? Are certain articles of clothing reserved only for those populations known for wearing them first/most? Hipster racism? What the fuck is wrong with these retards?
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nonatitania a year agoI go to UCSD and I cant tell you its really awkward how much tension there is between these two groups. I don’t know any one personally in either of these groups so this is all just based on observation from a far. They’ll post their club poster over one another’s. They’ll purposely set up their tents next to each other during a club fair just so they can argue. For example, If the Palestinian poster says something negative about Israelis and how they take Palestinians rights and the Israeli club poster (RIGHT next to it - maybe even covering it slightly) is defending the exact attack the other poster has. And the weirdest part is that they’re just trying to advertise a club meeting, so there’s always “free pizza” after their pettiness.
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newu1069 a year agoThank God he was not posing as an Afghan with dancing boys around him!! Or a Filipino maid being sexual harassed by her Saudi master. Or one of the Indian squeegee team members that do the ‘menial’ labor of the mosque in Medina. Or a Pakistani man throwing ‘mock’ acid on one of those girls faces!!!
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cap_gun_girl a year agoI guess this gives me right to be offended by the “shit girls say” videos.
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Amir Sharar a year agoHow about a joke that references women as property of men, as per Jewish law? The same law practiced in the Israeli occupied territories?
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