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1. The Starsi vibrator, which combines function with full-on adorableness with its supple silicone design and unique star shape that curves and clings all over for out-of-this-world sensations. This quirky toy won't make anyone suspicious as it rolls through TSA in your luggage, and that's definitely a win.
Starsi was designed for all bodies to explore pleasure and can be used with the included removable bullet vibrator or without, in case you are a fan of grinding or just want to stimulate areas with a little less intensity.
Promising reviews: "I love the way I can read erotica and grind on Starsi! I use a hitachi regularly and I would say that for me Starsi is a fun toy to edge myself, but I can eventually go over the edge just grinding after a while. The little ends feel really nice for sensation play as well. Also Starsi is so quiet!" —Cassidy
"I cannot say enough good things about this purchase. The Starsi knocked it out of the park! The surface area of the toy is wide enough to cover the entire internal and external portions of the clitoris complex. The grooves are both soft and distinctive enough to have a grind that is satisfying. Additionally, it is easy to hold and grip; no toys flying out from under you right when you most need them. 5/5 stars for the number of consecutive orgasms we had with it!" —Anonymous
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79 (available in coral and pink).
Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.
2. A flexible vibrating butt plug that'll sync to the beat of their favorite songs, mimic customized patterns, or buzz along to user-created vibration modes already on the app. Elevate your next baecation by lounging in one room while your lover controls your ~good vibes~ from...well, literally anywhere else.
Supple, body-safe silicone offers a waterproof exterior and a flared base helps the plug stay put.
Promising reviews: "Heck yes! Buy it, buy it now! Liked this so much we ordered the bigger version and the Edge. The user interface could use a lot of work but once you get it going you'll forget about it in the bliss that the vibrator is delivering. The battery life seems to be pretty good, used it for over an hour with no issues. It is reasonably quiet but you couldn't wear it in a quiet place like a restaurant." —RDouglas
"Loving this so far! It's bigger than I thought it'd be, but that's really more my fault for not looking at the dimensions. The different settings are all really nice, and I love that it's bluetooth enabled. As with anything that vibrates, it does make a bit of noise, but once it's actually in you, it's really pretty quiet." —Rachel S.
Get it from Amazon for $89+ (available in four sizes).
3. A luxury clitoral stimulator designed with Pleasure Air Technology and an autopilot function to deliver some back-arching cunnilingus without having to bother with pillow talk. This toy gets a little less discreet on higher settings, but the Smart Silence function automatically turns it off whenever it's not touching skin.
This new and improved suction vibrator by Womanizer boasts 14 intensity levels, an autopilot function that makes sure things never get too predictable during use, Smart Silence technology to make sure it's only making noise when touching the body / skin and it's waterproof. *exhale* So yeah, just click *add to cart*.
Promising reviews: "Good … Lord. The Smart Silence function is very clever, but utterly redundant because there is no way in hell you’ll be quiet using this! The intensity settings and autopilot are fab, the highest setting practically sucked an orgasm out, and I love that there are two different attachment sizes. I charged it yesterday and got to know it this morning, and I’m currently at #8 since this morning." —Anonymous
"An excellent purchase: super easy to use, wide range of vibrations, nearly silent on the lowest four levels. I have a roommate, so the Smart Silence feature is perfect." —Anonymous
Get it from Womanizer or Amazon for $199 (available in 5 colors).
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4. A Tango X bullet vibrator by We-Vibe designed with a silicone grip and pinpointed tip that offers precision and leg-shaking orgasms. Its slim shape and travel-lock ability basically make this vibe the perfect companion for all your spring travel.
The Tango X is waterproof, so you can use it in the tub, shower or pool and boasts seven rumbly vibration modes with eight intensities to explore.
