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Preity Zinta Faces Victim-Blaming And Skepticism After Reporting Ness Wadia For Abuse

The unfortunate incident surrounding the Bollywood actress has served to illuminate the insensitivity with which gender violence is reported and talked about.

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Reports surfaced Saturday morning that actress Preity Zinta had filed an official police complaint against ex-boyfriend Ness Wadia for assault and molestation.

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According to the Times Of India, Zinta filed an application with the police Thursday night, and it was converted to an FIR on Friday. The report was with regards to an incident that occurred at Mumbai's Wankhade Stadium at around 8:30 p.m. on May 30, when Wadia allegedly manhandled and abused her.

Zinta lodged complaints against Wadia under Indian Penal Code sections 354 (assault or criminal force to woman with intent to outrage her modesty), 504 (intentional insult with intent to provoke breach of the peace), 506 (punishment for criminal intimidation) and 509 (word, gesture or act intended to insult the modesty of a woman).

Under pressure from the National Commission of Women to make an arrest within 24 hours, Mumbai police are investigating CCTV footage from the day of the reported incident, and questioning a list of witnesses provided by Zinta.

While police investigations are underway, several people took to Twitter to accuse Zinta of fabricating this incident as a publicity stunt:

Priety Zinta started her acting career today. . . . . . Nice acting. #PreityNessMess

sanjay r rai @SanjayRRai

Priety Zinta started her acting career today. . . . . . Nice acting. #PreityNessMess

12:40 PM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

1.Call the press. 2.Give scoop news 3.Whole media talking this nonstop. 4.Call Press conf. 5.Appeal for Privacy.#PreityNessMess #PreityZinta

vasant@ashvasant

1.Call the press.
2.Give scoop news
3.Whole media talking this nonstop.
4.Call Press conf.
5.Appeal for Privacy.#PreityNessMess #PreityZinta

12:09 PM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

#PreityNessMess what if this same complaint would have been filed by Ness Wadia earlier Wd the case Wd have been registerd?Victimisation.

Ashoke Pandit@ashokepandit

#PreityNessMess what if this same complaint would have been filed by Ness Wadia earlier Wd the case Wd have been registerd?Victimisation.

10:18 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Others said they're skeptical of Zinta, because she had once been in a consensual relationship with Wadia:

#PreityZinta accusing of molestation by her ex-bf with whom she lived fr years. B**** plz, no one cares u exist or not, Lol. #PreityNessMess

DEV@deejaydev

#PreityZinta accusing of molestation by her ex-bf with whom she lived fr years. B**** plz, no one cares u exist or not, Lol. #PreityNessMess

9:42 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Judge - what was that which made you realize you are being molested ? Preity - when the check bounced ....! #preitynessmess

Jyoti@jyotitiwari05

Judge - what was that which made you realize you are being molested ?
Preity - when the check bounced ....! #preitynessmess

10:00 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

#PreityNessMess y s she complaining now wen she was abused long back?

Mahesh Fattepur@fathepurm

#PreityNessMess y s she complaining now wen she was abused long back?

12:08 PM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Many Crime Against Women today is not about what "happens" but what she "perceives" as a crime. Such r Laws Defined! #PreityNessMess

Deepika Bhardwaj@DeepikaBhardwaj

Many Crime Against Women today is not about what "happens" but what she "perceives" as a crime. Such r Laws Defined! #PreityNessMess

9:38 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

In response, it was noted that this mindset of skepticism regarding abusive relationships is in line with marital rape being non-punishable in India:

Seeing tweets on PZ doing this for badla I understand why marital rape will never make sense to Indians.

Ra Ch Na@raggedtag

Seeing tweets on PZ doing this for badla I understand why marital rape will never make sense to Indians.

10:53 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

People saying Preity Zinta cannot claim to be molested just because she was girlfriend. Still long way to go for marital rape recognition!

StupidosaurOn@Stupidosaur

People saying Preity Zinta cannot claim to be molested just because she was girlfriend. Still long way to go for marital rape recognition!

11:46 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Fact: Most gender violence is committed by friends/family/significant others. Indian mainstream: BUT SHE DATED HIM. WHAT A DRAMA QUEEN.

Rega Jha@RegaJha

Fact: Most gender violence is committed by friends/family/significant others.

Indian mainstream: BUT SHE DATED HIM. WHAT A DRAMA QUEEN.

11:49 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Their characterization of Zinta's attempts at justice as a "mess" has sparked widespread criticism:

Hey @timesnow it is not #PrietyNessMess A women has been sexually harassed here and we are glad she complained. Please die with your Hashtag

Raj Imran@ImranDar_

Hey @timesnow it is not #PrietyNessMess A women has been sexually harassed here and we are glad she complained. Please die with your Hashtag

11:26 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Wonderful job @timesnow. You & your hashtag #PreityNessMess are the prime example of why women in India aren't taken seriously.

Neha@nehizzle1

Wonderful job @timesnow. You & your hashtag #PreityNessMess are the prime example of why women in India aren't taken seriously.

11:59 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Dear @timesnow, what sort of a hashtag is #PreityNessMess?! And you act all righteous when politicians ignore rapes. Utterly disgusting!

Bellyrina@BombayBellyrina

Dear @timesnow, what sort of a hashtag is #PreityNessMess?! And you act all righteous when politicians ignore rapes. Utterly disgusting!

12:03 PM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Good to see that in the midst of all this the media hasn't forgotten it's duty of running chutiya hashtags. #PreityNessMess

Tanmay Bhat@thetanmay

Good to see that in the midst of all this the media hasn't forgotten it's duty of running chutiya hashtags. #PreityNessMess

11:37 AM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

This hashtag #PreityNessMess from @timesnow is a tasteless attempt for TRP by scandalizing the incident. Ridiculous!

India's Century@India_Policy

This hashtag #PreityNessMess from @timesnow is a tasteless attempt for TRP by scandalizing the incident. Ridiculous!

12:27 PM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Dear @timesnow, this #PreityNessMess hashtag is a disgrace to journalism. #shame

Lyndon Pinto@PintoLyndon

Dear @timesnow, this #PreityNessMess hashtag is a disgrace to journalism. #shame

12:51 PM - 14 Jun 14ReplyRetweetFavorite

Zinta released a statement to the media, requesting privacy:

This is a very difficult time for me. I request the media to respect my privacy. My intention isn't to harm any one but only to protect myself.

And published a post via her official Facebook page, explaining her decision to report this case of abuse. It is excerpted below:

I may not be super wealthy and powerful but I have truth by my side and I've worked very hard all my life and tried to earn respect for myself as a self made professional. It saddens me that no one at work or around ever stood up for me in the past when i was abused and insulted publicly. This time i was left with no option but to take this stern step.

Ironically what happened at Wankade is being diluted by every other fabricated story about my character except the truth of what happened. I'm sure the witnesses will speak the truth and i trust and believe that the police will do their job fairly and quickly.

I humbly request the media and my supporters to pls focus on the issue and the incident that happened in Wankade and not turn this and me into a TV soap. This is not easy for me and my intention is not to harm anyone but simply to protect myself and to stand up for myself.

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