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1. A hefty 8-inch stainless-steel dildo that offers a delectable weight and feeling if you want to treat your lover to a unique sort of pleasure. This hefty and versatile sex toy will definitely reach spots your ex probably still doesn't know exist.
This stainless-steel beauty weighs 2 pounds, so you'll definitely feel it.
Promising reviews: "Product will make your partner squirt. I would recommend pairing this with a Magic Wand as well. Problem my girlfriend and I encountered is it’s actually too intense for her, and now she requires to be tied up, so I had to make a follow-up trip to HomeDepot. Solid rating at 5/5, will spice up your intimacy time." —M. Allen
"Holy buckets of pussy juice! I had an experience with a lover who made me squirt. I was mortified! But then I began to think...what if I had been able to squirt my whole adult sexual life and never tapped into my own G-spot potentials?! I googled 'toys that make a woman squirt' and the Njoy wand rose like the Excaliber: shining and majestic. I read the reviews, clicked 'buy now' and squealed with delight when it arrived. It's heavy...only downside. Other than that...it has really intensified my sexual experiences...mostly with myself. I recommend this toy to all women. Harness your inner flow ladies!" —River Luver
Get it from Amazon for $72.
2. The sleek Arc G-spot vibrator by Dame designed with a clit-stimulating ridge and curved handle to help you reach bliss.
This waterproof vibrator has a run time of 1.5 hours with five intensities and five patterns to keep you buzzing.
Promising reviews: "Worth it! I absolutely love this vibe! It's quiet, it's rumbly, and is just the sensation (and intensity) I like inside and out. Great way to explore my own body and build up to a great orgasm. Also, on an aesthetic level, the design is so elegant, and the color (berry) makes me like it even more. I'm impressed with Dame as a company and very pleased with my purchase." —Jamie H.
"I cannot recommend this enough. It's so good I buy it as a birthday gift for all my friends." —Tiffany T.
3. An open vibrating sleeve created with premium silicone for a soft and supple sensation and flexible wings that wrap around your shaft, so you can feel each speed and vibration setting at your preferred grip.
Promising review: "This is a fantastic vibrating male toy. It is very easy to use and gives great sensations. It is very versatile as it can be used wet or dry, with a partner or solo, and it can be used without an erection.
"For me, it’s my new favorite toy. Since the Pulse can be used with or without lube, I first tried it dry. I found that unit stayed in place so I was able to watch porn and stay at the height of arousal for any length of time. When using it dry and with a slight movement it rubs the frenulum and gently pulls the skin on the shaft, creating a very pleasurable experience for me. Not to mention that the cleanup was very easy. When using it with lube the sensations are much more varied and The Pulse can create a wide array of sensations. It is very easy to hold on to even with lube everywhere.
"I tested it with a partner, where I was lying on my back with The Pulse on my shaft and had my partner straddle me. She felt the vibrations and was able to enjoy the vibrator for as long as she wanted, all the time I was hard and happy.
"One nice feature is that you can use The Pulse without an erection. Since the unit wraps around the shaft, you don’t have to insert it like a traditional masturbation sleeve. The crescendo to orgasm is different when I use a vibrating toy. A feeling I hope all penises get to experience. The overall size is very small and the charger uses a simple USB power supply so it is very easy to chart and no bulky charging plugs." —Jack
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4. The popular OG 2-in-1 vibrator by Tracy's Dog boasts a clitoral stimulator with 10 air pulse modes and a G-spot vibrator with 10 patterns for deep internal stimulation. Not to mention, its made of soft, flexible silicone, so you can make sure it fits just right to stimulate all your favorite spots at once.
Promising reviews: "This toy is an entire game changer. I would highly suggest. I am a very particular woman that can’t get off on anything until I used this little beauty. It has taught me how to feel good and enjoy my own company. If you are considering buying this you need to check out RIGHT NOW." —Libby Prather
"This was the first time I ever ordered from Tracy's Dog and I'm very impressed. My order came super quick just like I did after I used my toy. I ordered the OG Sucking Vibrator and it is PHENOMENAL!!!!! This has to be the best toy I have EVER owned and I've owned quite a few. Once you get that bad boy positioned correctly, get prepared to convulse. This company makes great products at very reasonable prices, plus they have them on sale a lot of the time. I cannot recommend this place or that toy enough! You won't regret it!" —Nicole Santiago-Aouaki
Get it from Tracy's Dog for $49.99 (available in pink and purple or as the OG Pro).
