1. When she stands up for herself.
2. And doesn't back down.
3. When she dresses up as Amelia Earhart for Halloween.
4. And protests when her daughter wants to dress as Miss California.
5. And Marilyn Monroe.
6. But gives in because she knows when to choose her battles.
And because of this:
7. When she owns her sexuality.
8. And when she's not in the mood.
9. Because she's the breadwinner.
10. When she's not afraid to be the smartest person in the room.
11. When she balances work and family like a pro.
12. When she supports other women.
13. And canvasses for female politicians.
14. When she gets vulnerable.
15. When she leans on Joel for support.
16. When she fights for him.
17. And takes the uncertainty in stride.
18. When she multitasks while weathering Sydney's worst tantrum ever.
19. When she lets loose and dances like no one's watching.
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