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First things first—if you're going to wax or shave...you shouldn't have sex or exercise for at least 24 hours afterwards. *record scratch* Yes, it's true and yes, many people do not abide by that rule. But let it be known, that I let you all know.
1. A pack of individually wrapped hygiene wipes for when you want to freshen up real quick in the restroom before heading out to pound-town.
Available in rosewater and shea cocoa scents, these biodegradable wipes are designed with a nontoxic formula to help keep you fresh "down there" during your period, on any trip to the restroom, and before and after having sex. Each box includes 16 individually wrapped wipes that you can stash anywhere.
TBH, you can wipe up after sex with basic toilet paper or tissue and/or gentle soap and water in the shower, but on-the-go wipes are always nice to have and great for external use (read: vulva or penis, because the vagina is self-cleaning!) when there's a little bit of a mess. And while some wipes are supposedly "flushable," they may still clog sewer systems so just toss these wipes in the trash after you're done.
Promising reviews: "I bought these to take to work. I took enough to share with my lady coworkers. Rave reviews from them, they love me! The tissues are very soft and large enough to do the job. I've had no problems with tearing either. I keep some in my purse at all times." —Roseann Floyd
"They have a nice but delicate smell and don't irritate my sensitive places they actually FRESHEN you up instead of regular baby wipes that just spread everything around LOL. These are pricey but worth it. I go out the house less anyway for work or gatherings so these will last me a long time." —Lina A Douglas
"Best wipes I’ve found! I actually use these more for wiping the back than the front. I just keep a few with me at all times. The smell is wonderful, and they don’t break apart immediately. They don’t irritate my sensitive skin at all, but everyone is different. The price is good, too." —Anonymous
Get it from Amazon for $11.99 (currently only available in rosewater).
2. An all-natural towelette designed with organic ingredients for a refreshing and hydrating cleanse in the heat of the moment.
This pack comes with 10 individually wrapped wipes, so you can stash one in your car, purse, wallet, or backpack for when you're on the go. A vitamin-packed formula and organic ingredients allow this wipe to help keep your skin supple and hydrated, no matter what kind of hot and sweaty shenanigans you get into!
Promising reviews: "Woo freshies will be my new best friend! The packaging is so cute and compact, you can throw the whole box in a purse or pull a few out to bring on the go. They smell amazing and leave you feeling super fresh and clean. I will always carry at least two with me everywhere I go. They also go perfectly with Woo love oil lube and clean up a mess perfectly. These are a must-have essential. They shipped here insanely fast as well." —Kameron
Get it from Amazon for $13+.
3. A foaming wash designed for vulvas by someone with a vulva to help keep your vulva feeling refreshed and balanced with a cruelty-free, plant-based formula.
The vagina may be self-cleaning, but the vulva is not. So, I use this soap. I love it, but my pump has broken, so I don't get to use it as often as I'd like. But when I was using it consistently, I could definitely feel a difference in my nether regions...less itching and irritation after a long day sitting and sweating underneath my clothes. Anyways, this product is created with natural ingredients, including coconut oil, lavender, grapefruit seed extract and apple cider vinegar. For people with more sensitive skin, there's also a Sensitive Foaming Wash.
Promising reviews: "I use this wash daily, mind you growing up I have never used a feminine wash. I've been using this product, I want to say for about four to five years. This product works very well. I like the scent, how fresh I feel and the foaming action. Sometimes the pumps malfunction but I have learned to keep a properly working one in the event that happens. This item is also a staple in my home." —Paddy Monthly
"I use this wash in the shower every day. I feel like it gets me cleaner than regular soap or other feminine washes. I sweat a lot and this was keeps me feeling fresh longer." —Gigi
Get it from Target for $8.99 (5.5 oz.) or a travel-sized option from The Honey Pot Company for $7.99 (2 oz.).
The Honey Pot Company is a Black- and woman-owned small business that creates vaginal health products for people with vaginas using plant-derived and cruelty-free ingredients.
4. A shave cream by Fur designed with olive oil extracts, vitamin E, antimicrobial tea tree oil and lavender oil for a soothing and moisturizing whipped formula.