5. A powerful rechargeable wand vibrator boasting a sleek, minimalist design and 20 powerful vibration patterns to explore at 10 varying intensities for mind blowing experimentation. RIP to all those times you *politely* asked your ex to "go harder" and they hesitated — this wand does exactly what you want.
The silicone head is flexible and body safe, so you can maneuver this wand with ease — not to mention, it has a travel lock and case if you decide to take it on the go. If this wand seems a little too bulky for your style...grab the travel-friendly Le Wand Petite with all the same power and more color options. Then you can elevate your wands with one of the compatible silicone attachments!
Promising review: "Three words. (Four words? Two words and one hyphenated?) MULTIPLE. MIND-BLOWING. ORGASMS. (Okay more words) Whether I’m going solo or my partner is using it on me, it’s my ultimate go-to. The amount of possibilities between vibe patterns and intensities are as endless as the orgasms. Absolutely worth every penny and then some. (Not to mention HOW PRETTY IT IS)." —CAITLINDASHNEY
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6. The Manta, a vibrating stroker which allows all penis-packing pleasure enthusiasts to up the ante on their stroke game with 12 vibration modes to explore and a waterproof design.
This sleek vibrating stroker is inspired by the appearance and power of an actual manta ray. It's designed with waterproof silicone, six speeds and six vibrating patterns turn oral sex, masturbation and couples' play into a mind-blowing time for anyone with a penis.
Promising reviews: "I have tried several male toys in my life and this one is my favorite to date. The highlights are ease of use, quietness, easy cleanup / maintenance, focused stimulation. It really allows the user to decide the length of use. In a hurry, turn up the speed and point to the direct spot. Have time, try slower motors all over. It’s highly recommended." —Steven H.
"If you're looking for a special night in for yourself this is the toy you need. Lube on up, get in the mood, and power up. Moreover this toy is great for couple's use as well. During penetration the toy allows you to easily move it up and down the shaft rubbing against the vulva and clitoris or just keep it on the shaft to make yourself the vibrator they love. If you're looking for some extra fun oral sensations you might want to bring some water-based flavorful lubricant as the toy really shines when you can move it up and down the shaft. I would highly recommend to everyone with a penis." —Thomas H.
7. The Puff compact suction vibrator — it's beloved by beginners and more experienced 'bators who enjoy riding the five intensities to climax over and over again. *Puff puff*...don't pass this vibe up!
It's me. I am 'bators. JK, but seriously — I love this toy. And every time I think another one has shown up to take its place, I am reminded by the compact size, easy handling, and very very discreet noise (when pressed against the body)...that this toy is my ride or die. I tell everyone I know, and now I'm telling you. Never used suction? Get the Puff. New to sex toys? Get the Puff. Just want to expand your ever-growing collection? Puff. If you need to know more about this sex toy and why I personally love it, make sure to read my review of why Unbound's Puff is my favorite sex toy.
Promising reviews: "Was hesitant to try this since I wasn’t sure about the whole suction aspect, but I do not regret going for it at all! Such an incredible price for an equally amazing toy! If you’re on the edge about getting this, just buy it — you’ll love it. <3" —jillian
"I’m new to the all of this. My friends literally raved about Puff for a year before I finally decided to get one. I did not know…I could feel like that. It is amazing. It took me some time to fully utilize the suction feature in the Puff, but the vibration itself is *chefs kiss*. I also used it once during sex with my boyfriend and phew!!! I don’t even know if I have any words. Great for beginners!" —B.
Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in quartz and mint).
8. A flexible rabbit-inspired vibrator that moves with you and keeps constant contact with your clit while still hitting your G-spot.
