18 Readers Share What They've Personally Learned From Feminism

    "To love myself more and to love and accept other women as they are."

    BuzzFeed Brazil asked readers on Facebook about what feminism has personally taught them. Here's what they said:

    Note: responses have been edited for length and clarity.

    1. "To no longer be a voice who judges other women." - Elaine Andrade Barbosa

    2. "That I can be who and what I want. And that I have to respect other women because they can too, and it's all okay." - Emily Souza

    3. "That my current boyfriend's ex is not my enemy." - Catharina Melo

    4. "Feminism has drawn me closer to my girl friends." - Janaina Righi

    5. "To love myself more and to love and accept other women as they are." - Maria Helena Serrão

    6. "That I don't have to treat machismo/toxic masculinity as a joke." - Letícia Dias

    7. "That a feminist is far from what they say: fat, hairy, and sexually frustrated." - Letícia Dias

    8. "And that if she is fat, hairy, and sexually frustrated, there's nothing wrong with that either!" - Elaine Andrade Barbosa

    9. "Feminism has taught me that I own my own body, and it's mine alone. And decisions about it are mine alone to make." - Gabriela Alves

    10. "I have learned that I don't need to be unhappy in order to follow standards imposed by society." - Nina Moratelli

    11. "That a woman who chooses to stay at home to take care of the kids is not any less of a feminist." - Priscilla Zyky

    12. "That I'm not alone!" - Nina Paschoal

    13. "That not all women know what feminism is, and that instead of judging, I must help them." - Camila Silva Moreira

    14. "That abortion must be a decision that is solely and exclusively made by the woman." - Val Martins

    15. "That women who grind while dancing deserve just as much respect as those who go to church." - Larissa Rossi

    16. "That I don't need to have sex with my boyfriend whenever he wants, when I don't want to." - Catharina Melo

    17. "I've learned that I can defend women I don't like." - Rebecca Bittencourt

    18. "That I was always a feminist and didn't know it. - Naglia Almeida

    This post was translated from Portuguese.