Promising review: "Let’s just say that the popularity of this bullet is very much justified. It feels just as good as my massage wand! Usually bullets are too weak for me since I’m what you might call a power queen. But this bullet definitely satisfies me. And it’s small, quiet, and very easy to clean. It’s not always easy to find a toy that’s both quiet and strong, but this vibrator does that. The handle is made of silicone while the tip is hard plastic, so the vibrations on the part that matters aren’t at all muffled by body safe silicone, and they dull down at the handle meaning that your hand won’t go numb while using it. And the tip is tapered into a point to allow for nice pin point precision. In terms of the volume, on the lowest strength it’s pretty much silent. But as you increase the strength, it starts to become more audible. But if you have it pressed against you under some covers, there’s no way anyone outside your door will hear it. Overall, if you want a vibrator that is discreet and very powerful, this is what you’re looking for. I can see myself using this toy quite a lot!" —Anonymous
Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $79 (available in midnight blue and cherry red).
5. A vibrating stroker that looks like a manta ray and is probably just as powerful. Six speeds and six patterns turn oral sex, masturbation, and couples' play into a mind-blowing time for anyone with a penis. The easy-to-use travel lock offers piece of mind when this toy is packed in your luggage, weekender or go-bag for those sexy (and sometimes spontaneous) trysts.
Promising reviews: "This toy is worth every penny and maybe double that. I have a ton of toys (I like trying new things) but this one is the one I always go back to. I like using it both dry and with lube as they are totally different experiences with this thing. Saw a review and was intrigued but was a little hesitant given the price. I shouldn’t have worried." —Anonymous
"I have been eyeing the Manta for a while and took the plunge. I have quite a few toys and WOW! It is my favorite by far! I am older and this gives me some rest for my hands. It is light and powerful and the shape, power and weight are perfect for playing with all of the contours of a penis: the base, shaft and tip. I love playing with it and enjoying the sensations. I have a Hitachi wand and I like this a lot better as it is easy to hold and the power is quite good (the Hitachi is just too much). The 'fit and finish' is excellent. (Thanks Fun Factory!) I have not tried this with a partner but that is one of the reasons I bought this as I think it would be fun in partner play.
"All around this is an excellent toy. I would recommend tweaking the pulse settings as I don't always know how to increase the speed without switching pulse modes. I would also recommend including a carrying pouch. Otherwise, holy smokes — worth the money!!!! This is a great addition to your box!" —P.
Get it from Fun Factory for $139.99 or Amazon for $129.99+ (available in three colors and jewel-tone).
6. A rabbit vibrator inspired by Fifty Shades that satisfies with 36 different vibrating combinations and dual motors for simultaneous external and internal stimulation. Not to mention, you can rely on the travel lock to make sure this toy doesn't start rocking around in your bag.
This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?
Promising review: "My friend told me to buy this and that she orgasms in 40 seconds. I didn’t believe her, first time trying this I left a big wet patch on my grey sheets. I’m not even a huge toy fan but this has me wanting to use it every night! I love it!!" —Cookie
"I don’t think I was prepared for how amazing this actually is. You can orgasm in seconds if you’re not careful. The vibrations feel amazing. Me and my husband love using this, especially when he’s in my ass. There are literally no words, you’ll be seeing stars." —LaLaa
7. A compact silicone finger vibrator in case physical touch is your love language and you want to add a little oomph to your play with 10 vibration modes controlled by a single button.
Promising reviews: "I was looking for something that would work well with partner play, and I hit the jackpot with this little vibe. It’s about the size of an egg, the finger grooves make it so comfortable to hold, and it’s perfect for every position. It doesn’t really explain, so for anyone reading: long press to turn on and off/once it’s on, single press to cycle through settings/once it’s off, two presses to lock and unlock it — it will be locked upon opening! Highly recommend. :)" —Crandberry
"OK...this one is incredible. So many uses from nipple stimulation to clit stimulation (during solo or partnered play!!) to giving some vibration to the perineum; me and my partners love this toy. It’s so versatile and strong enough to give a great sensation, while being easy to hold. Also this is a GREAT on-the-go toy as it has a travel mode so it doesn’t accidentally buzz when you don’t want it to." —Meaghan Booth
Get it from Spectrum Boutique or Amazon for $45.99 (available in three colors).
Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive retailer run by self-proclaimed "Dildo Duchess" Zoe Ligon to provide customers with curated collections and resources.
8. The Billionaire, a top-rated, beginner-friendly vibrator by Smile Makers with a sleek shape that's perfect for external and internal exploration. This vibe ranks on the Smile Makers noise chart as "super quiet" and its slim, palm-sized shape means it's perfect for discreet carrying.
