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    35 Valentine's Day Gifts For Couples Who Have Been Together Forever

    Amazing how you never run out of love or gifts to give.

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    1. A leather-bound collection of Jane Austen's novels so they can indulge in some of the world's greatest love stories (other than your own).


    The collection includes Sense and Sensibility, Pride and Prejudice, Mansfield Park, Emma, Northanger Abbey, and Persuasion.

    Promising review: "I've spent years looking for an elegant hardback collection of Jane Austen's works and this is exactly what I'd envisioned. They were well-packaged and arrived in a timely fashion and I could not be more pleased." —Lollygagging

    Get it from Amazon for $17.19.

    2. A customizable coaster set designed to look like old-school Polaroids. Simply fit and place your own photos inside and voila! Old school memories in a *flash*.


    Promising review: "Bought this as a gift and they absolutely raved over it, especially since they can change the photos whenever they want." —Jasmine T.

    Get a set of four from Amazon for $10.96.

    3. A New York Times crossword puzzle book for flexing your combined vocabularies. You can finish each others' sentences, but can you finish each others' puzzles? Try the Monday puzzle book if you're just starting out and the Sunday puzzle book if you really want to put your skills to the test!


    Promising review: "I love this thing! The print is nice and large, and the spiral binding is super nice. The paper is still newspaper-y which makes it feel like a newspaper crossword without having to lug around a newspaper. I use erasable pens, and they erase great. The boxes are plenty big enough for the letters and the crosswords are all appropriately 'Monday' difficulty. Great thing to have! Can’t wait to finish it and move on to Tuesday!" —Amazon Customer

    Get the Monday puzzle from Amazon for $10.79 and for more of a challenge, try the Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday versions of this book for increasing difficulty!

    4. A beautifully illustrated write-in menu book so they can record and remember all of their impressive dinner party menus through the years. Never forget the coq au vin of 2007! So tender. So delicious.

    Houghton Mifflin Harcourt

    Get it from Amazon for $15.47, Barnes and Noble for $18.53, or a local bookseller through Indiebound.

    5. A leather messenger bag for carrying their laptop and work accoutrement in style. It's time for that company-issued black polyester bag to retire anyway.


    The bag has two large zipper compartments and fits a 17.5 inch laptop.

    Promising review: "This bag is awesome. I looked for a week trying to find the perfect bag. Most were too small to carry everything I needed. I am able to carry my portable scanner, my Surface Pro laptop, two Bluetooth speakers, a hard drive, my daily planner, two other books, all my chargers and cables, and my work files, and I have room to spare. This bag is very well-made with high-quality leather. I am extremely pleased with my purchase." —The Man

    Get it from Amazon for $64.99.

    6. A personalized ring engraved with anything and everything they love. Whether it's your kids' names or the name of their favorite dessert, they're sure to cherish it.


    Promising review: "It has now been nine months and these rings are still in amazing condition. They haven't greened or gotten dull. I wear them in the shower and swimming, and no problems. They never come off of me, and I’d recommend to anyone. I plan on getting another one soon to add!" —M

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99 (available in sizes 3–13).

    7. A set of 50 stickers inspired by The Office to honor the hundreds of hours you've have spent watching this beloved show with your soup snake.


    Get a pack of 50 from Amazon for $9.99.

    8. A rain shower head so they always feel like they're bathing at a five-star hotel. P.S. There's DEFINITELY room for two under there!

    Depending on your current shower configuration, you may need a shower head extender to accommodate this piece.

    Promising review: "I have been looking for a replacement shower head for a while, and I could not be happier. Beautifully made completely out of metal unlike some of the other cheap plastic lookalikes. The rain comes out perfectly and consistently. Perfect for a long relaxing shower." —Patrick C.

    Get it from Amazon for $50.39+ (available in two finishes).

    9. A Belgian waffle maker that will take your at-home brunches to the next level. Whipped cream hearts, activate!


    Promising review: "I've only used it about six times. Works great — no problems at all. Hopefully, in several years I can say the same. Cooks evenly top and bottom in three minutes. Very pleased so far." —Cartman

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99.

