noodle192000

Same. My dad was dead when I married but he had been controlling and abusive. That concept especially creeped me out because I essentially was a possession to him.

Judgey is good to an extent. If you're not Polynesian, for example, but want to get a traditional tattoo done, I would hope the artist would tell you where to go with that.

At a social service agency, I had a client who wanted to speak to my boss because she wanted it noted on her file that she didn't want to speak to me because I'm "mixed" (I'm Pacific Islander but whatever) and didn't want to speak to a coworker because the coworker was Latina. She… Read More

Only two on this list come in my size. :( Target has a plus-size Auden superstar t-shirt bra that's affordable, nicely-made, and comes in a variety of skin-tone matching colors. I was pleasantly surprised at how much I loved it.

No. I wish they showed her in blue more.

Mine was unpaid and only lasted a month. My c-section took longer to recover from than planned but I was expected to teach as soon as I got back. The sad thing was it was a social service agency that was mostly staffed by women. Apparently compassion was only reserved for the clients… Read More

My eyesight isn't the best anyway, but during my pregnancy I started seeing glowing silhouettes just out of my line of vision and had to see a retinologist the entire time. My eyes are physically elongated anyway, which puts me at a higher risk for retinal issues, but something about… Read More

I'm in the US and I did. It never made sense to me that I would ask someone to do something like that for me and make them foot the bill for a dress they'd likely never pick out for themselves and never wear again.

I'm Samoan and white and could never, ever pass for white so I just usually leave it at saying I'm a Pacific Islander/Samoan/Polynesian. My son is half-Japanese and can completely pass for a "full" Asian as long as he keeps his hair short enough so the curls don't show. If he wants… Read More

Exactly. My workplace has fallen for this more than once.