This sweet battery-powered vibe has four speeds and two pulsation modes for newbies (and practiced 'bators) to play with.
Promising reviews: "The Billionaire is quiet but pretty powerful. I find it to be good size for a starter but I wish the pulse settings were more intense than they are." —Emma T
"First time using any sex toy, and I can’t believe I didn’t order it sooner. It’s so cute and feels so good! The size is just perfect, super easy to hide if you don’t live by your own. The shape is super comfortable and the material is soft and feels awesome everywhere. The different speeds are also wonderful." —María B.
Get it from Smile Makers for $60.
9. The Puff compact suction vibrator has five powerful pulsation intensities to help spread the love, leaving you breathless and wondering why you didn't own one before now.
Ah, good ol' Puff. *sighs dreamily* Every time I think I have found a new favorite sex toy, I go back to this one and am reminded all over again why I love it. There's only five intensities: simple, to the point — and I like to start at 3 and end at 5. It's incredible for edging, if you want to enjoy a longer session and it's also perfect for quickies. It's my go-to shower toy because it's waterproof, and I have actually considered just leaving it in the bathroom, but I won't. True story: it died on me the other day mid-session for the first time (I've had it for over a year and maybe charged it...twice?), so the battery lasts longer than you for the most part. Anyways, this is the toy I recommend to all of my friends and I have several who own it, and it's also the toy I recommend to random strangers I meet who are looking for new ways to come because yes...when you're a sex toy writer, that's a thing that happens. If you need to know more about this sex toy and why I personally love it, make sure to read my Unbound Puff review.
Promising reviews: "Took me a couple tries (I’ve previously only used bullet vibes before) to get used to the feeling but y’all. So Good. Highly recommend using it with a silicone-safe lube for the best possible experience!!! Can’t give it enough praise! Also I’ve gone thru TSA with it in my carry-on with no issues. :)" —erica
"The first time I used it I had no issues coming but I still kept going back to my finger toy. I have a Taurus Venus so I tend to stay pretty fixed in my routines. My first few times with the Puff were when my clit was getting overstimulated from the clitoral vibe and when I was feeling self conscious about the noise my vibe was making. I love how quiet the Puff is. I live by myself but I feel confident my neighbors above and below me don't hear my vibe. 🙃 It was probably try number four or five that has me reaching for the Puff over my clitoral fave. Just this week, I was telling a friend how much I love the Puff so I figured I'd write a review and help someone else out. I now see what all the fuss is about. Puff is a must." —C
Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in quartz and mint).
10. The sleek Arc G-spot vibrator by Dame that has a clit-stimulating ridge and curved handle to help you reach the same level of ecstasy that you get when the sun sets after 7 p.m. and your favorite park is in bloom.
This waterproof vibrator has a run time of 1.5 hours with five intensities and five patterns to keep you buzzing.
Promising reviews: "Arc is very quiet for how powerful it is. This is my fourth purchase from Dame, and my new favorite!" —Kathryn T.
"I was skeptical when it said it was quiet because I’ve had 'quiet' vibrators and I can’t use them because they are too powerful and loud so my roommates would know what I was doing lol. This is my new favorite toy. It isn’t too strong but still does the job." —Sarah B.
Get it from Dame (in ice and plum) or Amazon for $115 (available in ice, berry, and plum).
11. The We-Vibe Vector+ is designed for an adjustable fit that molds to your body to deliver internal vibes to your favorite spots. It's sleek shape offers dual stimulation to the prostate and perineum with 10 preset vibration settings.
Like many We-Vibe sex toys, this product is compatible with the We-Connect App, which allows for remote or long-distance play and customized settings.
Promising review: "A wonderful toy. Incredible quality and feels amazing in your hands and inside. The vibration patterns are really good. Strong and a nice variety of vibrations. Getting it in is no issue, lovely and smooth, just remember to lube up a lot. The app is not something I am really interested in, but the remote to control the vibrations is fantastic. Once the toy is in, you can move it to where you want it with ease and the two different motors are great for having two different sensations, one in you, and one on your frenulum. It is also extremely quiet. Great for when others are around. It can give you powerful P-gasms. It may take a while to find the right spot, as we are all different in terms of anatomy. Overall, a fantastic quality toy and worth the money. " —Anonymous
Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $139 (available in blue and black).
