29 Sex Toys To Explore Because Cuffing Season Is Upon Us
Forget pumpkin spice, it's time to update your sex toy collection.
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1. A Horoscope Pleasure Kit that includes a gemstone necklace for your zodiac sign, a clitoral enhancement balm and a chic, minimalist bullet vibrator to help you manifest an orgasm.
The clitoral balm has a warming effect to help increase your pleasure as you play and the miniature vibrator has three intensities and seven vibration settings. A convenient elastic band helps keep it in place around your finger. TBH, the zodiac gemstone necklace does nothing to help you orgasm, but it's cute and makes a perfect gift for the Libra, Scorpio and Sagittarius babes in your life!
Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $40 (available for each sign).
Bijoux Indiscrets is a woman-owned and -led company that designs intimate cosmetics and pleasure toys that stand out from typical depictions of female pleasure to help women feel comfortable exploring their bodies and sexuality.
2. A bright suction vibrator designed by pop star Lily Allen with six powerful intensity levels giving people another reason to smile.
In case you like to take your good vibes on the go, this one has a waterproof design and magnetic travel cover.
Promising reviews: "If you want a product that will make you climax every time, this is the product for you. It is small, compact and appealing to look at also doesn't scream sex toy if someone accidentally finds it. Also fits nicely between you and your partner so you can use it during intercourse." —Anonymous
"I don’t want to get too emotional, but, I am a transgender woman who had sexual reassignment surgery two years ago when I was 19. I’m 21 now, and haven't had an orgasm since two wet dreams after surgery. For a long time I thought I was broken and couldn’t get turned on or ever enjoy sex. I bought the Lily Allen Womanizer because, Um...Lily Allen...Duh. Tonight was my first time trying it, and for the first time in literally years I was able to orgasm. If this does not give you all you need to know about purchasing this sex toy then I have no idea what will. BUY IT. I’m literally gifting all my closests this for their birthdays. Thank you Lily Allen, you literally made me come." —Smol f.
Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99.
3. A stainless-steel wand by Le Wand with a sleek, elegant curve that'll reach your favorite spots and satisfy them effortlessly. Tease away with the narrower end or test the limits of your pleasure with the ridges and bulb on the other — you know what they say, go big or go home.
Stainless steel means easy cleaning, compatible with any lube and a hefty weight — 1.11 pounds to be exact. Whether exploring anal, vaginal, external or temperature play, this wand offers a lot of options with 7 inches of length and swirl ridges along one of the ends.
Get it from Le Wand for $125.
4. A limited edition butt plug that simulates the feeling of rimming with rotating anal beads in the shaft and a vibrating tip that hits your favorite spots. Because nothing screams cozy comfort like a rim job, am I right?
The set includes a vibrating butt plug, wireless remote, three B-Vibe enamel pins, carrying case, greeting card and sticker.
This 1.5-inch diameter plug has seven rotation patterns and six intensities to explore and stimulate your P-spot as you start (or continue) your journey into anal play. Also, it's splash-proof!
Looking for something a little larger? Check out the Limited Edition Rimming Plug 2, that has all the same features but a little more length.
Get it from B-Vibe for $155.
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
5. A silicone Fin vibrator from Dame because it'll transform your fingers into all-powerful orgasm machine. Not to mention this is a great way to make keeping your hands warm fun.
A removable tether allows for more or less control, while the pointy tip and squishy side offer different sensations to your favorite spots.
Promising review: "I really love this vibrator! Size is perfect, and my partner likes to use it. It has three strength levels, and level 2 is good for me under most conditions. Easy to clean and feels nice against the skin. You can detach the extra holder on the top if you don’t care for it. Worth the money; easy to clean. Charging is simple too." —Sylvie B.
Get it from Dame or Amazon for $85 (available in jade or navy).
6. An über-popular realistic dildo by New York Toy Collective created with a posable core for comfort. Because it's cuffing season and everyone (who wants it) deserves some real-feel pleasure whether single or coupled up.
This dildo has 6.5 inches of insertable length and a 1.25-inch girth, along with subtle detailing in the design for a realistic sensation during use. It's harness compatible, so you can easily pop it into your favorite strap-on for wear and play. Not to mention, it's available in four skin tone hues and seven whimsical colors.
