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    10 Life Lessons From Lady Violet

    Who knew a countess from the start of the 20th century could teach us so much?

    Always give yourself the right amount of credit.

    There is a time to speak, a time to argue and, of course, a time to shut up.

    Women have the royal right to be contrary, so don't you dare questioning it.

    Not only defeatism is horrible, but it also makes you sound middle-class!

    Vulgarity is NEVER acceptable.

    There are times in life when you just need to stop whining and suck it up like a man.

    Live your life like everyday is a weekend.

    Not liking someone is never an excuse.

    Unfortunately, sometimes assassination is not an option. Find other ways to solve your problem.

    And above all: never miss the chance to have good pudding!