12. A unique luxury vibrator designed for targeted clitoral stimulation with eight vibration modes and three interchangeable attachments: a slim one for G-spot stimulation, another petal-shaped one for tickling your favorite erogenous zones, and a ball-shaped one that gets right to the point.
Or grab the newer Bess 2 (also on Amazon), which includes an anal bead attachment and a heating element!
My best friend, sister and I each have the Bess 2 (like sexy power rangers LOL) and we agree that this toy is exceptionally quiet. Is it the quietest? High-key. It's nothing compared to your typical wand, of course, but I think anything quieter won't have a motor.
Promising reviews: "Beautiful, quality and you can't get bored with the different attachments. Very easy to keep clean which is high on my list. Perfect for multi-orgasmic people!" —Yvonne P.
"I already own the Hero from the Zalo Legends line and was so impressed with the overall quality and elegance of the toy I was dying to buy another Zalo product. I went with the Bess because I am familiar with this type of toy and love it. But I was a little concerned since I own one of the original direct pin point stimulation toys and was concerned that the Bess may not meet my expectations but was I ever wrong. I love the attachments which make this toy versatile and the two separate motor heads in both ends of the toy. The Bess is absolutely stunning. The quality and workmanship is unparalleled (and this is coming from someone who only buys luxury brand sex toys). So far the little silicone ball attachment is my favorite. What makes the Bess stand out to me beyond what I already mentioned was that not only does it offer numerous strong vibration speeds but the different patterns are to die for. I highly recommend trying this toy especially it really stands out and above its competitors. My only warning is start on the lowest setting its a big jump in strength to the next setting and learn the settings before you try it out." —S. L.
Get it from Zalo or Amazon for $99 (available in three colors).
13. The Sona 2 by Lelo uses sonic technology to deliver pleasurable pulsations deep enough to stimulate the internal parts of your clitoris. This unique vibe has 12 intensities for you to enjoy and a waterproof design, so you can indulge wherever.
Promising reviews: "I'm on my second Sona and I can't live without it! I've tried with and without the cruise function, and I found I prefer it without, since the cruise-less version is quieter, and often the cruise will engage when I want greater stimulation in the moment, but my actual orgasm will suffer in strength. Regardless, would DEFINITELY recommend this to anyone (and I have)!" —Janie339
"Amazing — the only one I need! It's not totally quiet but is perfect for use in the shower when you have a little background noise!" —saramk
Get it from Lelo for $92.65 or Amazon for $99.99 (originally $109 and available in three colors).
14. A chic and minimalist bullet vibrator equipped with three intensities and seven pattern settings. A convenient elastic band helps keep it in place around your finger while you explore.
Promising review: "10/10 would recommend to anyone, with any anatomy. Best orgasm I’ve ever had with a sex toy and I used to work at a sex toy retail store… The motor is super quiet and super strong, the lowest setting is very chill too. I liked working my way up to the highest setting. It’s got a wide surface area perfect for hitting multiple spots at once, the material is good and won’t deteriorate with proper care. The ring that goes around your finger is flexible and doesn’t irritate the skin. It’s a really nice, valuable toy." —lilbitch
Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $16.95.
Bijoux Indiscrets is a woman-owned and -led company that designs intimate cosmetics and pleasure toys that stand out from typical depictions of female pleasure to help women feel comfortable exploring their bodies and sexuality.
15. A minimalist vibrator that boasts three speeds and a tapered tip for targeted stimulation. This vibe includes a convenient canvas carrying bag for when you eventually decide to take it on the go.
Promising review: "This was my first vibrator / sex toy purchase and first ever orgasm! I was nervous to buy my first one, but this vibe is so small, cute, and I love that it comes with a discreet travel case. It isn't loud and has 3 speeds (but honestly speed 1 will get me there and get me there fast!!). It holds a charge for a long time and haven't had any issues with the battery not lasting. I haven't tried it with a partner yet, but I can imagine it would be a fun time. THANK YOU MAUDE!!" —B
"Really happy with my purchase! It’s not completely silent — and wouldn’t work as well if it was lol — but if you’re in the shower or have a fan running for white noise, it’s impossible to hear from another room. Bit of a life changer if you ask me. You won’t regret trying it!" —Olivia
Get it from Maude for $49 (available in three colors).
