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    Reviewers Say These 26 Sex Toys Will Definitely Spice Up Your Relationship

    If you're looking to spice things up, look no further. 🌶

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    1. A waterproof vibrating cock ring that adds a little ~something something~ to both parties involved.

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    This cock ring boasts stretch silicone and a textured bottom to help stimulate the perineum or clitoris with its five vibrating speeds and five modes.

    Promising review: "WOW! My girlfriend and I LOVE this! The times we have sex have definitely become more frequent and it's such a turn on for me being able to get my girlfriend to climax over and over, especially because it's always been difficult for her to climax from penetration alone. If you're looking to spice up your sex life or wanna recharge the spark in your relationship I strongly STRONGLY RECOMMEND YOU TO BUY ONE FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER!!!" —Ezequiel Canizalez

    Get it from Amazon for $29.99.

    2. An artisan dildo inspired by the lesbian pride flag with vibrant pink hues and a 5-inch length to reach all your (and your lover's) favorite spots.

    Pink and red striped dildo
    Wet For Her

    Besides its 1.5" width, this eye-catching dildo is harness-compatible and created with a suction cup base to make sure it stays put.

    Promising reviews: "We're so impressed with this dildo and have been looking for the perfect one for a while. I love how the divots and grooves feel and my partner says it feels really secure in our harness." —Anonymous

    "So I ordered from here some time last year and I must admit my girlfriend and I are satisfied with this product. Kind of smaller than expected but still a very nice item to use. :) We’re now back to order more. I’m more so in love with the overall feel of this cute dildo, super smooth, easy to clean, and comfortable, which is very important when pleasing your partner! Great for beginners and just people all around experiencing something new! Keep doing what you’re doing Wet For Her and I’ll continue ordering more and referring ppl to try out your amazing products!" —Nes F.

    Get it from Wet For Her for $36.76 (originally $45.95).

    3. A powerful rabbit vibrator with unique kneading and slipping external stimulation in case you're looking for something simple to spice things up.,

    This dual stimulating silicone toy offers 10 powerful vibration modes and five inches of insertable length to reach that sweet spot.

    Promising review: "We’re a lesbian couple, we use this toy and we’re blown away. Material is very pleasant and it’s a beautiful blue color. If you’re in a lesbian relationship and want to continue enjoying penetration without inviting a guy round, this toy will more than meet your needs. Battery could last a little longer than one hour!" —Jeremy Williams

    Get it from Amazon for $22.97+ (available in purple and teal).

    4. The Queeni Swan finger vibrator that allows you and your partner to explore your favorite erogenous zones with five powerful vibrations and a waterproof design in case you want to take your play into the tub.


    Promising review: "Queeni is small but very powerful. The functionality is easy to use and I love that it is USB chargeable. I used it with my girlfriend before she left for a trip and we had so much fun! Now she won't travel without it. Thank you so much!" —Joseph V.

    Get it from Emojibator for $54.

    Emojibator products are designed in Philadelphia and include novelty sex toys inspired by veggies and other emojis.

    5. A dutiful rose-shaped suction vibrator with seven pulsating intensities because you never need a reason to surprise your S.O. with flowers.

    reviewer holding red rose-shaped vibrator

    Promising review: "What an amazing toy! I bought this for my wife as a surprise, and boy was it! My wife was blindfolded and tied up, she didn't know what was coming when I busted out this magical rose. I used it on her nipples first on the lowest setting, and this thing does have actual suction power. By the time I made it downstairs it didn't take long to have her shaking. Probably 60 seconds and on level two, she was squirting, and I've never gotten that reaction ever before! She really loved this new toy, and looking forward to some more experiences with this. Definitely buy this, especially if there are any other guys looking for something to buy for your lady. Make sure you're in a strong relationship though, she might just take off with thing!" —gary long

    Get it from Amazon for $54.99 (available in red and purple).

