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    17 Things You'll Understand If You're Basically Your Friends' Therapist

    "And how does that make you feel?"

    1. You live for drama.

    When you're the designated therapist in your friend group:

    2. But seeing your friends upset breaks your heart.

    3. You're everybody's hype man.

    IF YOUR BEST FRIEND'S NOT YOUR HYPE MAN YOU NEED A NEW BEST FRIEND πŸ’—

    Your pep talks are UN- πŸ‘ MATCHED. πŸ‘

    4. You study up when you can...

    I'm watching relationship videos just so I can help my friends with their relationship drama. I'm like the therapist for my friend group.

    5. ...and you have a long queue of uplifting TED Talks you constantly send your friends links to.

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    You swear by BrenΓ© Brown.

    6. Sometimes you really have to keep yourself from dishing out some tough love, though.

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    7. But you do try to approach things realistically.

    8. No problem is too great, and you're always up for a challenge.

    Analyzing my friend's emotional problems so I can give them the best advice and support possible

    9. You proofread all of your friends' ~lengthy~ texts to their significant others.

    10. You give the best hugs.

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    11. You get too emotionally involved in your friends' problems.

    When someone hurts my best friend's feelings, me:

    12. You probably don't take your own advice though.

    13. You're v emotionally involved in your friends' relationships.

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    You may be the third wheel, but you're the wheel that keeps it all running.

    14. You've gotten really good at ~guiding~ your friends to their own realizations.

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    15. You're always just a call, text, or FaceTime away.

    16. Sometimes you get tired of all the drama, but you still love knowing everyone's business.

    17. But in the end, you really just love helping your friends.

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