This cream has a lightweight texture and can be used anywhere and everywhere: face, chest, legs, underarms and pubic area.
Promising reviews: "This stuff works wonders. It’s so light and feels incredibly moisturizing, even though it comes off after the shave, it’s made a huge difference with my skin. Less irritation because of the soothing qualities of the cream. So much better than the fluffy white stuff from other brands. I don’t ever want to look back!" —Clare
"I've ordered two bottles now (since March 2020). It smells great, don't need much, and haven't had razor burn issues. I use it on my face as well as my legs and bikini line." —Ellen O.
Get it from Revolve for $32.
5. A shaving cream with a cheeky name that'll help prevent razor burns and bumps, as well as ingrown hairs.
Promising review: "I’m one of those lucky people with sensitive skin. Shaving always sucks, but especially around the downstairs and the inner thighs. Part of the problem is the razor but the other part of the problem is the shave cream/soaps I’d been using just weren’t moisturizing enough. I always end up with these really uncomfortable/painful red bumps, razor burn, and even ingrown hairs. I tried this mostly out of desperation and honestly, great success! It’s so moisturizing that my past three shaves, I haven’t had razor burn. It feels like a light lotion/gel when first applied. I use Schick razors and they work great together. The scent is a major plus too! I’m definitely going to continue to use this." —Katie
Get it from Amazon for $13.85.
6. A Billie razor with a simple plastic handle and a cartridge subscription, so you don't have to struggle with a dull razor or try to pick a new one from all the choices in the aisle — not to mention, an effortless and comfortable shave.
I've been using a Billie razor for years, and I love it. I set my subscription up, so that every three months I get a new pack of replacement cartridges and because I shave...less in the winter, I have a comfortable stock and never have to use a dull blade. Speaking of blades, these razors have cushy charcoal soap that lathers as you shave, making for an even closer cut. I tell everyone I know who hates being bothered with shaving to try out Billie — plus, when I am wrapping up my winter "hibernation" period, this blade removes hair...effortlessly.
For more words on how we feel about Billie, check out BuzzFeed writer, Kayla Suazo's review on using the Billie razor subscription.
Starter kit includes: A Billie handle (available in five colors), a magnetic holder, and two five-blade razor cartridges. And once you choose a subscription plan, Billie will send you replacement razor heads right to your mailbox.
Promising reviews: "I was skeptical that this razor would be different from any other razor. I will never use a different razor. I love the way my legs look and feel. So easy and quick to get the perfect shave!" —Sofia P.
"The razor feels solid and steady in your hand, the shape fits the curvy surfaces women shave, super sharp, and everything was shipped as expected. I’ve struggled with sensitive skin and overpriced razors — this is a refreshing change!" —Jessica L.
Get it from Billie for $9/month (razors available in six colors).
7. Orrr a Schick Hydro Silk TrimStyle razor with a built-in waterproof bikini trimmer on the other end, so you can maintain your bikini line without having to schedule an appointment.
My colleague Katy Herman believes this razor is a #musthave for anyone who does their own hair removal and/or maintenance in the comfort of their home.
She says: "These razors have been my go-tos for years, and the trimmer is shockingly sturdy for one attached to a drugstore razor. The regular razor end is a great moisturizing razor on its own, too, so you can totally reach for this on days when you're not, uh, planning to make a trip into the bush. It's so easy to use as soon as you open it — just pop the one included battery in and it's ready. I won't be without one of these in my shower!"
Promising review: "This 2-in-1 razor is a must! It does a great job, works well, and is super easy to use. when using the trimmer it cuts and removes perfectly, it doesn't do a close shave but it does a nice buzz. It's the perfect size for the bikini area and I haven't cut myself. After using the razor my skin felt super smooth. recommend buying it here much more affordable than buying it at CVS. If you are looking for a 2-in-1 razor definitely recommend giving this one a try." —April keeling
Get it from Amazon for $12.12.