    10. A uniquely shaped wine decanter — you two didn't think wine could taste much better after switching from $5 to $10 bottles, but this gift is here to prove you both wrong.


    Promising review: "This wine decanter is exquisite. I bought it as a gift and can't wait to see their expressions when they open it. It is very elegant yet sturdy enough to be functional at dinner parties. I highly recommend purchasing this item. Also the packaging was excellent." —Dorrie

    Get it from Amazon for $21.98.

    11. A ticket stub diary to preserve memories of all of your favorite outings together. Now your kids will have to believe you both saw Little Women five times in a row when it came out, you LITERALLY have the receipts.


    Get it from UncommonGoods for $14 or Amazon for $12.67.

    12. A set of Table Topics for couples. It may feel like you know everything you could possibly know about each other, but these fun conversation starters are sure to give you guys some new #content!


    Promising review: "Bought this for my wife and I for Christmas, and I have to say is was a lot of fun! The questions are great conversation starters without being about topics that are argument starters. Some questions only take a minute, but others can kill 15 minutes or more. It's really up to you. Really what it boils down to is this: It's a time to put your phones down, turn off the TV, and interact with one another about something that's meaningful but also fun." —Ryan

    Get it from Amazon for $25.

    13. A Let's Stay Home soy candle that really gets your message as a couple across.


    Get it from TheBurningMagnoliaCo on Etsy for $10 (available in 31 scents).

    14. A Hydro Flask to ensure they're hydrated 24/7. In the immortal words of The Naked Brothers Band — if that's not love, then what is?


    Promising review: "This is a great water bottle. I tested it by filling it with chilled water and taking it to the beach. It was a very hot day, the sun was beating down, and the sand was hot. I had the bottle out the whole time on the sand for several hours and the water remained very cold. I've also kept it in a hot car running errands on a 90+ degree day and again, the water stays refreshingly cold. I bought a second Hydro Flask for my desk at work, and the colors are so pretty. I bought one in mint and another in raspberry. It would also make a great gift. Highly recommend!" —AB

    Get it from Amazon for $29.95+ (available in four sizes and 13 colors).

    15. A cooking class at Sur La Table for crafting the perfect date night *and* the perfect crème brûlée.

    Sur la Table

    Learn anything from how to make soup dumplings to whipping up French crêpes to perfecting knife skills. Classes offered and availability depend on your location, so check out Sur La Table's website!

    Reserve seats at Sur La Table for $59+.

    16. A sous vide, because their culinary curiosity knows no bounds. This new tool is the key to perfectly cooked steak and...their heart.


    Place the sous vide in a pot of water and place vacuum- or plastic-sealed meat inside to have it heated to the exact temperature you want for perfectly cooked steak, pork, chicken, and fish every single time!

    Promising review: "This makes an eye of round roast as tender as a prime rib. Excellent product. Just plug the thing in, make sure your water level is good, and set it and forget it. This thing will cook absolutely perfect food every single time." —Leeway63

    Get it from Amazon for $86.79.

    17. A bathtub caddy so they can luxuriate in the tub with a glass of wine, a book, or even an episode of their favorite show. On V-Day you can even set this up to surprise them! *swoon*


    Promising review: "Amazing! It has elevated my bathroom to a spa! It really does work as advertised! It stays in place and is sturdy and as pretty as it is functional! You cannot beat this caddy!" —Kerri Boardman

    Get it from Amazon for $46.97.

    18. A pair of fancy schmancy black leather boots, because your sweet absolutely deserves to rock a luxury item every single day.


    I have these boots and L-O-V-E them! They're a great everyday boot that looks amazing with basically everything and ~elevates~ whatever you pair them with. They took a little time to break in around the toe box for me, but 10/10 would do it again. I highly recommend!

    Get them from Nisolo for $182 (originally $228, available in sizes 6–10 and four colors).

