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24 Essential Life Lessons "The Perks Of Being A Wallflower" Taught Us

“Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.”

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1. Life is a complicated whirlwind of emotions.

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2. The bond that you share with your family — whether you get on or not — is unbreakable.

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3. You can feel alone and isolated even when you're surrounded by people.

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4. When someone says they're fine, that doesn't necessarily mean that they are.

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5. Making new friends can seem like a terrifying prospect.

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6. But it's actually a lot easier than you think.

7. It can be intimidating approaching people with big personalities.

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8. But if you pluck up the courage and put yourself out there, you never know what could happen!

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9. True friends will love and accept you for who you are.

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10. And they will embrace your weirdness with open arms.

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11. Music has the power to completely change your mood.

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12. Secret Santa is the BEST THING EVER!!!

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13. "We accept the love we think we deserve." ❤️

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14. Special moments are made even greater when you share them with someone you love.

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15. You can tell someone you'll always be by their side without ever opening your mouth.

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16. An amazing friend will protect you at the worst of times, whatever the cost.

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17. A friendship can always be salvaged with time and effort.

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18. And it is the measure of a strong friendship if you can forgive and forget.

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19. You should find someone who loves you for who you are, not who they would like you to be.

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20. At times, the pain in the world can feel overwhelming.

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21. You must not forget to look after yourself when sharing your love with others.

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22. Often the quietest people have the most to say.

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23. You are the master of your own destiny.

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24. Live in the moment and treasure each day as it comes.

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