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    31 Really Good NSFW Stores If Sex Toys Are Part Of Your Holiday Shopping

    If someone you're shopping for has ✨ pleasure ✨ on their holiday wishlist, then we've got the stores for you — everything from small businesses, woman-owned, big brands, queer-owned, Black-owned sex shops and more.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Some may have been sent as samples, but all opinions and reviews are our own. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. Wet For Her is a lesbian-owned sex shop that offers toys designed specifically for queer sex, such as strap-on harnesses, scissoring toys and even dildos that take the act of fingering to an entirely new level.

    2. Lovehoney is a premiere online boutique dedicated to offering high-quality sex toys, lingerie, BDSM gear, accessories, and more for an inclusive shopping experience that caters to all people who enjoy pleasure.

    3. Feelmore — aka Oakland's only Black- and queer-owned sex shop — is known for top-notch customer service that strives to make shoppers feel comfortable talking about sex and asking about sex toys.

    4. The family-owned small business Emojibator designs novelty sex toys and wellness products with love in Philadelphia. They specialize in creating iconic fruit-inspired vibrators and other products inspired by emojis that are perfect for gifting.

    5. Unbound breaks the mold with a growing collection of bold dildos and body-safe vibes, not to mention a line of *very* chic BDSM accessories and gear.

    6. Lioness stems from the lack of research on sex, especially female sexual wellness and pleasure. What better way to answer questions and learn more about the female orgasm and pleasure than enjoying them? And so, two women teamed up to develop the world's first smart vibrator.

    7. The Black-owned online retail shop Organic Loven boasts specially curated collections of sex toys and wellness products, ranging from books and lube to adult subscription boxes and even personal shopping consultations.

    Three different boxes with an assortment of sexual wellness products

    8. Fantasticocks on Etsy is a queer-owned sex boutique based in Ohio, creating premium-quality silicone sex toys designed for all bodies and desires.

    9. Adam & Eve, one of the biggest sex toy retailers in the United States, has been building their reputation for over 50 years. Although they are widely known for their storefronts, their website hosts thousands of erotic and wellness products from hundreds of brands including Satisfyer, Fleshlight, and Evolved.

    10. RodeoH, a woman-owned and -operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.

    11. Désirables, based in Montreal, creates luxurious, handcrafted porcelain dildos and massage stones, delivering one-of-a-kind erotic and body-safe sex toys.

    12. Amazon — yup, you read that right: Amazon sells sex toys. They are hard to find, but trust us, they are there and ready to shop with reviews from verified shoppers.

    13. Peepshow Toys — an immigrant-owned sex toy boutique — promotes sex-positivity and education by only selling products created with body-safe and nontoxic materials.

    14. Cute Little Fuckers features some very adorable creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.

    15. Maude prioritizes quality and function over aesthetics, offering a simple line of sexual wellness essentials that boast a modern and minimalist design.

    16. The Butters Hygienics is a queer-owned, Michigan-based shop that provides hand-crafted, high-quality personal solutions to everything from dry scalps to PMS symptoms. One of the first products created was The Butters Lube, which has since spawned a collection of sexual wellness balms and oils.

    17. Queer-owned and run by a group of kinksters and artisans, Agreeable Agony specializes in handcrafted bondage gear and accessories, including floggers, sex toys, rope, wax candles, and more. Their mission is to further educate customers on kink and its communities.

    18. Black- and trans-owned, Enby is run by three enby folks who believe all bodies deserve affirmation and pleasure. They focus especially on providing a safer, more comfortable sex toy shopping experience for the queer community.

    19. Based in Brooklyn and queer-owned, Mama Leather creates handmade leather fetish wear ​and accessories.

    20. Ohnut Co believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort during sex, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.

    21. Honey Play Box is run by a group of sex educators and self-proclaimed lesbian meme queens who are passionate about all things pleasure, and keeping it positive, inclusive and accessible.

    22. Le Wand was founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair and is known for upgrading everyone's tried and true favorite, the wand vibrator, to a more luxurious and tech-savvy version.

    23. Also founded by Alicia Sinclair: B-Vibe, a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products.

    24. Ride the Cowgirl is a sex toy shop that specializes in one thing: sex machines. The Cowgirl is a premium sex machine that combines luxury and pleasure through interchangeable attachments, a powerful corded remote, and six vibration modes with variable speeds.

    25. The Black-owned sexual wellness company, Sex On The Table, focuses on providing millennials with the education resources, pleasure products, and more to manifest and enjoy healthy (and happy) relationships to sexuality, sex, love and relationships.