    19. A sweet pair of floral drop earrings so they can have a little bouquet from you with them wherever they go.

    Bauble Bar

    Get them from Bauble Bar for $44.

    20. A new luggage set that's great on its own *or* with a note about the getaway you have planned. You're so romantic, I can't even believe it!


    Promising review: "Great suitcase! We brought ours to Italy and trekked across cobblestone streets and dragged it a HUGE distance from our hotel in Venice to the train stop in order to make it to our next destination, and they have held up very well through some rough treatment! They are also very light-weight for those who are flying and want to conserve poundage." —G J.

    Get it from Amazon for $129.99 (available in four colors).

    21. A waterproof Kindle Paperwhite that's perfect for both everyday use and vacation! Whether they're caught in the rain on the way to the car or catching some pool-side rays on a romantic getaway, they'll always have their favorite books by their side.


    Promising review: "Love this as an upgrade to my very old Kindle. It’s nice that it lights up but still is paperwhite. It doesn’t hurt your eyes or overstimulate so you ruin going to sleep. Light and much more user-friendly than my last one. Excited for the waterproof-ness so I can take to pool and beach and not be nervous!" —Jamie G

    Get it from Amazon for $129.99.

    Check out BuzzFeed's ~deep dive~ on the new Kindle in The New Kindle Paperwhite Is Waterproof, And I'm Bringing It On Vacation.

    22. A golden set of measuring cups and spoons, because making their signature chocolate chip cookies deserves a gold metal. This is like giving them *eight* gold metals (and is a sure-fire way to score more cookies).


    Promising review: "Happy with this measuring set. The cups come on a detachable ring, and the spoons come on their own ring, which make it easy to take them off and on for using and then storing. The color is gorgeous and perfectly matches the gold cooking utensils I bought from the same vendor. As for the quality, they appear well made, as they are heavier than other sets I’ve used. Thumbs up from me!" —Megan Harding

    Get them from Amazon for $22.99 (available in two finishes).

    23. A scratch-off map so you can document your many journeys together and look forward to all the ones you still have left to go.


    Promising review: "I love the map! It’s so fun to sit down with loved ones and scratch off where you have been! It also shows you there are a ton more places to go!" —emily wright

    Get it from Amazon for $25.99.

    24. A new French press, because it's been 5ever since you bought your first one when you moved in together. Time for an upgrade!


    Promising review: "I bought this because I wanted to be able to quickly make a small pot of coffee without the hassle of using my big drip coffee maker. I've since given away my drip coffee maker because why would I ever use that when I can use a French press? Coffee just tastes better when you make it this way. It's the perfect size for making two large cups of coffee. It stores perfectly on my counter top and takes up a fraction of the space my big coffee maker took up. It's very easy to clean — you pretty much just rinse with water and you're done." —April C

    Get it from Amazon for $28.97+ (available in two colors).

    25. An Amazon Echo Dot so they have a little life assistant that's...not you! It'll help them with their schedule, telling them the weather, play music, and *so* much more!


    The Echo Dot can set alarms, make shopping lists, play music, dim the lights, tell you about the's a little scary how much it's capable of!

    Promising review: "I have friends and family who have made fun of me for using the Echo Dot around my home. Well, I gave a few as gifts. 'Why would I ever need something like this' turned into love with it the first hour! The music, the information, and the whole Alexa experience made her a huge believer. The same thing happened with my sister and my niece. They loved it. Now we also 'drop in' to talk to one another. I'd say it was a huge hit and based on my personal experiences plus their enthusiastic acceptance, I have to give Alexa and the Echo Dot five stars." —Greg C.

    Get it from Amazon for $34.99 (available in four colors).

    26. A personalized whiskey decanter that has their name written all over it.


    Promising review: "Very nice! Ordered and received this decanter in less than a week and it looks great. It came very nicely packaged as well so you do not have to worry about any glasses being broken!" —abigails

    Get it from Amazon for $57.99 (available in seven styles).

