1. You don't have to have your life together.
2. Not all relationships are created equal.
3. You can choose what you want in life.
4. Be smart, about money and sex.
5. Be nice.
6. Try to exercise every now and then.
7. Learn to cook something decent and simple.
8. Find yourself.
9. Love yourself.
10. Take your time. And be smart about it.
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