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    Here Are 30 Sexual Wellness Products To Elevate Your Sex Life *And* Self-Love Routine

    Just a few simple products — from arousal serums to innovative vibes to easy-to-use cleaners — to help elevate your sex life.

    1. A cock ring equipped with a textured vibrating pad to stimulate the clit or balls — your pick.

    reviewer holding black and gold cock ring
    reviewer displaying textured side of cock ring

    The silicone ring stretches to fit a variety of penises (or dildos), and the vibrator has 5 speeds and patterns for up to 25 varying intensities.

    Promising reviews: "This is a great addition to solo or couple's play. The ring is super stretchy and can fit around any of our toys. Loved when she was on top. She was able to grind on it without having to hold a heavy vibrator. Super quick and easy to clean and charges quickly! It's pretty quiet considering how intense the vibration can be." —Howard Martin

    "This vibrating ring is made out of good-quality material. It's soft and stretchy with a nice snug fit but not too tight. It can be worn in a variety of ways and used in different positions. The vibrations are pretty powerful while also being relatively quiet. The battery lasts quite awhile but charges pretty quickly. And best of all, it's super easy to clean because it's waterproof and can even be used underwater. I highly recommend this product. It's not too expensive and was shipped discreetly." —NSFB

    Get it from Amazon for $36.66.

    2. A unique vibrator by Bellesa that's like your finger...but better, with 105 textured rods for extra stimulation and a flickering "tongue" with 10 intensities to deliver that simulated oral feeling.

    Pink finger vibrators stacked
    @bellesaco / https://www.instagram.com/p/CJHm8IWsuM2/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Or...like your finger, if it could move on double speed.

    Promising review: "Your finger but better? An actual understatement of the year. This toy is AMAZING. Typically I'm not a big fan of direct stimulation and have been leaning more towards the air toys that don't make me numb, but this toy is a game changer. Direct clit stimulation yes but numb? Absolutely not!! Thanks to the soft and sensual tongue moving at amazing speeds, I'm able to have multiple intense orgasms. This toy literally leaves me shaking. My boyfriend loves to use it on me and keep it on till I squirt. 10000000/10 would recommend. And for the price? Blows many luxury $200.00+ toys out of the water!" —Sani

    "So small you can take it anywhere, gets things going right when you feel like being a horn-dog, and the softest, cutest tiny tongue for your cute af clit. Finger-licking good." —Sandi

    Preorder it from Bellesa Boutique for $59 (ships in 3-4 weeks).

    3. A set of glass anal dilators that range from 2.7 inches long to 4 inches long and 0.8 inches wide to 1.5 inches wide. That size range makes them perfect for anal training, not to mention the bulbous head and flared base.

    Model holding glass dilator covered with lube
    Model posing with four glass dilators of different sizes
    @bvibe_social / Via www.instagram.com, @bvibe_social / Via www.instagram.com

    This set is perfect for anyone interested in anal sex and wanting to work their way up to girthier or heavier toys. Since they're glass, these training toys also allow for temperature play and can be used with any kind of lubricant you choose.

    Get it from B-Vibe for $129.99.

    4. An oil-based, hemp-infused massage oil by Coconu that'll help you get in the mood for ~play~ whether you use it topically for extra stimulation or internally as a lubricant.

    Tube of white Coconu oil next to green box and spoon with coconut oil
    @coconu / https://www.instagram.com/p/CSrgW9ct6uk/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    Promising reviews: "I think this is my very first Amazon review and, wow! This is the absolutely best lube I have tried, and I think I have tried them all! I saw this brand Coconu all over Instagram and was excited to see they’re finally on Amazon for free shipping. The good stuff — it is SO moisturizing both externally and internally, absolutely perfect for every type of massage and intimate action. This is a serious game changer, it’s unlike any other of its kind on the market and you can see from the product photos that it’s completely natural!" —Marie

    "What a great product. It's a perfect consistency and really makes a difference. I've tried other brands, but I'm so impressed with this one. It's gentle and it's so comforting to know I'm using safe and natural ingredients. So glad to have found this." —RR

    Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

    5. The OG Butters Lube designed with a vegan, oil-based formula that can be used in any and all your holes, as well as with your favorite toys and other body-safe materials, for slippery — never slick — fun.

    Model holding black and light blue tub of lubricant
    Model demonstrating melt point of lubricant
    The Butters Hygienics Co.