8. Veet's sensitive hair removal gel which has over 27,000 5-star reviews on Amazon, so I'll let the reviewers explain why you should add this to your routine. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Promising reviews: "The first few times I tried this, it didn’t work. I went by the instructions and five minutes was not enough. I only shave my legs for special occasions (lmao) and I hate having to take all that time to shave. So I decided to give it another try and left it on my legs for seven minutes. WORKED SO GOOD!!!!! I just took a wet wash cloth and wiped my leg. I even tried on my private area (if you know what I mean), but I was really scared to get the product in the inside area so I only did the top part and left it on for 10 because 7 wasn’t enough. Maybe don’t leave it on for that long; it’s just what works for you. I was really hairy and had a bush growing EVERYWHERE! Definitely recommend" —A
"I have been looking for a good hair removal for my sensitive skin and this one is perfect. It has a great smell and leave my skin feeling smooth and silky. It does not burn my skin at all even when I leave it on for 15 minutes or more. This is definitely my new hair removal cream. I will recommend this one to everyone." —Crystal
Get it from Amazon for $8.01.
9. A bottle of signature Fur Oil designed for softening and cleansing pubic hair and skin to help tackle those pesky ingrowns and deliver healthier skin below the belt.
Promising reviews: "Love the scent, how it makes my skin feel and my hair is legitimately softer after continued use. This is a game-changer. Especially post shave and wax!" —Natalia Q.
"I have suffered with ingrown hairs and red bumps around my bikini area for years. This is the first product that actually works! I feel confident to wear my swimsuit again!" —Cheryl C.
Get it from Amazon for $26+ (available in 0.47-oz. and 2.5-oz.).
10. A roll-on 2-in-1 shaving oil and aftershave moisturizer that can be used from head-to-toe before, during and after your shaving routine to help reduce razor bumps and cleanse and moisturize skin.
Enriched with a hydrating blend of essential oils, this oil is gentle enough to be used everywhere, including delicate areas like the vulva, scrotum, perineum, and of course, the butt.
Promising review: "One of my staples! I shave my pubic hair regularly and rolling this baby on afterwards is a life-saver and helps prevent and soothe any redness, irritation, and bumps."
Get it from The Butters Hygienics Co for $18.
The Butters Hygienics Co. is a Black- and queer-owned business based in Michigan that creates products using simple ingredients and hand-crafted in the owner's kitchen. In true millennial fashion, they want you to be able to afford quality body products that do what the bottles say they do.
11. A roll-on aftershave serum to help relieve and repair ingrown hairs, razor burn and razor bumps.
Promising reviews: "I liked that it controlled my ingrown hair growth. It had a good smell. I used it after I waxed for several days and helped with the redness and ingrown hairs." —Amadis Marquez
"I usually get really bad ingrown hairs after waxing the bikini line, but I used this product right after service for a couple of days it it really worked! I did not develop the usual ingrown hairs! Super happy with the product and the roll on is so much easier to use than liquid." —Shell Belle
Get it from Amazon for $17.90.
12. A massage candle with an aromatic scent to help you set the mood in a pinch. It also can be used for a little kinky sensation play later, if you're into that.
This candle is created with jojoba and soybean oils for skin-softening properties and has a soy wax base. Scent options include unscented, amber and cedar, or pink pepper and lemon.
Promising reviews: "Just buy it! you will not regret the purchase! Gave me and my boyfriend one of the best date nights ever! I’m very curious to try the different scents and other products!!" —Bre K.
"I was super scared at first to use it on the skin. But I followed the directions first left it on for 15 minutes and then poured it and massaged the skin. It is super relaxing and the warmth is ideal for ultimate absorption by the skin." —veronika.aliya
Get it from Maude for $30 (available in 4-oz. or 6-oz. and three scents).
13. An oil-based, hemp-infused massage oil by Coconu that'll help you get in the mood for ~play~ whether you use it topically for extra stimulation or internally as a lubricant.