Promising reviews: "Short and sweet: It's fantastic! Thanks for all the orgasms, Nova 2!" —Rosario Montez
"This is a great vibrator and has quickly become one of my favorites. As far as dual-action rabbit vibes go, this is by far the most comfortable as it is very bendy and adjustable and shows just how far this style of vibrator has come since those days where they were literally 'rabbit' vibrators with little bunnies as the clit stimulating part. The Nova 2 certainly is much easier on the eyes than those older versions and the quality is very apparent once you get it out of the packaging. The materials are very smooth and easy to clean between sessions and I suspect that this one will last me a fair few years to justify its higher price tag like other toys I own made by this company. Top marks from me, I love this vibe!" —Allie
9. A flexible vibrating butt plug that'll sync to the beat of your favorite songs, mimic your own custom patterns, or buzz along to user-created vibration modes already on the app.
Supple, body-safe silicone offers a waterproof exterior and a flared base helps the plug stay put.
Promising reviews: "Exactly as described, and exceeded expectations. This is a great buy for individual’s who seek self satisfaction. This (Multi Pattern Vibrating) plug is also a fantastic idea of fun for couples who look to spice things up a bit. Personal Care Products couldn’t get any better. Extremely happy with this purchase, and look forward to purchasing more products by this brand." —William Gardener
"We have had a great time with this. I bought the largest and it took a bit to get used to it. We are a couple of states away from each other and he has had a great time setting me off while I’m at work or doing things around home. The vibration is very intense at the highest setting and at the lowest just keeps you on edge. Being made of the material that it is, you have to keep it clean and let it air out, so it doesn’t smell if you get any fecal matter on it. Definitely recommend!" —JayyDee
Get it from Amazon for $89+ (available in four sizes).
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10. A hand-sculpted artisan dildo, just perfect for play with several design options including gentle curves, a suction cup base, and a girth to make your eyes roll back. If the only thing you miss about your ex is the D...one of these will do perfectly.
The pictured dildos and plugs are all part of Blush's Avant collection, with several representing the colors of a specific Pride flag for their uber-popular Pride collection. Each dildo is a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong. If you want more specifics on why these dildos are so perfect, check out my review on the Purple Rain D2 Avant dildo.
Promising review: "I love sex toys, this one is the newest one in my collection. This brand makes the most soft and sensational sex toys that I've ever used. The feel is wonderful to the skin and if you're looking for something more on the bigger side this is the right one for you. I generally prefer dildos with a more narrow head so if you're like me you may have a hard time (pun intended) getting this one in but I took on the challenge. I just had to get very lubricated and extra turned on in order to fit this big boy, but in the end I had that feeling of fullness that I was looking for accompanied by the amazing texture from the toy and ended up coming super hard and feeling completely satisfied. Highly recommend for that lonely weekend or with some fun with your partner. :)" —Satisfied customer (on Summer Fling)
Get them from Amazon for $55.99+ (available in assorted sizes and colors).
11. An Eva vibrator by Dame designed with flexible wings to tuck under the labia and nest on the vulva, stimulating them with three vibration intensities. *hint* Introduce it into couples' play with your new fuck-buddy / boo-thang / whatever for extra good vibes.
Many reviewers love this toy, but it's not a perfect fit for everyone, so be sure to check the reviews for extra info on if this toy would work for you.
Promising reviews: "Stopping contemplating and just buy it! Absolutely no regrets! The silicone is so soft it’s addicting to just hold it. The settings make it great for solo pleasure or with a partner. This invention is worth the investment. 😍🤤" —Rachel B.
"OK, the Eva II is a game changer. It’s insanely comfortable and easy to use. The three levels of vibration are perfection (level three is...life changing). I bought this to use with my husband but have only used it solo so far. Eva is the second toy I’ve ever purchased! I honestly had the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had with the first use. I highly recommend this and can’t wait to use it with my husband. It does take a bit of moving around at first to figure out how it fits best for you!" —Kelsey R.
12. A powerful bullet vibrator designed for pin-pointed pleasure — and it's waterproof in case you feel your best ~good vibes~ in the tub.
This powerful miniature boasts eight intensities and seven vibration modes.
Promising review: "Well fuck me if this isn’t an absolute must-have in everyone's toy box. It's so strong for a clit vibe that I never want to go back to anything that's even the slightest bit weaker." —Nicki Mouse
13. A rabbit vibrator inspired by Fifty Shades that satisfies with 36 different vibrating combinations and dual motors for simultaneous external and internal stimulation.
This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?