    Promising reviews: "This lube is amazing! My boyfriend is rather endowed and he’s my first. This lube made things easy and comfortable for sure." —Kai Welsh

    "Very slippery and long lasting, feels good in any hole. Zero irritation. Keep some dedicated rags handy for clean up and wash separately. Wipes right up off of skin easily. Good company and nice people. This is premium lube, get some." —eric reed

    Get it from The Butters Hygienics Co. for $6+.

    The Butters Hygienics Co. is a Black- and queer-owned business based in Michigan that creates products using simple ingredients and hand-crafted in the owner's kitchen. In true millennial fashion, they want you to be able to afford quality body products that do what the bottles say they do.

    6. A vegan-friendly sex toy cleaner to keep your toys fresh between uses without any residue or time-consuming cleansing.

    Model holding spray bottle of toy cleaner
    Lovehoney

    You just spray onto your toys and then wipe down. Since it's water-based, this cleaner can be used on rubber, latex, glass, metal, and silicone toys.

    Promising reviews: "I always use this on my toys, and it lasts a long time. Only a few sprays are needed since it lathers up nicely and cleans any toy you need it to. Smells pleasant while cleaning with it, and this smell gets washed away when you rinse it off, just as you would expect." —ajmanny

    "Great product, which is nice and easy to use. Quick spray which goes along way, wipe over or down and leave to dry. No mess, no after marks, and nice natural/fresh smell, nothing too strong. A must-have product to keep clean and look after your toys." —Daisy1982

    Get it from Lovehoney for $16.99.

    7. A Jack 2-in-1 stroker and packer, boasting representational hues and a ribbed cavity that provides suction to the wearer for a stimulating stroke session.

    Model holding assorted colors of Jack packer
    New York Toy Collective

    For packing, it's recommended to be worn with a strap-on / harness, so that it stays put. The stroker cavity stretches and works best for anatomies at least 0.5" in diameter because it will create suction, any smaller and the suction will not be activated.

    Promising reviews: "I love this product! The hole is big enough for many sizes to fit and stay on with suction. Amazing and intense stimulation. I tried after using a pump and it helped me stay erect. Best packer I ever owned and I owned most of em." —Jaki

    "My partner and I used the Jack yesterday. They are trans masculine and three years on testosterone. We used it in two different ways. The first way, I used a nice amount of lube, opened the stroker and suctioned it and stroked. It worked best with reinforcement by hand. Most FTM strokers we come across seem as if they are designed for trans masculine folks who are more developed growth wise physically. With that being said we improvised and the toy wound up giving amazing results for my partner. They give it a 9/10 and said that they are interested in seeing this develop in different shapes and sizes. I also suctioned it, applied pressure with fingers and performed oral sex. He said it was very pleasurable to be able to receive head and have the point of view visual that Jack creates. It helped with his dysphoria." —Summer

    Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in four fleshtone hues).

    8. The Whim by Pelle is a set of two unique silicone grinding toys that offer broad stimulation with dual-sided designs — one with waves and one with grooves — and versatile use for grinding, rubbing, and definitely exploring.

    Gif displaying both sides of Warm and Dune silicone toys
    Pelle

    Word on the street is that you can also use this as a DIY stroker. 👀 Warm up Whim by placing it in warm water or holding it close for awhile to retain body heat. This toy is waterproof, body-safe, and compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants.

    Promising reviews: "I bought these because they're unlike anything in my collection. Of course, they're fantastic for humping / grinding, but I think my favorite way to use them is to wear them inside my underwear when I'm home cooking, running errands, or stuck in traffic. The Pelle whim provides just the right amount of pleasure for me; not quite enough for a climax, but certainly enough to keep me smiling when I'm out in public. And no one is the wiser ;)" —Amber

    "I was super intrigued but also really hesitant at first. It almost seemed too good to be true. I'm so happy I finally decided to splurge, I wish I'd done it way sooner! The whim(s) are soft, easy to clean and discreet. Out of my large toy collection this is definitely my favorite. Perfect amount of stimulation without being overwhelming." —Blu

    Get it from Pelle for $98.

    9. An all-natural arousal oil by Foria created with a blend of CBD and botanicals to help enhance sensation and pleasure.