Promising reviews: "I think this is my very first Amazon review and, wow! This is the absolutely best lube I have tried, and I think I have tried them all! I saw this brand Coconu all over Instagram and was excited to see they’re finally on Amazon for free shipping. The good stuff — it is SO moisturizing both externally and internally, absolutely perfect for every type of massage and intimate action. This is a serious game changer, it’s unlike any other of its kind on the market and you can see from the product photos that it’s completely natural!" —Marie
"What a great product. It's a perfect consistency and really makes a difference. I've tried other brands, but I'm so impressed with this one. It's gentle and it's so comforting to know I'm using safe and natural ingredients. So glad to have found this." —RR
Get it from Amazon for $39.99.
14. An anti-chafing lotion for the nuts, the family jewels, the rocks below the surface...
Promising reviews: "This product is AMAZING, and that's an understatement. Throughout the years I've tried out every product out there, from generic powders to corn starch and so called advanced formulas. All of those worsened the situation between in my groin and gave me a rash. The Nutt Butter keeps my scrotum, butt crack, and thighs rash-free and comfortable when I sweat. I work in a warehouse being on my feet and running around eight hours a day. With the Nutt Butter, my groin area no longer sweats, no longer stinks, and is smooth and comfortable. This is a fantastic product. Worth every penny despite its high price." —L Bick
"I’m a mailman who walks 12 miles a day in all sorts of weather and this product is the best thing I’ve found for chafing in 20 years." —Shawn March
Get it from Amazon for $19.
15. Fur's Stubble Cream, which is an all-over moisturizer enriched with a blend of safflower oil, shea butter and tea tree oil to help soften hair as it grows back and minimize ingrown hairs.
Promising reviews: "I am very prone to ingrown hairs but the stubble cream has completely changed that! I am blown away by how well it works and a little really goes along way." —Emma L.
"I was suffering from ingrown hairs and irritation after starting to shave when I used to wax. After a couple days of using the Fur stubble cream — my skin calmed down immensely. The redness and bumps are almost gone. Definitely recommend!" —Allie S.
Get it from Revolve for $42.
16. A vaginal plug, so you can gear up for any large dildos or girthier partners you may be entertaining. This plug is contoured specifically for multi-point vaginal stimulation and created with *super* squishy silicone for comfortable wear before, during or even after play.
TBH, this might be the squishiest toy I've ever handled. It's elegantly curved and kinda looks like a vagina, so all you have to do is fold and insert. It's designed to help enhance clitoral sensation, deliver deeper internal stimulation, and it even has a slightly flared base for discreet wear and effortless retrieval. Also, it comes in a variety of thicknesses, so you can choose whatever's most comfy for you and deliver that full feeling you've been craving.
Note: These plugs are intended for vaginal use only and not recommended for anal. Check out the following link in case you want to explore anal toys created with the same squishy silicone (these have a flared base for safety).
Promising reviews: "I just bought this along with the Tango X after getting tired of my rabbit vibe being too uncomfortable to sit with between orgasms. I'm 30, never been sexually active with a partner for various reasons and sex toys are something I've only recently begun to appreciate as I become more comfortable with intimacy and learn my own body before trying to share it with others. So I'd classify myself as a beginner and for that, this plug is amazing. I'm not able to handle anything large but the softness of this silicone is no joke — even the small was kind of daunting to me but it just popped right in, and I can barely feel it when I'm not playing — the most noticeable part is definitely the base, and even then it's not uncomfortably noticeable. This acts as a major upgrade to clitoral orgasms for me, it's like blended orgasms without all the effort and buildup that those normally take. And it's a lot of fun on its own, too!" —Kat
"I find myself very surprised, in a good way. This toy has impressed me so much that I had to leave a review, which I have never done on this site! It’s a great little thing to leave in for an hour or so and tease yourself, before some actual fucking. I used the size small, since too big can be a bit painful for me. It also stretched me out a bit so I probably would have been comfortable taking a size that normally would be too big for me. Left me dripping wet. Excellent on all fronts!" —Lesbian
Get it from Peepshow Toys for $42+ (available in four sizes and four colors).
17. A set of glass anal dilators that range from 2.7 inches long to 4 inches long and 0.8 inches wide to 1.5 inches wide. That size range makes them perfect for anal training, not to mention the bulbous head and flared base.
This set is perfect for anyone interested in anal sex and wanting to work their way up to girthier or heavier toys. Since they're glass, these training toys also allow for temperature play and can be used with any kind of lubricant you choose.