Promising review: "I am absolutely thrilled to have bought this. I know many people looking at it will think the price is extortionate but you really do get what you pay for. This rabbit vibe is ridiculously powerful — especially the clit vibrational settings! The toy itself is very hard and rigid so that's something to bear in mind. There are other toys on the market of you're looking for something softer. The head is so beautiful and bulbous, and has more girth than I expected, which was a welcome surprise. The length is so perfect and gives a deliciously 'full' feeling. I like the fact that it stands when charging. Also, the cute little pouch to keep the vibe in is a nice addition." —KansasGirl
Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99.
14. An anal-safe vibrator from Cute Little Fuckers, which has a curved, bulbous tip at the end of the shaft that's perfect for P- (or G-) spot stimulation. This fantastical design also has flared fins to help keep it from getting lost inside your orifices.
In true Cute Little Fuckers style, this toy is also waterproof and includes a removable bullet vibrator for versatility.
Promising review: "I love this toy. It’s wide enough to make me feel full yet narrow enough that as an anal beginner I need very little warming up to get going with it. The curve at the end hits some really nice places, and the ears make it really easy to hold on to while going, and make it possible to spin the toy inside of me too which I found I really liked. Plus it’s so dang cute! Maybe the cutest CLF in my opinion." —Fizzle
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $74 (available in yellow and purple).
Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.
15. The Bouncer is a unique 7-inch dildo designed with three rotating weighted balls in the shaft (hehe) that roll and bounce around during use for a sensation unlike any other. Plus, it has a suction-cup base in case you want to stick it and play hands-free.
Promising review: "This toy is absolutely incredible. I don't have much experience with toys because until now I never found the right thing. Vibrations are just distracting to me. I prefer exciting penetration, and this one... I've never seen anything like this. The width is a tad intimidating, but once my imagination has me all worked up, it's everything I could possibly want. I use it solo without the suction. The only thing that could possibly make this better would be to not be the one doing the work. It is large, so if I'm not at the right angle (or if I'm at too good of an angle), there's slight pain, but, like, the kind that makes you go cross-eyed. The sensation of the balls inside is really exhilarating. They give me a little something extra that helps me feel like someone else is doing the deed. I haven't orgasmed like this in years. I used it twice today, and I switched to a smaller, less interesting toy for round three. That got me started, but I anxiously came back to this for a successful, glorious experience. I think I might be obsessed." —Ashley
16. A luxury clitoral stimulator equipped with Pleasure Air Technology and an autopilot function to deliver some back-arching cunnilingus without having to bother with pillow talk. Oh, and this toy absolutely will find *and* appreciate the clit unlike your ex.
This new and improved suction vibrator by Womanizer boasts 14 intensity levels, an autopilot function that makes sure things never get too predictable during use, Smart Silence technology to make sure it's only making noise when touching the body and it's waterproof. *exhale* So yeah, just click *add to cart*.
Promising reviews: "This is my first clitoral toy and it did not disappoint! I achieved orgasm in less than five minutes and it was the best sensation. A bit pricey but definitely worth it!" —Charlotte Martin
"I’ve used knock-off versions of Womanizer’s Pleasure Air technology, seduced by the lower price tag, but nothing compares to the real thing. And PREMIUM 2 is the best of them all. It has more intensity levels than any other toy (14!) and also has this amazing autopilot feature where the toy takes control of how powerful the vibrations are so you can just sit back and relax... brilliant!" —S Müller
17. The OG Magic Wand that's been delivering *relief* to loyal users for decades with two rumbly speeds and a simple single switch. If you're going to cancel your plans to enjoy some me-time, you better do it big.
The OG Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. The same beloved classic is now available in Plus (an upgraded, corded version with multiple speeds), Rechargeable (cordless version with multiple speeds) and Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).
