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BuzzFeed Staff

Frappuccino people always need attention, but black coffee people are way too judgy.

A pink drink labeled "bad at listening" and a nitro cold brew labeled "bad at vulnerability"

It's Pretty Easy To Tell What Bad Behavior You Need To Fix Based On How You Order At Starbucks

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You probably pride yourself on being a realist, but honestly, your negativity is just bringing you down and holding you back. Being realistic is fine, but you're not improving your life by not allowing yourself to dream or hope for the best. It's even okay to be a little unrealistic sometimes. So did we get this right? Or is this totally not you, but maybe someone else you know?

your cynicism

You love attention, whether that means being the focal point in a crowded room or just getting one person to only look at you.  But that attention doesn't necessarily always translate to positive relationships. You need to allow yourself to consider the needs of others more and to consider other ways you can find positive validation in your relationships. So did we get this right? Or is this totally not you, but maybe someone else you know?

your obsession with attention

You're an intense person who claims to "tell it like it is." In reality, you're just revealing details about yourself that seem intimate to avoid having to talk about really intimate things like your feelings. People knowing TMI facts about you isn't the same as people really knowing you as a person. Be open about your true feelings. So did we get this right? Or is this totally not you, but maybe someone else you know?

real vulnerability

You have this nasty habit of interrupting other people, but even worse than that, you tend to tune out when people are talking to you. You listen with the intention of responding rather than actually trying to understand. It's basically more like waiting to speak rather than an actual conversation, and you'll forge much stronger friendships by actively listening more. So did we get this right? Or is this totally not you, but maybe someone else you know?

listening

Whenever a conversation gets too heavy for you, especially if it seems like you might need to be vulnerable to really engage, you tend to make jokes. You like to joke a lot in general, but you're using those jokes to avoid anyone seeing you be vulnerable. You should just be more honest. So did we get this right? Or is this totally not you, but maybe someone else you know?

your use of humor to avoid intimacy

You've met enough people in your life to start deciding what you think based on vibes and a few details. While that's a fine metric to use to find close friends, you tend to jump to looking down on people for small things. You should try to be a little more open and empathetic when people act in a way that's strange to you. So did we get this right? Or is this totally not you, but maybe someone else you know?

your tendency to judge others

You really like to be liked, which in itself isn't the worst thing. The problem is that you're so willing to change to make other people like you that nobody really knows the real you. Whether or not people like it, you need to be more honest about who you are. You deserve love without changing who you are fundamentally. So did we get this right? Or is this totally not you, but maybe someone else you know?

It's Pretty Easy To Tell What Bad Behavior You Need To Fix Based On How You Order At Starbucks

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