Promising review: "This dildo is seriously impressive. As a pack’n’play toy, it offers a wide range of value! It folds comfortably and discreetly into the pants (albeit with some effort initially) for long-term wear, feels soft between the legs when walking and sitting, pops out to an impressive length (and girth) when readying for play, looks and feels ultra realistic to the touch (except bigger, according to my girlfriend), and gives an incredible orgasm, to me as well as my partner, surprisingly! The large base pressed right up against my clit through my Spareparts harness! Not as intense as a vibrator or double ended toy, for sure, but a pleasant sensation nonetheless, and my partner gets the benefit of the huge bulbous head rolling across the G and A spots, as well as the soft, almost skin-like texture massaging everything else, and the realistic veins add a nice touch as well! Altogether, a WONDERFUL experience, from start to finish. I definitely recommend this for people who like experimenting with gender expression, but it would be a delight for everyone else too!" —Anna
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $149.
New York Toy Collective is a queer- and Black-owned company based in NYC that designs artisan sex toys and gender-affirming accessories.
7. An über-popular boxer brief harness which allows you to focus on the pleasure of the moment instead of complicated buckles and straps. Also, I bet it'll make a sexy-chic look if you pair it with an oversize hoodie!
These cotton-blend boxers are double-layered for dependable support and can accommodate dildos with an 1.5-inch O-ring diameter on the base. Two interior pockets for bullet vibrators are strategically placed around the O-ring to add a little more rumble. Check out the site for more colors and prints!
Promising review: "I’ve been really wanting to let your company know that these boxers and the matching briefs with my packer have been the most euphoric undergarments I have ever owned. I’m definitely ordering more soon. I definitely will always recommend Rodeoh to anyone looking for FTM items. Thank you so much for providing me with such confidence in my life!" —Salem
Get it from Rodeoh for $49.99 (available sizes in XXXS–3X).
Rodeoh is a woman-operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.
8. A discreet wearable egg vibrator that won't clash with your favorite lingerie and will get you off with seven vibration modes and or personalized patterns using the Bluetooth app.
The ergonomic egg shape means this discreet vibe stays put, so you can wear it out and about (if that's your thing) and control the vibrations effortlessly from your phone. No one would suspect a thing and with a five-hour battery life...this toy can probably outlast you.
Promising reviews: "App works great super powerful and quiet. All I had to do was send an invite to my bf and he instantly was able to connect and control this thing. AMAZING!!" —Rachael M.
"I use mine on Chaturbate mostly. Connects super easily, which was something I was worried about. The app is easy to use and this device works great for me on Chaturbate. Super comfy, sometimes I forget I have it in." —Vallaria
Get it from Amazon for $129.
9. A pre-heating G-spot vibrator created with a bit of fairy dust and a flexible head to reach all your favorite spots.
This not-so-delicate vibrator can heat up to 107 degrees F to simulate human body temperature and features eight different modes. The icing on the cake here is its water-resistant, body-safe silicone design embellished with real Swarovski crystal.
Promising review: "My wife adores anything magical girl related so when I saw this I knew I had to get her one! We've never used a heated massager, but it was fantastic! Very fun using the star to control everything" —Corinne K.
Get it from Zalo for $86 (available in violet and fairy pink).
10. An evergreen leaf-shaped vibrator that offers broad stimulation even though the leaves outside are changing colors and falling.
This discreet vibe has six vibration speeds and four patterns for you to explore, whether you choose to lay on it, grind on it or use your hands to guide it around your favorite areas.
Get it from Enby for $29.
Enby is a Black/Trans-owned company that believes all bodies deserve affirmation and pleasure by providing an online sex toy shopping experience that's comfortable and inclusive.
11. A dual cock ring designed with stretchy silicone to help your penis-packing partner stay harder for longer, so you both get yours.
This versatile ring can be worn in several ways: solely on your dick, one ring wrapped around the D and the other around the balls or wrap them both around your balls! Pick your poison, it's your pleasure!
Promising review: "I've used this one and another one from this same brand. I absolutely love both of them. This one is my favorite version because it's so smooth. The stretch and softness of it helps get the blood flowing if ya know what I mean. It's so easy to get on and get off. Makes you want to keep going for a lot longer." —OceanGremlin
Get it from Amazon for $9.99 (available in black and burgundy).
12. A versatile glass dildo by Unbound that's perfect for temperature play, so run it under warm water or tuck it between your legs for a cozy and comfortable sensation.
Truly a Gem, this toy has a curved end and a beaded end with a flared base in the middle for easy removal. Oh, and it's dishwasher-safe? Um, yes please!
Promising reviews: "This is my first dildo and it’s definitely a different experience from using a vibe, but sometimes you just want penetration, ya know? like having a variety of options now and this is such a beautiful and well made piece! Perfect size, too." —A.
