28 Stages Every Baby Gay Goes Through
I'm here, I'm queer, and I have no idea what I'm doing.
First of all, being a baby gay has nothing to do with age or specific orientation. It's a state of being.
It's that magical time after you've come out to yourself, and probably your loved ones as well – where you feel reborn and ready to conquer the new world that has opened its doors to you!
Only problem? You're completely clueless.
1. In fact, you have no idea just how much you don't know.
2. You just got used to saying the word out loud, now you have to go BE it?
3. It feels as if a pop quiz is about to dropped on you at any moment, and of course you're painfully unprepared.
4. You find yourself googling things in a cold sweat in the middle of the night.
5. You soon realize that maybe an internet search is not always the best place to find answers.
6. You find yourself getting weepy at Pride events. WHY IS YOUR FACE WET?
7. The combination of anxiety and excitement is overwhelming.
8. You're not sure where exactly you fit in – do you have to choose?
9. Your gaydar isn't just out of whack, it's nonexistent.
10. It's as if as soon as you're ready to be out there, nobody can see you!
11. You go to great lengths to be more visible, even if that means you aren't really being yourself.
12. When you finally get to a gay bar, you feel as if everyone knows it's your first time.
13. You stress over saying the right thing.
14. You're excited and ready to explore. OK, maybe a little too excited...
... and maybe you come on a little strong.
15. You check the mail every day, but no manual on flirting has arrived yet. You fear it never will.
16. The lack of social script is freaking you out.
17. Are you supposed to buy a drink for someone else or just stand here until someone buys you one?
18. Odds are, you get completely wasted and make a fool of yourself.
19. You try out online dating, figuring that will be a low-stress way to meet new people.
"Only into masc, musc white guys. Pics required to chat." Oh? Nah.