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Men Are Answering Explicit Questions Directly From Women, And I Wasn't Expecting Some Of These Responses

"Depends on the guy. Most guys are 100% for it. I am not — at all."

Note: This post contains mentions of explicit sexual content.

Since sex tends to be considered a taboo topic (even though it shouldn't be), it can be difficult to have vulnerable and authentic conversations with the opposite sex.

So to normalize having intimate conversations (whether it has to do with romantic relationships, love, or sex itself), Reddit user u/demideity7 asked women: "What NSFW questions do you have for men that you are too embarrassed to ask in person?"

And not only were the questions interesting, but the answers from the men were incredibly varied and, at times, unexpected. Here's what the men had to say:

1. "What do you seek in foreplay?"

a couple kissing in bed

2. "Does eye contact actually make a difference when we're giving head?"

a couple looking at each other in bed

3. "Does it feel good when a woman grinds? Because it feels hella good for me, but I don't think it does much for guys."

two people holding hands in bed

4. "Is the sex different with a woman you don’t want to see again vs. a woman you do? Is the intimacy different, the lead up, etc?"

a couple in bed together

5. "Does intense focus on career or hobbies negatively affect your sex drive?"

a man rubbing his eye while in bed

6. "When a boner happens, does your penis slowly come up, or does it shoot up straight away?"

a man with his pants down

7. "Does it actually feel good when you’re in doggy and she reaches behind to fondle your balls?"

a couple kissing in bed

8. "How often do you masturbate as you get older?"

a guy laying down on his bed

9. "What do 'blue balls' feel like?"

a man kissing a woman's forehead in bed

10. "Does reverse cowgirl hurt? Am I bending your penis the wrong way and guys are being nice by telling me they like it?"

a couple touching foreheads

11. "Do you have the urge to moan during sexual activity and hold it back due to some societal BS (or some other reason) or do you just not get that urge as much as women? Stereotyping vs. legitimate differences."

a couple cuddlng in bed from the side

12. "How do we know if you like us, romantically?"

a woman hugging a man from behind

Do you have an NSFW question you want men to answer honestly? If so, tell us what it is in the comments below.