"This dildo is exactly what I was looking for. It's small enough to be comfortable for my first time ever inserting anything but big enough to still feel good. Add a vibrator and it's the best thing ever. The bulbs on the one end are great for holding onto and would probably feel great if you're into a slightly girthier feel/into anal. It's also super easy to clean and the package that it came in was so discreet. The box to store it in isn't as discreet but the packaging is nice. The product is sturdy and adjusts to temperature well." —Amanda A.
Get it from Anthropologie or Unbound for $34.
13. A 5.8" harness-compatible dildo with a sensual curve to hit all the right spots and a vibrant striped design that might remind you of your favorite sweater.
Promising review: "This cock is magical and easy for beginners. Medium is great for most of my lovers. We love it so so much. My only complaint is, it’s not great for behind and I can’t flip it comfortably. I’d like the same design but the base designed to wear upside down for doggy. Call it the TwistedKitty and take my money." —TwistedKitty
Get it from Wet For Her for $71.96 (originally $89.95 and available in three sizes).
14. A classic rabbit vibrator boasting powerful dual motors and a titillating heating function that gets up to 107-degrees F because your favorite sweater or throw blanket can't satisfy all your needs.
The two motors in the shaft and "ears" offer nine powerful vibration modes. It's also waterproof, so go ahead and enjoy it in the bath.
Promising reviews: "This toy is a great one. The warming sensation adds a new element to our time together. The toy is very quiet, yet very strong. It charges quickly and is easy to operate. My wife really enjoys using it even on her own. If you are looking for a great product for the upcoming fall/winter season, I would definitely recommend that you purchase this little wonder." —KC MadDog
"I’m so amazed by this powerful vibrator… it’s silent but gets the job done ✅ you’ll enjoy orgasm after orgasm!!! It’s super discreet, waterproof, the battery is long lasting and it’s super easy to clean🤗. However my favorite part is the heating up feature 😍 this thing will make your toes curl and your body quiver 🥰😏." —Patrick Georges
Get it from Amazon for $22.99 (available in purple and pink).
15. A versatile clitoral vibrator that's soft to the touch and waterproof for those of you who like to soak in the tub and discreetly enjoy some rumbles with your pumpkin spice bath bomb.
This external toy has eight vibration modes and a sculpted design for targeted pleasure to bring the thrills.
Promising review: "The vibe has a good range of intensities from a very low and rumbling to a strong high buzz. It's great that they've separated out the intensity from the patterns so you don't have to scroll through patterns to get to the intensity you want. The vibe material is soft and flexible, and being completely waterproof makes it easy to clean up. It's flat-ish shape makes it easy to use during sex. My only complaint is that they don't include a charging block, only the magnetic charging cord (which on the plus side means there isn't a charging port on the vibe to get messy). My fiancée and I are looking forward to getting lots of use out of it." —Ozatm
Get it from Amazon for $94.05 (available in green velvet and crave coral).
16. A chili pepper Emojibator to spice up your toy collection and you can enjoy it while your *actual* chili simmers in the Crock-pot.
This battery-powered vibrator has 10 settings and a waterproof, silicone design.
Promising review: "Love this little pepper. Small, cute, and most importantly, efficient ;)" —Deanna D.
Get it from Emojibator for $34 or Amazon for $28.
Emojibator products are designed with love in Philadelphia and include novelty sex toys inspired by veggies and other emojis.
17. A remote-controlled prostate vibrator with dual motors and six powerful vibrations to explore that simultaneously stimulate the perineum and prostate (or G-spot) for maximum sensation.
The remote works from a distance of up to 40 feet and has motion-sensitive technology with eight different settings to tease and tempt during couple's play. The vibrator boasts a graduated design, so your body can hold it in place during intercourse (if you want to) and it's also waterproof. *splash*
Get it from Amazon for $195.99+ (available in blue and black).
18. A luxury external vibrator featuring a palm-sized design that embraces your curves, so you can guide it all over your favorite erogenous zones.
The Ballerina vibrator is new and improved with six speeds and six pulsation patterns, and features an exciting (and indulgent) "Surprise Me" mode that you'll have to play with to find out more about.
Get it from Smile Makers for $129.
19. A rose-shaped suction vibrator that'll outlast your fall bouquet and curl your toes with its seven pulsating intensities and two-hour play time.
