When I was a kid, I looked forward to a certain night. A night where I stayed up for hours and hours talking about nothing and everything with a man. I had it in my head that if I found a man I was able to do this with, he would be the one. I just knew it.
Took me 31 years to find him but I found him. It was the second date. I had been hesitant to go after the first date because he just seemed to sappy for me and I was a cynical female who thought al men were evil and I would never find love.
He took me on a picnic up Mt Lemmon. And we were there for about 7 hours with each other. Eating, taking, looking at the stars once the sun went down. We talked about everything and nothing at all. It was the fullest, purest, most wonderful conversation I ever had with someone. 2 weeks later we said “I love you”. I moving in officially in a couple of months and I know in my heart he’s it. Im going to marry this man ❤
After 31 years of thinking “the one” didn’t exist, making the biggest mistakes when it came to men, and never having said the words “I love you” to a man, I found him. It was a “weekend of dates” for me and I met him the night after a particularly bad one. I had no high expectations and was honestly just excited for the free food at one of my favorite restaurants. So glad I went, because he’s been sweeping me off my feet ever since. I’m so excited about my forever with him ❤️
Response to Show Us Your Colorful Tattoos:
Over the last 4 years, I have lost almost 140lbs - and for a long time I never associated my 274b self with my 147b self. There was this insane disconnect between the two. This tattoo is my way of accepting and loving both parts of myself - the girl I was in my most important, formative years and the girl I am now - they are one in the same, just different packaging now.
Response to Got A Dating Problem? I’m Here To Help Fix It!:
I’ve been seeing this guy for the last two months and all seems well when we are together - But he is HORRIBLE at texting/calling - I realize we both have busy lives (I’m a nurse, he’s in law school) but how hard is it to send a text to let me know you are busy! And what about emotion? An “I miss you” would be good. Or compliment my outfit. SOMETHING. God it drives me crazy
- sarahc165 "44 Reasons Why You're Single"