    6. A miniature wand vibrator that has 20 vibration patterns and eight speed intensities to help take your sex life to the next level.

    reviewer holding pink wand vibrator

    Promising reviews: "The other reviews were no lie! Got this for her and she has now told all of her friends about it. We have a long distance relationship and this has become a regular toy and a highlight of our chatting together! All of her friends now own them as well! Stop thinking about it and just get one of these for her. Seriously!" —Jason Scheib

    "I couldn’t thank you enough! Firstly, I have chronic pelvic pains and this massager is a lifesaver. It helps to relax muscles (and I’m not talking about Os now). Secondly it did bring some fresh vibe into my marriage. Very ergonomic design. I wish the battery lasted longer lol." —Sofia

    Get it from Amazon for $22.05+ (available in four colors).

    7. A realistic masturbator with a stimulating 3D textured interior that'll knock your socks off alone or with a partner.

    Promising reviews: "Tried this on a whim. It was my partner's first time trying a toy like this and he was skeptical at first but really enjoyed the experience :) 5 stars! Easy to use, easy to clean, definitely satisfactory ;)" —K

    "Seem to have any downsides, it feels amazing to use, either by yourself or with a partner The build quality on this is excellent, and due to both ends being removable it's extremely easy to clean up afterwards. Being able to unscrew/switch off the top to add extra pressure is great and has led to some of the strongest orgasms I've had." —Mikae

    Get it from Amazon for $24.89+ (available in black and white).

    8. A harness and dildo combo kit whether you and your lover are experienced strap-on users and looking for something new or you're exploring...

    Model wearing black harness and black dildo
    Wet For Her

    The lightweight harness boasts adjustable straps and an O-ring compatible with dildos up to 2.25" wide. It is also machine washable and once you've found your perfect fit, you can simply slip it on and off like a pair of underwear. Meanwhile, the included dildo boasts a gentle curve and is compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants for a feel-good time. 

    Promising review: "This harness is AMAZING! It is so comfortable to wear and holds the hardware so well and gives me more control than any harness I’ve ever used!! I was always a big fan of the brief style and different harnesses from Rodeoh but I love the Joque so much I ordered a second one so we’ll always have one clean. My girlfriend actually said it makes her feel closer than the other harness and it feels more intimate as well. We are HUGE fans! Thanks for such a great product!" —Jamee S.

    Get it from Wet For Her for $151.92 (originally $189.90; harness available in three colors and two sizes and dildo available in three sizes).

    9. A sleek and simple rabbit vibrator that'll help you reach all your favorite spots and bring a little more bliss into your relationship.

    reviewer holding pink rabbit vibrator

    This classic rabbit vibrator has seven vibration modes in the shaft for internal stimulation and three vibrating speeds in the clitoral massager for dual sensations.

    Promising review: "The is a great toy for anyone trying to spice up the relationship. It has a big selection of different pulses and speeds that will keep you entertained for awhile! The thing I like most about it is that it isn’t too big, so I don’t mind using it on my girlfriend or her using it by herself!" —trevor hunt

    Get it from Amazon for $24.99.

    10. The Original Magic Wand for those couples who love to keep things simple and satisfying with this powerful plug-in vibrator.

    White wand vibrator next to blue box

    The OG magic wand is designed with a simple single control with two speeds that'll get the job done.

    Promising review: "If you're reading reviews on this, you probably already know what it is for. It's a phenomenal tool to have in the bedroom for either solo or partnered play. Some may say it is too powerful or intense, but I think that just adds more potential for spicing things up!" —Rachel C.

    Get it from Amazon for $64.95.

    11. The Satisfyer Pro 2 suction vibrator loved by singles and couples alike for its 11 suction intensities and waterproof design that lead to gratuitous, mind-blowing Os.

    Reviewer-created collage displaying rose gold suction vibrator at different angles

    Promising reviews: "To tell you the truth, this toy gives a spice to the relationship between me and my wife, and it is just very good. It is guaranteed pleasure." —Helio Augusto

    "Second vibrator I’ve ever tried and I’ll probably never use another. My boyfriend and I bought this together since it’s not possible for me to have vaginal orgasms. Truly saved our relationship, we have the most fulfilling sex life now and are both always satisfied." —maria

    Get it from Amazon for $32.95 (available in three colors).

