regularhumanbartender

for people who don’t have the greatest relationship with their parents, my advice is say what you need to say before they die. get the answers that you need. if you don’t, you will always wonder. my dad was like a physically abusive royal tenenbaum. when i got older and had a choice,… Read More

chris rock knows that hair is a sensitive subject for black women. he literally made a documentary about it. that still does not excuse will smith’s behavior. he could have said something about the joke during his acceptance speech instead of physically assaulting someone.

Every year I remember the time my job gave everyone diarrhea for Christmas. I work for a major corporation and we do not get bonuses on holidays if ever. One year they gave gummy bears to my entire floor (hundreds of people). A lot of my co-workers are muslim and the gummy bears were… Read More

Maybe it’s a Gen X thing but we were raised during the AIDS crisis and condom usage was really hammer into us. All of my friends and I used condoms as young adults. I don’t use them anymore because I’m in a monogamous marriage and my husband has had a vasectomy but I would if I were… Read More

There is a lot more to the story but I don’t want to make it seem like I’m trying to justify what happened. Suffice it to say sometimes people just pick the wrong person. My spouse’s ex remarried very soon after their split and they’re doing well so feel free to feel happy for them… Read More

I’m the bad guy. I hooked up with a friend that I had a crush on for a really long (like 15 years long) time. They were in a really unhappy marriage. I had gotten out of a long, bad relationship not long before this happened so I really was not looking for a relationship. We got together… Read More