Promising reviews: "I had the original magic wand for a long time but was sad that it only had two speeds. I bought this because I liked the idea of a magic wand without a cord and with different settings. I was worried it wouldn't be as powerful as the original wand. It's actually better! With the different speeds and settings you can pick how powerful it is, even as powerful as the original. And so far the battery life has been pretty great." —A. Stott (on Rechargeable)
"I broke my vibrator two weeks ago. I've had that vibrator for many years. It was very sad. So, I decided to try the Hitachi out because of the reviews. It came today...and so did I. Oh....my....goodness. This thing is better than my last vibrator. Actually, I didn't realize I had started it out on the lower setting. Nothing was 'happening' and I was getting a little worried. Turned the switch to the high setting and . . . hello! It is a bit noisy but nothing like my last vibrator. Ladies, I would never recommend a battery operated device. They just don't cut it. And guys, my husband always says, the best gift a man can give his lady is a corded vibrator. He even rigged a nice little outlet in my 'naughty' drawer so it will always be ready. Now the attachments. I've never been one for attachments usually because they are just too small and don't do anything for me. However, the attachments for the Hitachi are substantial. I'll be using those from now on. I love my Hitachi!!" —D. Novak (on Original)
Get it from Amazon $53.64+ (available in four styles).
18. The Jubilee clitoral-licking butterfly, which has nothing to do with X-Men and everything to do with pleasure via dual stimulation from its nine vibration settings and 10 "licking" modes. That means it creates the kind of orgasm that makes you see fireworks.
Promising reviews: "Long story short, this thing had me climbing the wall LOL! Because of the suction, it is hands-free. The 'tongue' is surprisingly soft and flexible. It looked like hard plastic initially. But it definitely does the job, whether on the nipple or clit. Highly recommend." —Atalanta_J
"I am not sure why this product doesn’t have more reviews, but oh my GOD, I just thought I’d share my personal experience. Hands down the best sex toy I’ve ever used. This made my body do things I didn’t know I was capable of. If you are considering purchasing this product, take this review as your sign to purchase. I promise you and your body will NOT regret." —Sadie
Get it from Honey Play Box for $68.99 (originally $109; available in pink and purple).
Honey Play Box is a sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators and self-proclaimed lesbian meme queens who are passionate about all things pleasure being positive, inclusive, and accessible.
19. The Arcwave Ion, a one-of-a-kind masturbator by the makers of the Womanizer clitoral vibrators that uses the same famous Pleasure Air technology to deliver pulsating stimulation to the tip of your penis. Your dick will be like "Wow" after a couple rounds with this one. If your ex was against bringing toys into your play...they didn't want you to be your best self or have your best orgasm, TBH.
This masturbator is designed with waterproof silicone, which offers effortless cleaning before and after. It also includes a convenient charging station that also quick dries your toy between uses. FYI, the website states it takes at least 5 uses to get the hang of the Arcwave Ion, so make sure you test it thoroughly.
Promising reviews: "If I wrote this review a week ago I would have given it 1 star. It takes a few sessions and practice to find that sweet spot but once you do… I thought my brain was going to explode. Now I just let myself go and let Ion do its thing and it's a long-lasting orgasm every time." —Ron_88
"Love blowjobs? Then this is the toy for you. No toy comes close to the Ion in terms of delivering that singular feeling of someone sucking/licking the head of your cock and it's a great use of the air pressure tech you're seeing in more and more sex toys. Really hoping that they make more versions of this and improving on the premise. BTW use a lot of lube." —NickyDubs
"Perfect for me…but understandable if it's not for everyone. For me, I love being stimulated on the head of my penis, and that's where Arcwave focuses the pleasure. It's also not designed for traditional pulling-on-your-penis stimulation a la masturbating and if you prefer that, then you're likely better off sticking with your trusty ol' hand. With enough lube for easy and comfortable insertion, the Arcwave will feel just like there's someone sucking and licking on the head of your penis — and who doesn't like that?" —DJ
20. A handcrafted porcelain G-spot dildo that makes me want to start speaking French, TBH.
It's lightweight, dual-ended, designed to reach your favorite spot, and seven inches long. This one-of-a-kind beauty doesn't need to vibrate to show off its elegance.
Promising reviews: "The Dalia is, as we Americans say, THE BOMB. It is beautiful, excellently crafted, and the little book that comes with it is a wonderful, unexpected primer on self-love! I broke mine but am buying another — it's very durable, but don't drop it on the floor in the heat of passion." —M.
"It reaches all kinds of spots that have needed love ❤️ different than any other toy I’ve ever used, so I’m excited to experiment more." —Jessy M.
Get it from Désirables for $117 (make sure to switch currency to USD if you're in the US!).
Désirables is a woman-owned sex boutique based in Canada that specializes in handcrafted porcelain dildos and sexual wellness accessories.