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Do You Know How To Support A Loved One With Depression?

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  1. Your best friend Matt is a high-achieving high school student. He has plenty of friends and a stable family life but has recently withdrawn socially, started skipping football practice and seems to lack energy and motivation. What do you do?

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    A. Don’t say anything. Matt might think you are being nosy and get angry if you point out the change in his behavior.
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    B. Tell Matt’s parents or another trusted adult about his behavior and let them deal with it.
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    C. Gently point out the change in Matt’s behavior and ask him how he’s doing. Be positive and patient with him and offer to listen even if he insists that nothing is wrong.
  2. You and Annie have been dating for two years, but over the past 6 months she has become extremely depressed. She is so reliant on you for emotional support that you are falling behind in school and isolating yourself from your friends. What do you do?

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    A. Don’t break up with her. She’s too fragile and her depression might worsen if you leave.
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    B. Break up with her and explain that her emotional distress was too overbearing for you to deal with.
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    C. Be empathetic and choose a time to break up with Annie in person, explaining your reasoning clearly and kindly. Encourage Annie to seek treatment for her depression. Offer to continue a supportive friendship after some time has passed.
  3. Your sister has had depression since early adolescence. She has been prescribed Zoloft to treat her depression. She suddenly decided to stop taking her medication and has been particularly irritable lately. What do you do?

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    A. Nothing. She might get angry with you if you meddle and it’s not worth the fight.
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    B. Encourage her to take her medicine, but if she doesn’t listen accept that she’ll just have to deal with the consequences.
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    C. Ask her why she has stopped taking her medication. Encourage her to keep her psychiatrist in the loop if she feels a need to change the dosage of her medicine or discontinue taking it. Remind her how much you love her and offer a listening ear.
  4. An acquaintance of yours has recently confided in you about his depression. He tells you that sometimes he thinks of committing suicide but asks you not to tell anyone. What do you do?

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    A. Stay quiet and try to forget what he has told you. Out of sight, out of mind.
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    B. Offer him emotional support, but don’t break his confidence. It’s important that he knows he can trust you.
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    C. Offer to connect him with a medical professional who can help. Continue to be supportive and empathetic.
  5. You notice your best friend has marks that look like cuts on her wrists. She has been really quiet and withdrawn lately, and now you’re concerned for her physical health. What do you do?

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    A. Nothing. Invading her privacy could hurt your friendship.
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    B. Approach her with caution but if she doesn’t want help, back off.
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    C. Tell her you noticed the marks on her wrist and ask her how she is feeling. Offer to connect her to medical professionals. Remind her how much her happiness means to you and continue to check in after the initial confrontation.
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