    12. A vibrating cock ring by Lelo because yes, it takes two to tango — but it only takes one cock ring to amplify pleasure for a couple.

    @lelo_official / Via, @lelo_official / Via

    This waterproof cock ring has six vibration modes, so you definitely get a lot of bang for your buck.

    Promising review: "My husband and I love the Lelo Tor II. We having been getting closer in our relationship and intimacy. This product added a new level of spice and variety to our already pretty healthy love life. I would definitely recommend this to couples with open minds and who are looking to spruce up life in the bedroom! ;-)" —AScotty

    Get it from Amazon for $118.03+ (available in black and purple).

    13. The über-popular Starsi toy designed for grinding, exploring and even vibing with its removable bullet vibrator and intricate star shape.

    Cute Little Fuckers

    Promising review: "I’m nonbinary and my girlfriend is trans and we absolute love Starsi. It’s the first toy we’ve tried that works for the both of us; it not only feels incredible but it’s also gender-affirming for her. It’s absolutely a worthy investment!" —B.

    Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79 (also available in limited edition colors).

    Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.

    14. A bullet vibrator with an angled tip for those moments when your lover just needs a few more ~good vibes~ on their exterior.

    reviewer holding black bullet vibrator

    And you definitely don't have to use those 10 powerful vibrations on just the clit...get a little explorative!

    Promising review: "Okay hear me out…If you’ve been eyeballing this and have been thinking about getting it but aren’t sure, DO IT! The power this little thing has is AMAZINGGG! It’s small and sooo convenient ANDDD if you want to spice up your relationship with your boo TRY IT! Super fun 🤪" —Estefany

    Get it from Amazon for $13.99.

    15. A hefty 8-inch stainless-steel dildo that offers a delectable weight and feeling if you want to treat your lover to a unique sort of pleasure.

    Model touching curved stainless steel dildo

    Promising review: "My wife would have NEVER bought something like this to bring into our bedroom even though we have experimented with typical sex toys like vibrators and even a Lelo Gigi for G-spot stimulation. Well I ordered the Pure Wand and it came right on schedule and my wife calls me at work after it came to the front door and said she would take a look at it later. Well I got a text message from her and she said she put the baby down for a nap and had our older son 'busy' and she was going to take a peek at the new toy. 25 mins later I get a phone call and all I can say was the first thing out of her mouth was 'OH MY GOD!!! OH MY GOD!!'  And for the whole coming weekend she was so pumped that it got used several times and she demonstrated it to me and I got to say if you want to get a toy that is going to help bring new life into your marriage bed then I'd HIGHLY recommend this one. BTW she wants to help me learn how to use it for prostate massage and I'm thinking about it..." —M. Green

    Get it from Amazon for $98.45.

    16. A compact silicone finger vibrator in case physical touch is your love language and you want to add a little oomph to your play with 10 vibration modes controlled by a single button.

    Turquoise, pink and purple finger vibrators displayed at different angles / Via

    Promising reviews: "I bought one of these a few months ago, and just came back to buy a second one, that's how much I like this vibe. Now I've got one at my place and one at my boyfriend's because I don't want to do without it. While I don't prefer this for masturbating because it doesn't have quite enough oomph for me solo (I will go for my Magic Wand or Womanizer over this), I really like it for partnered and penetrative sex. I usually grab it during sex right when I need that last little push :) and it does the trick. It's a great size and so easy to hold with the little finger grips that I can comfortably use it in many positions with a partner. Would definitely recommend if you are looking for a low-fuss (and relatively low cost) vibrator to easily incorporate into your partnered sex." —Jane

    "Ok...this one is incredible. So many uses from nipple stimulation to clit stimulation (during solo or partnered play!!) to giving some vibration to the perineum; me and my partners love this toy. It’s so versatile and strong enough to give a great sensation, while being easy to hold. Also this is a GREAT on-the-go toy as it has a travel mode so it doesn’t accidentally buzz when you don’t want it to." —Meaghan Booth

    Get it from Spectrum Boutique for $44 (available in three colors).

    Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive retailer run by self-proclaimed "Dildo Duchess" Zoe Ligon to provide customers with curated collections and resources.

    17. A finger-inspired G-spot vibrator designed with a slender curve to help reach your S.O.'s sweetest spots.

    Model holding slim purple vibrator
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    This 25-function vibrator boasts a 30-degree angle at the head to help reach all your favorite spots, just like your finger would!

    Promising review: "My wife's preferred orgasm method is simultaneous G-spot vibrator + finger vibrator + clitoral Stimulation. This is our first sex toy designed specifically for G-spot massage. PROS: Curve is perfect for massaging G-Spot. Tapered neck keeps massager in place well. Multiple speeds great for gradual build up before applying second part of method (see above). The included carrying sleeve is a nice touch, material is soft and operation is quiet. CONS: Nothing. SUMMARY: If your partner is into G-spot massage, I recommend this toy, and I suggest you consider the above referenced method (simultaneous G-spot massage with this sex toy + clitoral stimulation). After 20+ years of marriage, this massager + this method helped put an extra spark in the bedroom for my wife and me." —Rodney Ringler

    Get it from Amazon for $34.66+ (available in two styles).

    18. A vibrating anal plug in case you and your SO want to explore each other's rear entrance with its graduated beads and seven vibration settings. Just remember to clean it well between uses.

    reviewer holding black beaded anal plug

    Promising review: "If you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom, look no further. You and your significant other just added a whole other level to your relationship. Highly recommended." —Pauly Walnutz

    Get it from Amazon for $19.99.

    19. A remote-controlled couple's vibrator with a dual-stimulating design and wearability, so you and your SO can spice things up in your intimacy with the simple touch of a button.

    reviewer holding pink vibrator above white wireless remote.

    Promising review: "I found this vibrator to be nothing but amazing. It was my first time purchasing and using a vibrator with my boyfriend and it made the experience so much better! I would definitely recommend this to couples who want to spice up their relationship on a different level. 10/10 would purchase again as well as other products from Phanxy!" —Happy customer!!

    Get it from Amazon for $33.99 (available in three colors).

    20. A unique strap-on compatible dildo that's designed to stimulate the wearer with an ergonomic base that grinds against the clit, so you and your lover can both get off no matter which role you like to play.

    Wet For Her

    Promising review: "I've been on both the giving and receiving side with this toy and really enjoyed it. My girlfriend was able to orgasm from topping with a strap-on for the first time with this toy. The texture and firmness of the toy is also great." —Anonymous

    Get it from Wet For Her for $55.96 (originally $69.95; available in three sizes).

    21. A rabbit vibrator that delivers seven suction intensities and three thrusting modes, so you can try out some satisfying DP or let your lover take control.

    reviewer holding pink rabbit vibrator with suction arm

    Promising reviews: "This toy has been a hit with me and my partner! The self thrusting is very enjoyable and the a suction power is AMAZING! This toy is super easy to clean and store. The battery life is incredible. I’ve had this toy about three weeks now, I use it every other day and have only had to fully charge it twice! I highly recommend this toy!" —Nikki Red

    "Whoa, just whoa! I seriously entered a nonverbal state using this with a partner, and orgasmed so hard that I gave myself a charley horse. DO NOT PASS GO. BUY IT RIGHT. TF. NOW." —Audra Browne

    Get it from Amazon for $37.88.

    22. A sleek and powerful wand vibrator in case you want to up the ante on your partner play with up to 50 vibration combinations and a versatile waterproof design.

    Model holding orange wand vibrator

    Promising reviews: "I use my sex toy almost everyday and I'm really enjoying every time I use it. My partner uses it too and both of us are wild about it. We use a lot!! After all, YOLO!" —Isabelle G.

    "Amazing! The best thing I’ve ever bought for myself. It’s literally so important now when I want to relax and just enjoy myself, but now my partner wants to try with me all the time 😂🤫." —Ntumba B.

