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17 Rom-Com Men People Realized Weren't Romantic At All And Actually Total Trash

We were supposed to be rooting for these guys?!

We asked the BuzzFeed Community to share which rom-com leading men they realized were actually trash, and they made some pretty fair points. See for yourself:

Warning: Some submissions include discussions of sexual assault.

1. Sam Coulson in Never Been Kissed, when he hit on Josie even though he thought she was A MINOR.

Sam telling Josie men will be lining around the block for her when she's "his age," and that he shouldn't be telling her that because he's her teacher.

2. Blane McDonough in Pretty in Pink, when he didn't want his friends to know he was dating Andie because her family was poor.

Andie demanding that Blane admit that he's embarrassed to be seen with her, and Blane claiming that she doesn't understand, and that it has nothing to do with her.

3. Everett Stone in The Family Stone, when he let Meredith get bullied by his family.

4. Eric Messer in Life as We Know It, when he was a jerk to Holly for no reason.

Messer asking, "Am I late?" to his date with Holly and Holly responding, "Um, just an hour."

5. Joe Fox in You've Got Mail, when he knew Kathleen was Shopgirl but continued to treat her badly.

6. Tom in 500 Days of Summer, when he wouldn't accept that Summer didn't want a relationship.

Summer telling Tom that she like's him but just doesn't want a relationship, and Tom completely flying off the handle.

7. Danny Zuko in Grease, when he tried to force himself on Sandy.

Danny forcing himself on top of Sandy in the car and Sandy screaming at him to get off of her.

8. Chris Brander in Just Friends, when he tried to pull the "friend zone" card over and over again.

Jamie asking Chris why he keeps messing with her head, and him responding: "you've been torturing me since the sixth grade!"

9. Dex in Something Borrowed, when he constantly cheated on Darcy with Rachel, aka her best friend.

Dex and Rachel waking up in bed together, Darcy leaving a voicemail saying she thinks Dex is cheating, and Dex assuring Rachel he'll tell her he was with his friend Marcus.

10. Noah Calhoun in The Notebook, when he manipulated Allie into going out with him, among many, MANY other things.

11. Nick Young in Crazy Rich Asians, when he lied by omission to Rachel about his wealth and status right up until she was about to meet his parents.

Nick responding, "We're comfortable" when Rachel asks him if his family is rich.

12. Michael O'Neal in My Best Friend's Wedding, when he convinced Kimmy to drop out of college so she could follow him around for his job.

Jules telling Michael that Kimmy's making a huge sacrifice, while Michael brushes it off.

13. Steve Edison in The Wedding Planner, when he pursued Mary even though he's already engaged, and she's the one planning his wedding.

Steve and Mary leaning in to kiss.

14. Jake Perry in Sweet Home Alabama, when he refused to divorce Melanie out of pride.

15. Agent Eric Matthews in Miss Congeniality, when he chose to show interest in Gracie by being a total dick to her.

Eric telling Gracie she should go some "shaping exercises" and slapping her ass.

16. Aaron Samuels in Mean Girls, when he flip-flopped between Cady and Regina.

Aaron kissing Regina, and then Aaron kissing Cady.

17. And finally, Zack Siler in She's All That, when he didn't tell Laney about the gross bet he made with his friends until he was exposed.

Laney asking Zack, "am I a bet?" And Zack responding, "yes".

Submissions have been edited for length/clarity.

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