Promising review: "First of all WOW!! I was not prepared for the places this rose took me to. I legit squirted in 60 seconds on the first setting and all I did was sit with it in my pants. The soft sucking and vibrations will send you to the moon to plant a flag then to the good Lord!!! It literally does not matter which setting you put it on your body will fall apart, come back together and then crumble again. I think I died and came back to life... but ladies using this while having sex ... whew that’s the devil's recipe. I can honestly say Rosalina will nevaaaa leave my side. Y’all be safe!" —Tee M
Get it from Amazon for $54.99 (available in red or purple).
20. A textured glass dildo covered in delicate nubs which deliver a delectable rippled sensation as you massage, warm it up the faucet or pop it in the fridge for cooling.
Promising reviews: "So I have tried a different glass dildo before but was a little underwhelmed as it was smooth and not the most pleasurable. This Nubby was gifted to me by my partner. Due to the shape I wasn't holding out much hope as I do prefer a toy with a bit of a curve. Boy, was I wrong! The texture of this toy is incredible. It is equally as exquisite when used outside of the body as it is when inserted. We have had a lot of fun using this on all erogenous zones. The texture and the fact that due to glass we can adjust temperature for play is just fantastic and I would definitely recommend this toy to all." —CurvyNurse
"So I've never tried glass before, but those little nubs caught my eye and I kept thinking about them and I just had to try it, so I bought it and wow....it's absolutely delightful. I don't really have toys with a lot of texture, so this was completely new for me and it feels really good! Definitely not as daunting to use as I imagined, it being glass and all. I'm still a little afraid I might drop it and break it accidentally, but that's it. This is also very easy to clean! I absolutely recommend this for anyone curious, it's a lot of fun :)" —Anonymous
Get it from Lovehoney for $34.99.
21. A stainless-steel bullet vibrator with four vibration modes that can also be worn as a necklace...and goes perfectly with that plunging V-neck sweater sitting in your closet.
Promising reviews: "Best smallest vibrator I've ever had the pleasure of using. It warms up when you use it, so it's not cold metal. The settings all pack a punch. It has four of them. Also a cute statement looking necklace." —Rebecca
"This product is so easy to travel with. The charger is tiny, the vibrator is tiny. Even if you don't wear it as a necklace, it takes up no space in your bag. As a mental addition, it's pretty and non-threatening, and the look doesn't scream sex toy. So it's very easy to introduce people to, even if they're not used to sex toys, and nobody feels threatened. This is a very useful product for me, and I'm very happy to own it. Make more like this! I want more pretty little toys. I'll add that I've had this maybe nine months, and it's continued working nicely throughout." —Firebird
Get it from Amazon for $69+ (available in three colors).
22. A really pretty cloud dildo created with supple silicone and light textured details that'll remind you of spring and warm weather when the sun starts setting earlier and earlier.
There's the idea of sleeping on a cloud, and then there's...well, whatever you plan on doing with this lovely dildo that ranges from 1.6 inches to 2.2 inches wide, depending on the size you get.
Get it from Early to Bed for $35+ (available in 6" and 8" lengths).
Early to Bed is a Chicago-based, queer- and women-run retail sex boutique committed to providing an inclusive shopping experience.
23. A powerful miniature wand vibrator covered in silicone for a soft-touch feel and featuring 20 functions to take you right to that blissful, blurry edge. Plus, it's mini size means it's a perfect tag-along to that cabin getaway you've been waiting for.
Promising review: "OK, ladies and possible gents. This vibrator blew my mind! The vibration strength: phenomenal! The battery life: phenomenal! And the noise level: barely there. I absolutely recommend this vibe for anyone looking to add something new to there collection, or even anyone looking to try something new! Absolutely blown away by the quality!" —Mandi
Get it from Amazon for $22.05+ (available in three colors).
24. A powerful external vibrator which flickers like flame and is a perfect complement to your fireplace...even if it's fake.
A vibe that'll flick you off in the best ways, there are three speeds and seven patterns to leave you tongue-tied.
Promising review: "This toy has become my new favorite! So powerful and silky smooth and just gets me going so quickly. It really does feel like a tongue! I am highly sensitive so have yet to make it past the first setting. Some extremely explosive orgasms with this toy! So sleek and easy to clean, and I love that it's rechargeable. I've managed four play sessions between charges. It's nice and quiet too and very portable, so I will be using this as my travel toy! As a fire sign the design is visually beautiful! Best purchase ever and worth every penny!" —Pheebs
Get it from Lovehoney for $47.99 (originally $59.99).
25. A hyper-realistic Pink Lady Mini Lotus Fleshlight that'll treat your penis to a real good time with its patented SuperSkin interior that delivers a lifelike sensation with controlled suction.