Get it from B-Vibe for $129.99.
18. A very convenient anal training set, stocked with a beginner-friendly plug, a vibrating plug, and a weighted plug. Along with the toys, it includes a comprehensive guide to anal sex, a lube applicator, travel bag, and an enema to help you prep and keep things clean.
This set is perfect for anyone interested in experimenting with anal, whether beginner or expert level.
Promising review: "This kit made me comfortable and confident enough to try anal again. I had attempted it with a past partner years ago, and we did it ALL wrong. Fast forward a couple of years: I have a patient and knowledgeable partner, and I'm ready to try again. That's when I found this anal training kit, and let me tell you, it is well worth the money. Not only are the butt plugs of exceptional quality, but the Anal Guide is extremely informative. After using only the first two sizes of butt plugs, I'm having anal sex. Apprehension and fear have been lifted, and a whole new world of pleasure has taken its place. I'm seriously beyond grateful to have had such a comforting and helpful tool to introduce me to the magic of anal and butt play in general. Take it from me, if you're nervous but want to explore the pleasure your butthole has to offer, invest in this kit — or any of their beginner products for that matter." —Allyson
Get it from B-Vibe for $159.99.
19. A vegan-friendly sex toy cleaner to keep your toys fresh between uses without any residue or time-consuming cleansing.
You just spray onto your toys and then wipe down. Since it's water-based, this cleaner can be used on rubber, latex, glass, metal, and silicone toys.
Promising reviews: "I always use this on my toys, and it lasts a long time. Only a few sprays are needed since it lathers up nicely and cleans any toy you need it to. Smells pleasant while cleaning with it, and this smell gets washed away when you rinse it off, just as you would expect." —ajmanny
"Great product, which is nice and easy to use. Quick spray which goes along way, wipe over or down and leave to dry. No mess, no after marks, and nice natural/fresh smell, nothing too strong. A must-have product to keep clean and look after your toys." —Daisy1982
Get it from Lovehoney for $16.99.
20. A UV sterilizer powerful enough to kill 99.9% of bacteria, but designed in a travel-friendly pouch, so you can take it with you on the go and keep your toys extra clean at all times.
UV will sanitize your sex toys hands-free and get rid of nearly *all* of the bacteria that tries to live there and ruin your good time. This specific sterilizer works in less than five minutes to thoroughly sanitize your toys before use and after cleaning. It fits sex toys up to 10 inches long, is designed to be travel-friendly and TSA-approved, and it's also USB rechargeable!
Get it from B-Vibe for $84.99 (originally $90).
21. *OR* a Uvee sex toy sanitizer box — it's perfect if you really want to splurge. This sanitizer was created specifically for sex toys with interior dividers to keep toys separate and still clean them all at once. It's even large enough to hold a Magic Wand vibrator!
Promising review: "I love my UVee. It is super simple to set up and use. I also really appreciate the USB ports inside; it's a great feature! To top it all off, the unit itself looks sleek and modern. It is actually attractive enough and subtly labelled enough to allow me to keep it on top of the dresser. I can't recommend UVee highly enough." —Molly E.
Get it from Amazon for $179.99 (available in black or white).
22. An 8-oz. supply of water-based lube because there is zero shame in adding a little assistance and 65,000 people (and counting) who gave it 5 stars are willing to back me up on that.
Promising review: "I have eczema so my skin is super sensitive about everything that touches it, but I have great news, as it didn't burn me or leave me any damage! The feel: It feels great and is definitely runny. This could either be a bad thing or good thing for people as I know some people like it thick (this ain't it if you're looking for that). I'm using it for toys as it works great for it. I did notice that it does dry up but just by a little. So you don't have to worry about it drying up instantly after applying it as it definitely lasts through the session. This stuff can last a while as I barely pour much out of the bottle and it was enough to coat and get the job done. Would definitely recommend for anyone that likes lube that isn't super thick or needs lube for toys! Also for people who have eczema like me or sensitive skin." —Senpai Names
Get it from Amazon for $6.99 (available in original and three flavors).