16. A spicy clit stimulator that'll put out the metaphorical fire in your loins with four vibrating speeds and two pulsation modes designed specifically to target your labia and clit. No more ignoring the rest of the vulva with this toy!
Promising reviews: "Pretty unique design, never seen one in this shape before and was pleasantly surprised. It's pretty delicate and can be used in many ways, works well and isn't very loud. Only thing is that batteries are not included, so remember to buy those beforehand. Very solid product overall." —Martina C.
"Perfect if you really need the clit stimulation in order to cum, but also I really enjoyed the diameter of it because it could cover more ground, haha." —Sydney R.
Get it from Smile Makers or Ulta for $60.
17. A precision bullet vibrator named after your favorite flower — a rose — because it's both pretty and powerful, with 25 vibrating combinations and a flexible rosebud design. April showers may bring May flowers, but this one will bring an orgasm... 🤫
What, like it's hard?
Promising reviews: "Amazing!! This thing is surprisingly quiet and VERY effective. The vibrations are comparable to the Magic Wand Massage Wand, if not more. This exceeded all my expectations and surprised me in the best way. I had been slightly worried since I read some reviews saying it was too loud, but I had no issues at all. The noise control was perfect. If you have your door shut, no one would be able to hear it at all. This is quite possibly one of the best toys I’ve purchased. Thank you!" —Vivian S.
"Amazing product, especially for first-time users. The petals are also lovely which I wasn’t expecting! It’s quiet, so need to worry about that if that’s a concern, and easy to clean as well. I highly recommend this to anyone looking for something effective and also pretty!" —Kate G.
Get it from Vush for $90.
18. A vibrating anal plug, featuring graduated beads and 16 vibration modes, so you can feel every little thing as you explore the rear. All for under $25!
Promising reviews: "I thought I'd get myself this toy as something I could use to introduce myself to anal play, and honestly, it's one of the best purchases I've made! This toy is a lovely small size, easier to use than anal beads, so it's wonderful for beginners! It's smooth and bends, letting you reach wherever you want with great ease. Combine it with the right lube, and you're all set to go! The power is controlled with a button at the bottom of the toy, and using just a single AAA battery this toy gives off some pretty quiet, yet powerful vibrations, and there's a good selection to chose from! If you're looking to start off at the cheap end for anal toys, then look no further than this little beauty." —Savage Egan
"If you’re looking for a product to send shockwaves through your body, this is it! This toy will keep you excited and pleasured for hours. Try it with your partner or enjoy it by yourself. You will not be disappointed!" —Jerome Monegan
Get it from Amazon for $19.99 (available in three colors).
19. An external vibe by Unbound that'll make you cheer for its compact size, waterproof design and unique shape for all sorts of stimulation.
This vibrator is called "Pep" (which it'll put in your step) and boasts five vibration intensities and three patterns to explore with both targeted and broad stimulation.
Promising reviews: "Holy crap! I didn’t believe this would be the perfect vibe but I was wrong. Whisper quiet, super subtle and so, so powerful!" —Chloe P.
"I prefer rumbling vibrations and this is an excellent little one! Also very discreet, if you’re using it under the covers you can’t hear it outside at all!!" —Jessica C.
Get it from Unbound for $42 or Amazon for $37.80 (available in blue and orange).
20. Vim — Fun Factory's first wand vibrator — is designed to check all the boxes other wands can't: it's lighter and quieter than other wands and boasts a weighted motor to deliver five speeds and three customizable patterns. A flexible neck means the vibrations (only in the head, not the handle!) hit the spot in any and every position.
Promising review: "I never thought I would replace my trusted Hitachi Magic Wand until Vim came along. It delivered a way better orgasm. The vibration just feels more sophisticated. The low settings are perfect for warming up and the high settings get the job done. And it's so much quieter! 10/10."
Get it from Fun Factory for $169 (available in orange and blue).
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