    Brown bottle of Foria Awaken oil
    Model applying oil to body
    @foriawellness / Via www.instagram.com, Foria

    I have a friend who swears on this arousal oil, and TBH I live vicariously through her sex life, so I believe it. You can apply as much as a full dropper of the coconut oil-based oil to your inner labia and/or vagina, and of course, your clitoris. This oil is also oral-friendly and safe to ingest...y'know, just in case.

    Promising reviews: "I was worried this would throw off my pH or feel weird to my partner because of the peppermint. Nope! And I'm pretty sensitive so I was surprised. If you're even thinking about it, just do it! Excellent!" —DSQ

    "I have a very low libido. Highly abnormal for my age but there isn't any real reason for it. I got this beautiful oil as a Fab Fit Fun add-on and it's LIFE CHANGING! Absolutely does EXACTLY what it says/claims. I genuinely expected to be disappointed but in the very least it's moisturizing so it couldn't hurt right? Absolutely friggin' right and I highly recommend it for EVERYONE!! Also, it's not something to boost already low libido or to assist with low desire disorder but it WILL make time with your lover even BETTER on so many levels!" —Wifeynd

    Get it from Madewell or Nordstrom for $48.

    10. Orrrr a pleasure serum boasting a formula of 99% pure CBD and designed with science in mind, so that every part of the clitoris is stimulated.

    Model pressing top of pink Vella pleasure serum jar
    Model with white serum on finger
    Vella Bioscience

    I actually had the opportunity to try this product, and TBH it was my first foray into using CBD during masturbation...but it definitely won't be my last. I will say this product is definitely all about the science, so when it says three pumps, it means no more and no less. The serum is topical and only for external use, so clitoris and labia only. It's supposed to set in around 20 minutes, so I literally tried to be productive while I had a timer running, but the more time I spent waiting, the more it seemed like my vagina had grown a mind of its own. I decided to forgo ol' faithful and try out a couple new products, but I only was able to test one because I was having such a great time. 🥴 The orgasm(s) I had with this serum was so great, that I actually said "I love Air Pulse technology" aloud, which may be the most embarrassing thing I've ever done alone?

    The facts: This serum has 320mg of CBD, a vegan formula, and doesn't really have a smell, like it just smells like a lotion. It's a bit thick — not like lube at all — and creates kind of a mess, but it wasn't hard to clean up at all (toy cleaner + soap and water). So far, it's only been tested on cis-women / AFAB people, so if you weren't born with a vagina...I would not recommend it. It's also compatible with latex.

    Get it from Nordstrom for $65 (also available in single-use packets).

    11. A vibrating stroker that looks like a manta ray and is probably just as powerful. Six speeds and six patterns turn oral sex, masturbation, and couples' play into a mind-blowing time for anyone with a penis.

    Model holding black vibrating stroker
    Couple holding green vibrating stroker
    @funfactoryusa / Via www.instagram.com, @funfactoryusa / Via www.instagram.com

    Promising reviews: "This toy is worth every penny and maybe double that. I have a ton of toys (I like trying new things) but this one is the one I always go back to. I like using it both dry and with lube as they are totally different experiences with this thing. Saw a review and was intrigued, but was a little hesitant given the price. I shouldn’t have worried." —Anonymous

    "I have been eyeing the Manta for a while and took the plunge. I have quite a few men's toys and WOW! It is my favorite by far! I am older and this gives me some rest for my hands — though men of all ages will LIKE this a lot! It is light and powerful and the shape, power and weight are perfect for playing with all of the contours of a penis: the base, shaft and tip. I love playing with it and enjoying the sensations. I have a Hitachi wand and I like this a lot better as it is easy to hold and the power is quite good (the Hitachi is just too much). The 'fit and finish' is excellent (thanks Fun Factory!). I have not tried this with a partner but that is one of the reasons I bought this as I think it would be fun in partner play.

    "All around this is an excellent toy FOR MEN. I would recommend tweaking the pulse settings as I don't always know how to increase the speed without switching pulse modes. I would also recommend including a carrying pouch. Otherwise, holy smokes — worth the money!!!! This is a great addition to your man box!" —P.

    Get it from Fun Factory for $139.99 or Amazon for $139.98 (available in three colors).

    12. A UV sterilizer powerful enough to kill 99.9% of bacteria, but designed in a travel-friendly pouch, so you can take it with you on the go and keep your toys extra clean at all times.

