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Your appointment has been scheduled. Clear your day, you have some choices to make!

Go House Hunting And We'll Give You An Uplifting Message You Need To Hear

You and your realtor roll up. What's the first thing you see?

OK, obvi we have to check out the ktichen. Which one speaks to you?

Where can you see yourself dreaming the night away?

You're doing great. What does the living area look like?

I think we can find you a house with a bonus room. What do you want?

Seriously, no one. 
I know, you are always paranoid that people are mad at you, but they're all up in their own business.
And if someone IS mad at you, they'll let you know so you two can fix it.
If they don't tell you, that's literally not your problem anymore. That's a THEM problem.
If they're mad at you but don't care enough to tell you, THEY ARE NOT WORTH YOUR TIME.
In summary, you're all good with the people who matter.

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Nobody is mad at you.

Remember all the horrific crap you've had to deal with?
How crazy is it that you have survived literally every single bit of it?
You're. Still. Here.
Sure, you might be tired and very much over all the B.S. but you know what? That's a sign of wisdom. Wise is different than intelligent. Intelligent means you know stuff. Wise means you UNDERSTAND stuff. You've been there. You've dealt with it. You came out the other side, and you're still going. For real, celebrate that.

You are so wise and resilient, it's WILD

Imagine if you had to worry about the thoughts of literally every other person around you.
Oh wait, you DO worry about that.
Friend, please. Your own brain is enough to deal with. What other people think of you is absolutely none of your business. You ain't got time or energy to take that on so DON'T. Keep doing you, boo.

What others think of you is none of your business.

Okay I know you don't believe me.
You think that once you get that salary, that job, that body, that partner, that house, that car, that cat, that number of followers, that THEN everything will be okay and you'll be happy and worthy of self-respect.
Friend, it's not true. There's no magic finish line where you hit a certain goal and somebody shows up with a trophy and it's all gravy. Don't trust me? Ask all the miserable, self-loathing people who have achieved those goals.
You don't have to be anything or do anything to be worthy.
You are worthy right now. You are whole right now. You are wonderful right now.
Did your brain just suggest one or five or ten reasons why not? SORRY, BRAIN. WRONG. What if you loved yourself wholly as you are? Literally, not tomorrow, not next week. RIGHT NOW. Try it. I wouldn't have bothered typing this out if it weren't true, and you wouldn't have gotten this result if you didn't need to hear it.

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You're actually okay and worthy right this second.

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