Celebrity·Posted on Sep 8, 2020Michelle Obama Said "You Can't Tinder Your Way Into A Long-Term Relationship," And A Lot Of People Begged To DifferOr...can you?by Syd RobinsonBuzzFeed StaffFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink Just as she's about to celebrate her 28th(!!!!!!) wedding anniversary with her hubby Barack, Michelle Obama decided to offer some dating advice on her most recent episode of the Michelle Obama Podcast — and THANK GOD, RIGHT??!?!!? Spotify / Higher Ground Conan O'Brien, who's been married for 18 years himself, joined her on the episode to talk all things marriage and relationships. Brendan Smialowski / Getty Images Mostly, Michelle and Conan spent the time addressing how all relationships require real work — Michelle even likened choosing a spouse to "picking your basketball team." View this photo on Instagram Michelle Obama / instagram.com "You want everybody on your team to be strong, right? You don’t want any weak links, you don’t want somebody that you can dominate," she said. While they gave A LOT of great advice, there was one thing that made a lot of listeners scratch their heads — when Michelle said, "You can't Tinder your way into a long-term relationship." Scott Olson / Getty Images Her direct quote was: "There’s no magic way to make that happen except getting the basics of finding somebody, being honest about wanting to be with them, to date them seriously, to plan on making a commitment, to date them, seeing where it goes, and then making it happen. You can’t Tinder your way into a long-term relationship." So when People Magazine tweeted out their article about her quote, uh... People @people Michelle Obama Gives Dating Advice: 'You Can't Tinder Your Way into a Long-Term Relationship' https://t.co/n4qSFp5eT7 07:20 PM - 06 Sep 2020 Reply Retweet Favorite ...let's just say a lot of people lit up the responses and begged to differ. Diamond K @misskwiatt @people i met my mans on tinder and we just had our one year. Michelle ily but w all due respect but you got wifed up long before tinder existed 01:13 AM - 08 Sep 2020 Reply Retweet Favorite Ashlen @ItsAshlen Me: found my boyfriend of 2.5+ years on Tinder. We bought a condo this summer and are currently looking at engagement rings sooooo idk what to tell you @MichelleObama but i think i did just fine off Tinder 😏🥰 https://t.co/DwGCmFOzSt 01:35 PM - 08 Sep 2020 Reply Retweet Favorite Jasmine @JasmineDaisy05 @people I beg to disagree @MichelleObama My husband and I are going on 4 years strong, after meeting on Tinder♥️ 11:54 PM - 06 Sep 2020 Reply Retweet Favorite Wakanda Forever @ButerflySamurai @people Tinder can be good! 02:50 AM - 08 Sep 2020 Reply Retweet Favorite Sacia Matthews ARI MORE $$ @rieannanicolle @people Met on tinder! 2 years strong 🤪 that’s my bestie 02:40 PM - 08 Sep 2020 Reply Retweet Favorite Now, I'm sure Michelle meant it as more of a metaphor, implying that love takes a lot more than just a swipe, but I mean, why are people still hating on online dating in 2020?!?!?! Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF CBS / giphy.com Love you though, Michelle!!!!!!!! So what do you think? Can you actually "Tinder your way into a long-term relationship"? Let us know in the comments!!! Listen to the full podcast episode here.