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A Mom Is Sharing Selfies With Her Ileostomy Bag To Inspire Others To Love Themselves

"Our scars and our ostomies are our battle wounds we should be wearing with pride."

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Miller said she got the diagnosis after being sick for a "long time."

"I barely finished [sophomore year] as I was so sick," she said. "I was sleeping 22 hours a day and was very skinny. I would often have accidents where I wouldn't make it to the toilet."

"Previous to having my surgery, I was about to lose my job, my relationships weren't very good, and I couldn't live like a normal 22-year-old," she said. "It was hard. I felt like I was dying slowly, like I was rotting from the inside out."


"Having an Ileostomy has given me the opportunity to live my life," she said. "I've gotten to travel the world, work full time, have a family, and be just me. Having a bag does not and should not stop you from loving yourself and being exactly who you want to be."


On the page, Miller shares snapshots from her life and selfies with a bag. She also talks openly about what it is like to live with a bag, such as in this post about feeling sexy.

"My hubby I told I had a bag on our second date," she wrote. "He never cared and still doesn't! Hes never made me feel anything but sexy."

One of the biggest misconceptions women may have, Miller said, is that they can't deliver a child naturally with a bag, and she hopes to be a positive example that they can.

She is also aiming to help end the stigma against talking openly about bowel diseases.

"Our scars and our ostomies are our battle wounds we should be wearing with pride," Miller said. "I believe these 'invisible' illnesses shouldn't be hidden and we need to talk about it more. There is no shame in having a bowel disease and/or an ostomy."

"I am so honored to be able to do this and to be received so well," she said.

Stephanie McNeal is a social news editor for BuzzFeed News and is based in New York.

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