back to top

This Woman Can't Get Married Until She Makes Her Boyfriend 300 Sandwiches

"Women read all these magazines to get advice on how to keep a man, and it’s so easy. Just do something nice for us. Like make a sandwich.”

Posted on

Smith writes on her blog:

Some might say the idea is sexist. "A woman in the kitchen—how Stepford Wife of you!" a friend argued. I say come over for dinner, and watch E [Eric] whip up roasted duck breast with a balsamic and currant sauce with a roasted parsnip puree and shaved pickled beets in no time, and you'll see who spends more time in the kitchen.

Some say I'm just desperate to get engaged. Hardly. I don't have to be. E didn't say "cook me 300 sandwiches or I'm leaving you!" He gave me a challenge—a dare, to some degree—and the type-A, Tracy Flick side of me can't stand being challenged. I will prove to him and the rest of the world I can make the 300 sandwiches.

Contact Ali Vingiano at

Got a confidential tip? Submit it here.