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This Cafe Has Annoyed Parents By Telling Them Noisy Children Are Not Welcome

"If they came to my house and behaved like that they wouldn't come back so why should they come back to my café?"

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The owner of The Little French Cafe in Newcastle, Australia, has caused quite the debate after telling parents with noisy children not to come inside.

The Little French Cafe / Via Facebook: TheLittleFrenchCafe

The comments, made in a post on the café's Facebook page on Monday and since deleted, came after the eatery received a one-star review from a customer who asked: "Are you child friendly? – because it doesn’t seem like it."

According to the Newcastle Herald, The Little French Cafe responded:

If you are looking for a cafe with a children's menu, baby chinos, a play area, lounges for your children to jump on, vast space for your prams, an area for your children to run rampant, and annoy other customers, whilst you are oblivious to them – then the short answer is No we are not child friendly.

HOWEVER, if you would like to bring your children here, and they are happy to sit at a table with you, while you enjoy a coffee, and are well behaved, please come in. Otherwise, there are plenty of places that are specifically designed to entertain your children.

The post provoked a heated and mixed response, with some calling it "arrogant" and an "attack on parents", the Herald reported.

The Little French Café / Via Facebook: TheLittleFrenchCafe

But according to news.com.au, others supported the cafe's position.

One women reportedly wrote: “I don’t think there was anything wrong with what you said by any means. You aren’t a child minding facility and if parents want to take their children to your cafe, they need to be responsible for their behaviour. Simple as that."

After the original post was deleted, a second message from the owner of the page appeared.

Facebook: TheLittleFrenchCafe

This is the full post:


Hi everyone -
The post came about because I was questioned by a customer who had left a 1 Star review on my business page stating "are you child friendly - because it doesn't seem like it".
I responded with the post you read above. Yes, it comes across harsh according to some, but I'm a straight shooter.
I say it how it is.
My cafe is in a predominantly business area, hence we are only open Mon-Fri 7am-2.30pm.
I built the cafe myself. It has my blood sweat and plenty of tears in it. It is beautifully decorated, old fireplaces, French furniture, and we use fine old china etc.
I have been subjected to children emptying salt and pepper shakers into my fireplaces, parents changing nappies on my lounges, kids grinding their own food into my carpet, parents sitting babies in nappies in the middle of dining tables, kids running around the cafe like it's a formula 1 track, jumping on the furniture, screaming - just for fun - not pain, and encouraged by their parents, upsetting the rest of the customers and I'd really just had enough.
And yes, I am a mother. A single mother at that. Instead of being a "burden" on society, I scrimped every last penny and put it into this cafe, and I'm very proud of it. When I have to stand there and watch people disrespect and damage MY belongings and property, it breaks a piece of my heart every time.
Some will agree with my stance, some will not, but it's my stance for my business.
Thank you.

Judith Kotz, the woman who left the original one-star review, told news.com.au she left her remarks after seeing staff at the cafe "reacting negatively towards children".

Daily Mail Australia later tracked down the owner of the cafe, Jodie Morris, who said she stood by her comments and revealed business had actually picked up since the Facebook post.

"It's definitely positive but there is also those out there that aren't happy," she said.

"I've never said no they can't come in, I just said they have to be well-behaved.

"If they came to my house and behaved like that they wouldn't come back so why should they come back to my cafe?"

Richard James is acting head of news for BuzzFeed Australia and is based in Sydney.

Contact Richard James at richard.james@buzzfeed.com.

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