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    "It's Perfectly Normal" — The Puberty Book From The '90s — Was Totally Hot

    Eight-year-old Me: I...I think I have to...pee?

    Does...does anyone else remember this book?

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    Well, according to the sticker on the cover, It's Perfectly Normal was "The Definitive Book About Puberty and Sexual Health for Today's Kids and Teens" back in the late-'90s and early-'00s.

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    So look, I'm just gonna get it out in the open — It's Perfectly Normal was the first thing that ever made me feel horny. And you know what?! I CAN'T BE ALONE IN THIS!!!!!!!!

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    It gave tweens our first glimpses into puberty: a "gross" — actually really freakin’ exciting but we didn’t want to admit that, so we said "gross" — time in our young lives!!!

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    It's Perfectly Normal was actually how I first learned what heterosexual sex was. From this very illustration, to be exact!!!

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    Eight-year-old me was like, OMG. I...I think I have to...pee...?

    Like, when you've spent your first eight years on this earth watching VHS tapes of The Land Before Time and reading Junie B. Jones books, this sh*t right here was downright CARNAL.

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    And does anyone else remember these little characters* that were always sounding off in the margins???

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    *Now that I'm older, I've just realized that they're ~the birds and the bees~. How about that?!

    And when they taught us that "masturbation" was just another big word?

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    I'd lay awake at night, just like this illustration from the masturbation chapter, thinking about all the wondrous, peculiar, ***TOP-SECRET THINGS*** I had just read in this book.

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    It's Perfectly Normal gave us all a term that would forever help define how we were feeling.

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    WE WERE "FEELING SEXY"!!! And guess what?! "FEELING SEXY" IS — say it with me now — PERFECTLY 👏 NORMAL. 👏

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    But in all seriousness — and my prepubescent horndog feelings aside — It's Perfectly Normal was and is a really accessible, informative book for kids learning about sexual health. And looking back on it as an adult, I do highly recommend it for educational purposes.

    It just also happened to get me (and select early-'00s kids) "feeling sexy." Bye!!!

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