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I am moving closer to my job, hopefully. currently my commute is over an hour each way and I have put enough miles on my car. being able to move also implies that I hit my financial goal as well: I first need to be able to save up.

you just finished college and moved back home. you are now under her roof. you can't afford to do something like this which would damage your relationship with her. don't fight the hand that feeds you, as they say. secondly, he may be a creep who is much too old for you, but the… Read More

wether thd newphew is a miracle or not, OP's wedding equals OPs rules. it seems OP and his special lady are on the right track now by learning to stand up for what they want from the very beginning. don't be surprised, however, if their nephew makes an appearance at the wedding… Read More

I am going to disagree with Stephen here. she has a few issues in her relationship: 1. whatever reason she want through his phone in the first place (jealous? paranoia?) 2. he does cocaine occasionally 3. he is keeping the drug use a secret instead of attempting to solve the problem… Read More

don't be silly. regardless of whose tradition it is to wear blush, it's her wedding, her dress, her day. she should wear what she wants. MIL needs to mind her own business and learn it's not all about her and what she thinks is traditional. can't believe MIL caused an issue with… Read More

dump this "man." He should have accepted you as you were and made you feel beautiful before surgery. not only did he not do that--one of the most important thinfs a fiancee should do for you--he bullied you into getting surgery and allowed him family to do the same. now that you… Read More

let them spoil you. thats what grandparents are supposed to do for their grandkids. No need to pass up a chance to have a wonderful relationship with loving grandparents just because of a deadbeat who isn't in your life and isn't worth your time anyway. secondly, it's the literally… Read More

I will disagree with Stephen here. He is not worth one second of her time ever again, not even to get closure and ask hard questions. If he lied during their relationship, he will lie now, if he even answers at all. If he does answer, she may just view anything he says with skepticism,… Read More

if he is pressuring you to buy a house right now (especially if he says his name has to be on the deed), head for the hills. He is only with you for the money.

Yeah, what this person said, number 33. thats no man, that is a manipulatice monster.