    27. A BuzzFeed x Birchbox Splurge-Worthy Beauty Box so they can feel pampered thanks to ~luxury~ beauty samples curated by! So no brag, but it's pretty dang good.


    The contents of the box are valued at over $200 and include:

    —Smashbox Cosmetics Photo Finish Foundation Primer (travel-size)

    —First Aid Beauty Arnica Relief & Rescue Mask (full size)

    —Saturday Skin Pretty Pop Probiotic Power Whipped Cream (full size)

    —Glamsquad The Untamed Texturizing Finishing Spray (travel size)

    —Kevyn Aucoin The Precision Liquid Liner

    —Bumble and Bumble Hairdresser’s Invisible Oil Primer (full size)

    —Amika Soulfood Nourishing Mask (travel size)

    —Glamglow Bubblesheet Oxygenating Deep Cleanse Mask

    —ColourPop Cosmetics Lippie Stix in Love Life

    Get it from Birchbox for $62.

    28. A pair of cozy memory foam slippers to make lazing about the house on Sunday mornings together even more enjoyable.

    Reviewers suggest going up a size!

    Promising review: "I have a very old farmhouse and the floors tend to get cold in the winter. These slippers keep my feet warm and cozy! They’re durable enough to wear outside too." —momof2

    Get them from Amazon for $21.39+ (available in sizes 5–12 and five colors).

    29. A Yeti Rambler mug that keeps coffee hot for a ridiculously long time by using double-wall vacuum insulation. Goodness knows your partner usually has a tendency to pour a cup of hot coffee, let it sit for an hour, then be surprised to find it's gone cold.


    Besides being used for hot liquids, the mug can also be used for serving things such as oatmeal *or* to keep cold beverages cold. It comes with a lid, is dent-resistant, doesn't sweat (genius!), and is dishwasher-safe.

    Promising review: "This mug is great. It's incredibly sturdy. I like how wide the handle is compared to other similar products. This was my boyfriend's favorite mug to use in his garage until I stole it to use at work! I imagine this would be great to bring camping, too. I recommend also purchasing the lid with the slider to prevent splashing and slow down cooling." —Samara434

    Get it from Yeti for $24.99 (available in nine colors).

    30. A Homesick candle from their home state, because maybe if they smell the sweet scent of their childhood, they'll stop asking if you ever want to move there someday.


    Get it from Amazon for $29.29 (available in 51 scents) or Homesick for $29.95.

    31. A massage oil candle from Lelo to bring a little ~flame~ back in the bedroom. Soy wax, shea butter, and apricot kernel oil melts together into a pool of luxurious massage oil perfect for setting the mood for a ~sexy~ rub down.


    Get it from Lelo for $34.90 (available in three scents).

    32. A Winc subscription so they can have wine delivered to their door catered *perfectly* to their preferences. For added gifting panache, throw a towel over your arm and have them taste a tiny sip of each bottle like a waiter at a fancy restaurant. Then they can have the satisfaction of slowly nodding their approval.


    Get a gift card from Winc for $60+. When choosing your amount, note that bottles start at $13.

    Check out "This Wine Subscription Service Will Change Your Life" for more info!

    33. A smartphone vase to make their bedside table a little more joyful. Now when their alarm goes off every morning they can wake up and smell the roses!


    Get it from UncommonGoods for $32 (available in two colors).

    34. An aerograden because, although they're are SO caring in SO many other ways, they have kind of a brown thumb. Help them cultivate delicious herbs — and boost their plant bb confidence — with this brilliant gift!


    Get it from BuzzFeed's Goodful line, exclusively at Macy's for $129.99 (originally $189.99, available in two colors).

    Check out our full review in "Grow Herbs In Your Apartment With Zero Effort Using This Smart Countertop Garden."

    35. A romantic anniversary book that contains every New York Times on that date from the day you were married until your most recent anniversary. Awwww remember when...?


    Get it from UncommonGoods for $99.95+.

    Have a great Valentine's Day, love birds!

    Gran Via

    The reviews in this post have been edited for length and clarity.

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