    Black sterilizer pouch surrounded by butt plugs
    Model placing butt plug into sterlizer pouch
    B-Vibe

    UV will sanitize your sex toys hands-free and get rid of nearly *all* of the bacteria that tries to live there and ruin your good time. This specific sterilizer works in less than five minutes to thoroughly sanitize your toys before use and after cleaning. It fits sex toys up to 10 inches long, is designed to be travel-friendly and TSA-approved, and it's also USB rechargeable!

    Get it from B-Vibe for $84.99 (originally $90).

    13. *OR* a Uvee sex toy sanitizer box — it's perfect if you really want to splurge. This sanitizer was created specifically for sex toys with interior dividers to keep toys separate and still clean them all at once. It's even large enough to hold a Magic Wand vibrator!

    Black and white sanitizer boxes
    Open box with sex toys inside and UV lights
    Uvee

    Promising review: "I love my UVee. It is super simple to set up and use. I also really appreciate the USB ports inside; it's a great feature! To top it all off, the unit itself looks sleek and modern. It is actually attractive enough and subtly labelled enough to allow me to keep it on top of the dresser. I can't recommend UVee highly enough." —Molly E.

    Get it from Amazon for $179.99 (available in black or white).

    14. An Eva vibrator by Dame designed with flexible wings to tuck under the labia and nest on the vulva, stimulating them with three vibration intensities. *hint* Introduce it into couples' play for extra good vibes.

    Model holding green vibrator in front of torso
    Model reaching for pink egg-shaped vibrator on bed
    @dameproducts / Via www.instagram.com, Dame

    Promising reviews: "Stopping contemplating and just buy it! Absolutely no regrets! The silicone is so soft it’s addicting to just hold it. The settings make it great for solo pleasure or with a partner. This invention is worth the investment. 😍🤤" —Rachel B.

    "OK, the Eva II is a game changer. It’s insanely comfortable and easy to use. The three levels of vibration are perfection (level three is...life changing). I bought this to use with my husband but have only used it solo so far. Eva is the second toy I’ve ever purchased! I honestly had the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had with the first use. I highly recommend this and can’t wait to use it with my husband. It does take a bit of moving around at first to figure out how it fits best for you!" —Kelsey R.

    Get it from Dame for $135 or Amazon for $134.36+ (available in quartz or fir).

    15. An Ohnut set of four unique and oh-so-convenient buffer rings constructed with a stretchy, body-safe material to fit your favorite penis or dildo and offer extra cushioning during penetration.

    Model demonstrating use of light green silicone rings
    Model holding four dark green silicone rings in hands
    @ohnutco / Via www.instagram.com, @ohnutco / Via www.instagram.com

    This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation. Though it's stretchy, Ohnut is designed in two sizes: Classic and Wider, which can be determined based on condom sizing!

    Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.

    Get it from Ohnut for $65 (available in jade and aloe).

    Ohnut Co. is a women-founded wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.

    16. The best-selling Mason dildo, designed with an 8-inch insertable length because bigger bodies deserve the same gratifying stimulation as smaller ones. Literally, this dildo was created for anyone who has and/or loves bellies, butts and penetration.

    Ben blue Mason dildo
    Assorted colors of Mason dildos
    Close-up of fleshtone dildos
    @newyorktoycollective / Via www.instagram.com, New York Toy Collective

    I'm a bigger gal and this dildo brings me so much joy. Just, yes. Anyways, this dildo is made with body-safe and hypoallergenic silicone, harness-compatible, boilable for cleaning and sterilization and has a girth of 1.5 inches.

    Promising review: "WOW! I just got this today, and I can say that it is a beautifully crafted, lifelike penis. As a trans man, it feels very affirming to wear. I have yet to try it with a partner, but I appreciate it for the work of art that it is. It is pleasantly squishy but has the solidity of the firm inner core, and it can bend however you wish. Definitely-5 star! I am wearing it as I type this, because I can’t bring myself to take it off yet. =^)" —Trey

    Get it from New York Toy Collective for $169 (available in four flesh tones and four whimsical hues).

    17. A stimulating cushion, offering versatile use as a comfortable base for your favorite dildo or strap-on *and* providing a contoured grinding pad, if you prefer to hump your way to climax. Avid peggers and grinders should add this to their collection, stat.

