26 Stories You Need To Read On Mother's Day
These are stories by and about mothers, mothers-in-law, and grandmothers: the women who gave us our lives and taught us how to live them.
"It was disorienting to realize that I had reached adulthood without really getting to know my own mother. But over a year I spent at home after a bad breakup, I began to see her more clearly."
"The shaved female head is having a cultural moment. But for me it’s always been associated with the BRCA1 gene and the cancer that killed my mother."
"On the morning Diana was killed in that car accident in Paris, I had been back home about a week, still smarting from a bruising summer campaign, but doing a delicate dance to maintain the equilibrium between my mother and me."
"As my Nonna drifts further away, I’m clinging to the physical artifacts that link us."
"For a long time, I didn’t want to be “my mother’s daughter.” But it turns out that, at least when it comes to getting our nails done, I am."
"Every single day since she died, I have wished for my mother back. But I’m glad she won’t be here to witness the next four years, and that she gave me what I need to get through them."
"My mom’s Kashmiri cooking has always tethered me to home. So it’s no wonder she won’t give me (all) the secrets to doing it myself."
"Unlike the women I’m descended from, I don’t need to know how to cook. But I’m grateful, almost every day, that I do."
"Skeptics will tell you that numerology is New Age nonsense. But when my mother and I talk about numbers, we’re really making sense of our own lives."
"After my son was diagnosed with a rare disease that effectively rendered him silent, I learned that listening itself is a form of communication."
"What do you do when the person who wants everything for you doesn’t have everything she needs?"
"Nearing the end of her life, my fiancé’s mom couldn’t make it to our wedding. So we brought the wedding to her."
"The conversation around eating disorders often centers on young girls. As adults still coping with bulimia, for the first time my mom and I talk about our progress, pasts, and enduring anxieties."
"What lessons have we internalized by watching our boomer moms figure out careers, love, and motherhood?"
"Accepting a parent with addiction problems is an extreme sport."
"The woman who devoted herself to the creation of a national holiday to honor overworked, underappreciated mothers later devoted herself to fighting the commercial juggernaut it became. Was Anna Jarvis stubborn and crazy, as many came to believe, or misunderstood?"
“The closest thing to nirvana for me is the splendour of financial independence.”
"Dehoarding my partner’s childhood home gave me a way to understand his mother, but I’m still not sure how to live with the habit he’s inherited."
“Are white people afraid of brown people?”
"After eight years, I’ve finally started healing from my mom’s death. But losing my grief is almost as hard as losing her."
"Because my mother never acknowledged her depression, I never opened up to her about mine. Now that she’s in treatment for both depression and anxiety, we finally talked about the open secret between us."
"When my grandmother got sick, I became New England’s most sensitive fan."
"After my mother fell ill with cancer, I didn’t recognize her. Roland Barthes helped me find her again."
"Neither of us has to speak for her to say 'I’m tired' and for me to say 'I’m scared.'"
"When I was 12, my mom asked me and my sister to shave her head after she had chemo. She was still beautiful, even if she couldn’t see it for herself."
"I always thought any problems between my mom and me were my fault. Then my mother-in-law helped me through a rough time, and everything changed."