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    Posted on Apr 16, 2017

    The Hardest Part About Having A Queer Crush

    *Stalks her Instagram back to 2008*

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    Look, we've all been there. You meet your new coworker, classmate, or neighbor, and boom — there are instant sparks.

    (Well, on your end anyway.)

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    But then comes the hard part... figuring out if they would even be interested in you.

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    For queer ladies, this might require a little groundwork.

    You go full-on recon mode. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter — you have to find the truth.

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    (Because just striking up a conversation with them would be too easy.)

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    No seriously, this is not easy information to come across.

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    IS SHE OR ISN'T SHE!?

    Is that her cat or her roommates? Who is that girl in all her photos? Are they friends or more? Has she ever been to a U.S. Women's soccer game!?

    *Begins down social media death spiral*

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    Because, once again, just approaching your crush is out of the question until you have the facts.

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    Right?

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    Guys, right!?

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