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    Two Gay Virgins Answer The Question: Why Are You Saving Yourself For Marriage?

    "I'm saving myself for marriage because I think it's the right thing to do."

    In her recent video, YouTuber Areille Scarcella attempts to find out if, like many religious heterosexual couples, there are gay virgins out there saving themselves until marriage.

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    "It's not something that the gay community often hears about," notes Arielle.

    She asked two gay men, both virgins waiting until marriage to have sex, a series of questions from viewers.

    The first: Are you religious?

    The biggest question: WHY?

    "I believe [sex] is a lot more than an act of pleasure."

    "You should have the right to go out and have all the sex you want before you get married. You should also have that same right to say, 'You know what? I want to wait.'"

    Next question: What if you wait, but it turns out you waited for the wrong person?

    "That's why people like me save sex for marriage and not for 'I kinda like you.'"

    "Okay, but what if it still doesn't work out? Sure, that happens. Well then we're really getting into the moral question of divorce... suffice it to say, there are some situations where I would probably seek remarriage."

    "You can't think like that." You can only say: This is what is important to me."

    In the comment section of the video, Arielle asked viewers to respond with what age they lost their virginity at:

    Which brought up this point:

    Watch the full video here.