23. An innovative Pulse warming lube dispenser, so you can get the right amount of lube without the hassle of leakage, slippery hands or accidental stains.
This warming dispenser comes with four specially made lubricant pods that can be inserted with ease, warmed at the touch of a button and dispensed with motion-sensor technology. It includes two water-based lubricants and two silicone-based lubricants, for your pleasure (and both lubes have refillable pods you can purchase!).
Promising reviews: "What a brilliant and much-needed innovation in women’s sexual health. Where have you been all my life? This is a luxury I will no longer live without. A new way...having conveniently dispensed warm lubes and massage oil for personal use...now I can’t imagine it any other way. So nice and lovely. Everyone should have one bedside. You can unplug it like an iPhone and discreetly tuck it away when kids are around :-). I appreciated that I received an initial supply of each lube with the order of the warming dispenser. The personal lubricants and massages oil are scent-free and really convenient to use. If interested, I wrote separate reviews of each when I ordered more of all of them. I prefer Aloe-ahh for my lube but if hydration is more important for you, H2Oh! might be your preference; it is all so personal :) Spoil Me is a great massage oil!" —Ann S.
"If you've ever been 'in the moment' and needed a little help with lubrication, you know how unsexy it is to stop, open a bottle, squirt (probably too much) lube into your hand and everywhere, and then try to get back in the mood again. The Pulse bridges that gap and makes it really easy to keep the vibe going without interruption. It dispenses exactly the right amount, warms it up for you so you/partner are not shocked with cold, and allows you to continue the fun. It's a nice change from the old routine, it feels amazing, and honestly I'm never going back. I ordered some of the additional pods and I'm glad I did because I'm going through this stuff at twice the normal speed now, haha. Seriously though, this stuff is a life-changer." —Billy
Get it from Amazon for $199 (available with lubricants or massage oil).
24. An adorable (and waterproof) bullet vibrator with 10 settings and a discreet design, so you can bring ~good vibes~ with you on the road.
I am a firm believer that if you're having partnered sex, and you want to guarantee that the ~good vibes~ are shared all around, there are two sex toys one should always have on hand: a bullet vibrator like this one...and a cock ring, like the one below.
Promising review: "This is my first time buying something like this, so I expected some dryer machine level vibrating. NO. I fully charged it for maybe two hours, and it woke up and it chose violence. I pushed the on switch and scared the crap out of me by vibrating so fast I couldn’t hold it in my fingers without feeling numb. This thing felt like one of those toys that are supposedly shocking you, but obviously in a good way. And that was the first setting. 🤧 As you click through, it goes ever faster and harder than the first, and then it goes through some rhythms. Obviously I was worried about what I was about to do to my lady bits, but I can honesty say it was pleasure that was unknown to me. That’s good. Tried it when I wasn’t exactly in the mood, so I can only expect it to be better. It’s not that noisy under the covers, and it’s super easy to clean it seems. Also a fair width. At this price, it’s pretty powerful and worth the buy." —Sandy
Get it from Amazon for $10.28.
25. A cock ring designed with a textured vibrating pad to stimulate the clit or balls — your pick.
The silicone ring stretches to fit a variety of penises (or dildos) and the vibrator has five speeds and patterns for up to 25 varying intensities.
If this cock ring seems a little too fancy, here's a list of cock rings to introduce to your play.
Promising reviews: "This is a great addition to solo or couples' play. The ring is super stretchy and can fit around any of our toys. Loved when she was on top. She was able to grind on it without having to hold a heavy vibrator. Super quick and easy to clean and charges quickly! Its pretty quiet considering how intense the vibration can be." —Howard Martin
"This vibrating ring is made out of good quality material. It's soft and stretchy with a nice snug fit but not too tight. It can be worn in a variety of ways and used in different positions. The vibrations are pretty powerful while also being relatively quiet. The battery lasts quite awhile but charges pretty quickly. And best of all it's super easy to clean because it's waterproof and can even be used underwater. I highly recommend this product. It's not too expensive and was shipped discreetly." —NSFB
Get it from Amazon for $36.66.
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