Buzz·Posted on 23 Jun 201617 Really Helpful Things You Need To Hear If You're Going Through A BreakupYou will NOT always feel this way.by Tolani ShoneyeBuzzFeed Staff, UKLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail We recently asked the BuzzFeed Community for their best advice for dealing with a bad breakup. Here’s what they had to say. 1. A clean break is the best break. View this photo on Instagram 2. Focus on YOURSELF! View this photo on Instagram 3. Don't be the 'crazy ex'. View this photo on Instagram 4. You will not always feel this way. View this photo on Instagram 5. You don't need to be validated. View this photo on Instagram 6. Don't set any sort of timeline for yourself on when you should be over your ex. 7. Watch 500 Days of Summer! Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. Let yourself be sad. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. Unfriend them on everything! Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 10. Try writing your feelings down. View this photo on Instagram 11. Break your routine and shake things up. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 12. Stop holding out hope that you will get back together. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. Ask for help when you need it. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 14. Take a shower. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. Indulge in your favourite food. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 16. Find joy in laughing. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 17. Always remember you are enough. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Be sure to follow the BuzzFeed community on Facebook and Twitter for your chance to be featured in future BuzzFeed posts.