    Get it from Vush for $120.

    Vush is an Australia-based sexual wellness brand that’s all about self-love and creating IG-worthy sex toys that’ll rock your world and match your aesthetic.

    23. A dual cock ring designed with stretchy silicone to help your penis-packing partner stay harder for longer, so you both get yours.

    reviewer holding black dual cock ring

    This versatile ring can be worn in several ways: solely on your dick, one ring wrapped around the D and the other around the balls or wrap them both around your balls! Pick your poison, it's your pleasure!

    Promising review: "I've always been wary of rings until I finally took the plunge and decided to try this. Packaged discreetly and upon opening you can truly feel the quality of construction of the silicone! This has absolutely spiced up my marriage and allowed longer and harder fun in our sessions. Definitely a staple in our arsenal, truly couldn't ask for more. Three ways to wear and be sure to use water-based lube. FANTASTIC." —Asj826

    Get it from Amazon for $9.99 (available in black and burgundy).

    24. A clitoral suction vibrator that'll elevate any relationship (or solo play) with its six intensity levels of touchless stimulation.

    Black and silver suction vibrator inside cutout heart
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    Promising review: "Previously, I purchased this product back in February. And I really, REALLY enjoyed it, so much so that I recommended my partner get one. I'm usually a person who favors the Magic Wand over something like this, but I had many friends tell me I should get one. I was pleasantly surprised to find that the the Pro came in a box (as opposed to the rip-away bag from my last purchase) and came with an XL tip. Two tips? Yes! I was really hyped up! I tried both, because I figured, well, see which feels better for me. And I think the N size one is better for me, but XL would be better for my partner. This is pretty much a staple in my relationship, and will be for a long time!" —Yuiza

    Get it from Amazon for $99 (available in four colors).

    25. A realistic textured vibrator boasting a waterproof design and 10 powerful vibration modes in case you and your lover want to explore each other in the bed, bath, or even beyond.

    Model holding pink realistic vibrator

    Promising review: "I'm 45 years old and I've just begun to start using sexual toys in the bedroom. I'm in a new relationship and I find them beneficial not only as a sexual aid for her, but also as a tool for me to get to know her faster, sexually. Her likes and dislikes. It just seems to break the ice a lot quicker and make both of us not so nervous in front of each other. With one of these things, I make sure she gets off. This one in particular, I like because its rechargeable. I just got it today, and I used it for a couple hours straight at full blast, with only the charge it had on it when it got here. Thats quite a bit of battery life, and I'm sure it will do better on a full charge. I recommend this model in particular, it's one of her favorites. Especially if you're new to using these, in fact, pick up a couple of them, and switch up during your sessions. I'm sold on these things. I cant believe it took me so long." —The Hamburgler

    Get it from Amazon for $23.96.

    26. A hands-free Eva vibrator by Dame that can be used alone or with a partner in case clitoral stimulation is a MUST for your guaranteed satisfaction.


    Formally known as the Eva II, the flexible wings are designed to tuck under your labia to help stay put and out of the way during all kinds of play.

    Promising reviews: "Eva ll has been a pleasurable tool in our bed. After 17 years of practicing lovemaking, it helped my wife reach the finish better than ever before. On the first time with the Pillo and Eva ll together she reached orgasm better than ever. She made noises neither one of us had ever heard before. Haha. And the next night she begged for more." —Sarah S.

    "Sex has always been great, but after menopause, I don't always have orgasms. The Eva II has fixed that! I finish within minutes and then lap my husband and orgasm again before he is done every time! Negatives are that the arms don't hold it in place really will and that it is much bigger than I expected. It is also MUCH louder than expected but that is not a problem when pressed between two warm bodies." —Megan T.

    Get it from Dame or Amazon for $135 (available in quartz or fir).

    Dame Products is a woman-founded company developing well-engineered toys that encourage vulnerability, heighten intimacy, and add value to your pleasure.

    You, after using your new toy with your partner/lover/O.H./S.O.:

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