    Model holding pink Bumpher base
    Black, purple, blue and pink bumpher bases displaying ridges
    @bananapantslife / Via www.instagram.com, @bananapantslife / Via www.instagram.com

    This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.

    Promising reviews: "This was awesome. She used this on herself, and she took me from behind and drilled me like a star!!! Usually she can only handle a few min then she is sore from the toys, but with this she must have been up me for 49 min nonstop pumping away on me. Wow, this made pegging amazing and she used a 14-inch-long, 3-inch-thick toy and we both loved it. She said it gave her some pleasure also, that’s why she could do it so long and without the pains. Love this." —D man

    "I kind of thought this would just get in the way, but it’s perfect. It really makes everything so much better." —Courtney Krevey

    Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in three colors).

    18. A vaginal plug that's contoured specifically for multi-point vaginal stimulation and created with *super* squishy silicone for comfortable wear before, during or even after play. This plug comes in a variety of thicknesses, so you can choose whatever's most comfy for you and deliver that full feeling you've been craving.

    Pink and purple vaginal plugs in different sizes
    gif of reviewer squeezing plug
    Negesti Kaudo / BuzzFeed

    TBH, this might be the squishiest toy I've ever handled. It's elegantly curved and kinda looks like a vagina, so all you have to do is fold and insert. It's designed to help enhance clitoral sensation, deliver deeper internal stimulation, and it even has a slightly flared base for discreet wear and effortless retrieval.

    Note: These plugs are intended for vaginal use only and not recommended for anal. Check out the following link in case you want to explore anal toys created with the same squishy silicone (these have a flared base for safety).

    Promising reviews: "I just bought this along with the Tango X after getting tired of my rabbit vibe being too uncomfortable to sit with between orgasms. I'm 30, never been sexually active with a partner for various reasons and sex toys are something I've only recently begun to appreciate as I become more comfortable with intimacy and learn my own body before trying to share it with others. So I'd classify myself as a beginner and for that, this plug is amazing. I'm not able to handle anything large but the softness of this silicone is no joke — even the small was kind of daunting to me but it just popped right in, and I can barely feel it when I'm not playing — the most noticeable part is definitely the base, and even then it's not uncomfortably noticeable. This acts as a major upgrade to clitoral orgasms for me, it's like blended orgasms without all the effort and buildup that those normally take. And it's a lot of fun on its own, too!" —Kat

    "I find myself very surprised, in a good way. This toy has impressed me so much that I had to leave a review, which I have never done on this site! It’s a great little thing to leave in for an hour or so and tease yourself, before some actual fucking. I used the size small, since too big can be a bit painful for me. It also stretched me out a bit so I probably would have been comfortable taking a size that normally would be too big for me. Left me dripping wet. Excellent on all fronts!" —Lesbian

    Get it from Peepshow Toys for $42+ (available in four sizes and four colors).

    19. The Palm Grease lubricant, which is perfect for fisting and thrusting with it's ultra-thick consistency and conditioning formula to help prolong and elevate your sessions.

    Model holding blue container of palm grease
    Open jar covered with contents
    @getthebutters / Via www.instagram.com, The Butters Hygienics Co.

    This creamy lube is created with palm butter, grape-seed oil, and vitamin E for a moisturizing and velvety feel wherever it's applied.

    Promising review: "There are no words for how good this lube is. It is amazing for long sessions, it feels incredible, it's .... I damn near got misty that someone, somewhere, had the exact same need as I did, and then invented something that solved that need. Serious, historic tip of the cap. To potential purchasers thinking they will get a sample size to start — fuck that. You have found the product you are looking for." —Rick Willet

    "Great to use as a moisturizer and even better as lube! I've purchased this several times over the last couple of years and my partners love it as much as I do!" —Joseph Gurk

    Get it from The Butters Hygienics Co. for $14+.

    20. A stimulating anal lubricant boasting an extra-thick, water-based formula that'll last way after the arousal stage.

    Models holding Jelle Heat and Jelle Chill
    @wickedsensualcare / Via www.instagram.com

    The Jelle Heat and Chill formulas are both latex-friendly and enhanced with olive leaf extract for an always slippery, never sticky experience. So you already know you want/enjoy anal, now the question is: do you want cooling tingles or a warming sensation?

    Get it from Amazon for $9.81+ (available in Heat and Chill).