This Fleshlight is tight, to simulate the feeling of actual intercourse and deliver something close to that satisfying penis-in-vagina-or-anus feeling one can only experience IRL. Up the ante for a cozier feeling with the Fleshlube Fire, a water-based gel warming lubricant that delivers a tingling sensation.
Promising reviews: "It does feel better and using your hand and the internal ridges are kinda lifelike, you better add lube, or you won't be able to use it, it's not like having real sex with a woman but beats using your hands. These help stimulate you and give you pleasure. Cleaning it is fairly easy, I used dish soap and air dry the sleeve and container separately. Overall the quality is very good, price is fair, to some it is fairly high, but the Fleshlight have been a product with good reputation, build quality and name. Give it a go." —Cesar A.
"This is my second Fleshlight, the first I bought directly from the Fleshlight website, that one was the the Classic Pink Lady, it felt good. I decided to take a chance with getting another one one that is a little more intense, then a smooth channel. The tighter opening, and the pleasure ribs sure adds to my solo sessions, I've only used it a couple of times, first time propped so I could go hands free, the second time for a longer session it really is hard to describe the feeling with out being censored. I think for me that I could use it as a training unit, to get back more in tune with my body." —David
Get it from Amazon for $69.95.
26. Or a transparent masturbator with a tight, convex textured interior that you can twist, stroke and watch yourself through until your seasonal hornies are sated.
And yes, it's waterproof, so go ahead and play with it in the shower.
Promising reviews: "This has been a fun addition to our tool box. The internal textures provide good sensations. The wife has enjoyed using it on me and watching me use it. The clear color gives it a very unassuming appearance, especially for those who are new to sex toys and may be a bit nervous." —Tommy D.
"The silicone is silky smooth on this. The suction is great and the bumps inside create a great sensation. The only flaw, which isn't really a flaw, is that it's cold. You could solve this by soaking it in warm water first. It just takes a little pre-planning." —Krystal Rojas
Get it from Amazon for $23.99.
27. The Original Magic Wand that you can plug in right next to your heating blanket and enjoy continuous power of its two speeds, because according to reviewers that's all you need for this toy to satisfy.
Just don't use it too long or leave it plugged in because it's prone to overheating.
Promising reviews: "Rockin' this girl's world! The BEST, most powerful vibrator, sex toy EVER! Don't settle for cheap imitations and don't get the rechargeable one either (it's not as powerful). GO AHEAD... Enjoy the ride! 😉😈" —Red
"Wow it definitely got me off more than few times , if you know what I mean . One dislike 👎 thing I didn’t like is it gets overheated if you was to use it for a long time." —Anastasia Parker
Get it from Amazon for $64.95.
28. A Diskreet Vibe by Bellesa with a round waterproof design and five powerful (but quiet) vibration patterns in its simple silicone fin, meaning the sound won't reverberate through your quilt and disturb your roommates or neighbors.
I feel like, if a certain underwater princess had access to this toy...she might not have traded her voice for legs, but idk, just speculating.
Promising reviews: "This is the cutest vibrator I have ever owned, and the fact that it also has the power to make me see stars makes it a little miracle worker. Great for solo and partner play, and quiet enough that with a blanket its almost silent. I've been recommending it to all my besties, don't be thrown off by the shape. It's amazing!!" —Lilly
"I love this thing! I got it as a gift with purchase and I love it! It’s small and easy to travel with. The case makes in easy to conceal and if someone does happen to see it, it’s entirely innocuous. My mother saw it in my suitcase and thought it was for contacts. The vibe settings are excellent. Overall, fantastic!" —Alex
Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $49.
29. The ergonomic Kip lipstick vibrator by Dame designed with five powerful speeds, so you can enjoy pin-pointed clitoral stimulation from this small-but-mighty vibe and still stay cozy under your comforter.
Promising reviews: "The vibration patterns and settings on the kip are great for warming you up and making things interesting for couples play. I like the kip because it is small enough to enjoy while playing with my partner or by myself. The shape works nicely to cup my clitoris during our sessions." —Charlotte G.
"This little friend comes with quite the power. I was pleasantly surprised at the intensity of vibration levels. I loved the ease of use and the feel. Looking forward to heading on adventures with this one in tow." —Jovan S.
Get it from Dame for $75 or Amazon for $95 (available in lavender and lemon).
You, after ~coming~ on a serene autumn day surrounded by knit blankets, scented candles and knowing there's comfort food waiting for you when you wake up:
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