    21. The *very* popular Joque harness, created for versatility with adjustable straps that fit waists up to 65 inches and an elastic O-ring that's compatible with a variety of dildo bases.

    Black and purple strap-on harness
    Purple dildo in black strap-on harness
    Amazon

    This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.

    Promising reviews: "This is definitely worth the price. It has great variety in the sizing for the wearer. This is perfect for women. You can use a vibrating dildo with it and you feel the stimulation. Also there are pockets you can add items to for your stimulation. The ring is very hard to get the dildo into, but it works out because it does not come out during use. The comfort to the wearer is phenomenal. Recommend for any experience user." —Customer DBG

    "I was so exhausted one night after my partner and I had some fun, that I fell asleep with it on and forgot it was still there. It’s extremely comfortable but super sturdy. Also, very easy to throw it in the mesh bag it comes in and toss it in the laundry. I let it air dry though. Great product!" —divertida9

    Get it from Amazon for $119.95+ (available in two sizes and three colors).

    22. A hand-sculpted artisan dildo, just perfect for play with several design options including gentle curves, a suction cup base, and a girth to make your eyes roll back.

    Model holding assortment of striped dildos and plugs
    Entire Avant collection of dildos with water droplets
    @blushglobal / Via www.instagram.com, @blushglobal / Via www.instagram.com

    The pictured dildos and plugs are all part of Blush's Avant collection, with several representing the colors of a specific Pride flag for their über-popular Pride collection. Each dildo is a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong. For info on why these dildos are great, check out my Blush Avant Purple Rain dildo review.

    Promising reviews: "Small but fun. If you're looking for girth, this isn't for you. It's short and skinny but the texture is smooth and very fun. Colors are pretty too. Great for beginners or first timers at receiving!" —nich (on P3 Beauty Avant Pride dildo)

    "First, this thing is HUGE, especially for a novice to certain play. My husband wanted to try it, with that kind of half afraid and half excited. We had tried smaller toys but they are often rather firm and frequently somewhat uncomfortable. Not only is this one pretty colors it is soft and flexible but with a firm enough core to use (big pink marshmallow is how my hubby describes this one). The head is very large and be warned that you need to prep the recipient a bit and take your time. The ridges can make vigorous play uncomfortable after a little while and this is a bit longer than the standard sizes. It has ended up being hubby's favorite, though. We would certainly purchase again and are even looking at others in this collection to change things up." —J. Heath (on D3 Summer Fling Avant dildo)

    Get them from Amazon for $39.57+ (General collection) and $19.94+ (Pride collection).

    23. The Bonbon toy mount by Liberator that is designed to hold your favorite dildos and vibrators in place while you go all Reverse-Cowgirl-No-Hands on them...

    Pink semi-circle pillow with pink vibrator
    Semi-circle pillow
    Lovehoney

    Or if you need a little leverage when you go to pound town with your S.O. This pillow has a water-resistant lining and removable cover for washing, so you can keep it nasty with simple cleanup. The toy mount is compatible with flared and nonflared bases.

    Note: Dildo pictured above is not included.

    Promising review: "I think the most annoying part about experimenting with toys on your own is where to put the toy. No more uncomfortably trying to position yourself against a wall. No more holding toys when you’re trying to hold your phone for porn. It adds another layer to anyone’s sex life. My boyfriend and I use it together to easily add toys in our usual routine creatively together." —Anonymous

    Get it from Lovehoney for $119.99 (available in pink or black).

    24. A unique faux-leather pillow for Fleshlight enthusiasts looking to unlock a different kind of hands-free pleasure.

    Model posing next to black faux leather pillow with masturbator from side angle
    Model posing on black faux leather pillow with masturbator
    Liberator

    No, the Fleshlight is not included. But this positioning pillow is specifically designed for Fleshlight users who want to explore missionary position solo. If you're into doggy style, don't worry because there's a pillow for that! The faux leather design offers a sleek look and easy clean-up afterwards.

    Promising review: "Absolutely love this mount. Perfect size and holds you well. Easy cleanup after use. My wife and I use this to compliment a pegging session. It's absolutely amazing. To be inside a toy while my wife pegs me is a great experience and this mount is perfect for that." —BMW

    Get it from Liberator for $190 or Amazon for $139.99.

    25. A Fleshlube Fire lubricant by Fleshlight designed to deliver a warm sensation upon contact whether playing alone or using your favorite sleeve.

    Model posing with orange bottle of Fleshlube Fire
    Fleshlight

    While this lube is water-based, it's intended for external use on a penis with or without a Fleshlight toy.

    Promising reviews: "The Fleshlube Fire warms without being uncomfortable. The sensation it provides is amazing. If you have never used this before, you have to try it. This is the perfect lube to use with any sleeve. If you buy it, you will not be disappointed." —Kevin G.

    "Hey, if you want things to get hot quick and need some extra experimenting, get this lube. It can be a little intense depending on your sleeve and your saliva, if you know what I mean." —Hector N.

    Get it from Fleshlight for $11.95+ (available in 4-oz and 8-oz) or Amazon for $21.95 (8-oz. only).

    26. Orrr, cool things off with Fleshlube Ice, a water-based lube delivering a cooling sensation that'll feel like you're getting off on the top of a mountain.

    Model posing with blue bottle of Fleshlube Ice
    Fleshlight

    This is also only intended for external use on a penis.

    Promising review: "Ice is my favorite. Adds another layer of sensation. Not too powerful that it's uncomfortable. Just the right amount of cooling." —Steven S.

    Get it from Fleshlight for $11.95+ (available in 4-oz and 8-oz.)

    27. A powerful miniature wand vibrator created with supple silicone for a soft-touch feel and 20 functions to take you right to that blissful, blurry edge...all for about $20.

    Promising reviews: "Ladies, you need to get this! The best purchase!! You won't be disappointed! The vibrations are great. Battery life depends on if you choose to use it all the time." —Megan

    "I thought I knew what an orgasm was until I bought this thing. My soul leaves my body every time I use this and it never disappoints me. The battery life is fantastic and the vibration strength, oh my god. Do yourself or your partner a favor and buy this. But heads up, your partner may not need you anymore." —Mackenzie

    Get it from Amazon for $19.95+ (available in seven colors).

    28. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame that supports all your favorite positions. Whether getting off alone or with a partner, this pillow will be there when you need it.

    Model stretch on indigo wedge pillow
    Pillow angled on couch for full view
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    This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.

    Promising reviews: "It’s really amazing how much of a difference this makes. We are a gay male couple and I wasn’t sure if the pillow would be good for same sex couples but it definitely is. The firmness is great for ALL positions. It surpassed my standards." —Leonardo D.

    "Quality made and good firmness. A pillow to use for more than good sex positions and support. Washable cover is a plus." —Patrice B.

    Get it from Dame for $95.

    29. A dual cock ring designed with stretchy silicone to help your penis-packing partner stay harder for longer, so you both get yours.

    This versatile ring can be worn in several ways: solely on your dick, one ring wrapped around the D and the other around the balls, or wrap them both around your balls! Pick your poison, it's your pleasure!

    Promising reviews: "Just buy it now! This item has increased everything! Made this guy feel like a like a 20-year-old bull again! It was stretchy yet tight, and the rubber material is soft to the touch — not like a rubber washer, which I was expecting. Very easy to clean and no weird rubber smell some toys have. I can say this left a lasting impression on my wife." —JohnH

    "I loved the product! Works amazing and is comfortable to use but after a while it becomes bothersome. I would put some lube around the area where it will be on to help with that. It was sort of too tight for me at first but then it let up somewhat. It is very soft and easy to use. I can definitely tell the difference when I use it and creates more sensation." —BDogg

    Get it from Amazon for $9.99 (available in black and burgundy).

    30. A stimulating serum by Hello Cake to help you turn up the heat with tingling sensations that alternate between cooling and warming. There's one for penises and another for vaginas, so everybody can play!

    Orange box and bottle of Stim for Him
    Models holding blue Tingle to Mingle bottle
    Amazon

    Promising reviews: "I really didn’t think it would work too well but it did, it was also had a very soft and slippery texture, like a jelly almost, very smooth. it was a nice tingle." —raezberru (on Tingle to Mingle)

    "This stuff is amazing. Definitely a new sensation I wasn't expecting. Lasts a pretty good time and even works under a condom. 10/10 great for solo masturbating too!" —Nova (on Stim for Him)

    Get it from Amazon for $14.99 (also available as Tingle to Mingle for vaginas).

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