31 Really Good NSFW Stores If Sex Toys Are Part Of Your Holiday Shopping

If someone you're shopping for has ✨ pleasure ✨ on their holiday wishlist, then we've got the stores for you — everything from small businesses, woman-owned, big brands, queer-owned, Black-owned sex shops and more.

1. Wet For Her is a lesbian-owned sex shop that offers toys designed specifically for queer sex, such as strap-on harnesses, scissoring toys and even dildos that take the act of fingering to an entirely new level.

Wet For Her

Why it's great: Wet For Her has been around since 2009 and originally set out to create sex toys and pleasure products for the lesbian and queer communities that were nonphallic in design and innovative.

Check out these products: The Fusion dildo ($62.95) is a unique harness-compatible dildo designed with a ridge along the base intended to stimulate the wearer during penetrative sex. Wet For Her's first sex toy was the Two Fingers Extender ($39.95), which literally is worn on the hand to transform your fingers into a firmer sex toy with 4.7 inches of insertable length.

Shipping info: Wet For Her offers free shipping on orders $65+ and products usually arrive within 3–8 business days. Expedited shipping ($9.95+), USPS/FedEx/UPS 2-day shipping ($39.95), and overnight shipping ($49.95) are also available at checkout.

2. Lovehoney is a premiere online boutique dedicated to offering high-quality sex toys, lingerie, BDSM gear, accessories, and more for an inclusive shopping experience that caters to all people who enjoy pleasure.

Lovehoney

Why it's great: Besides giving shoppers access to some of the best sexual wellness brands in the world in one place, Lovehoney is known for their incredible customer service, holiday advent calendars, and ridiculous deals throughout the year. Not to mention, they are the certified sellers of the Fifty Shades of Grey sex toy collection!

Check out these products: The Fifty Shades Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator ($99.99), which is one of their staff picks and best-selling products with a 4.X-star rating for its 15 powerful vibration settings and dual stimulation. The Lovehoney x We-Vibe Couple's Advent Calendar ($108) features 12 days of sex toys and accessories to open and explore with your SO.

Shipping info: Lovehoney offers DHL 4-6 day shipping ($9.99 or free with orders $49+), 2-4 day shipping ($19.99), and FedEx one working day shipping ($29.99). Orders ship M–F and the cut-off date for shipping depends on the shipping carrier you choose.

3. Feelmore — aka Oakland's only Black- and queer-owned sex shop — is known for top-notch customer service that strives to make shoppers feel comfortable talking about sex and asking about sex toys.

Feelmore

Why it's great: Besides selling sex toys, the owner is known for their advocacy and activism on destigmatizing conversations around sex and decriminalizing sex work. Feelmore offers sex toys for all bodies, lingerie, kink gear, and wellness products for sexual enhancement.

Check out these products: A faux fur bunny tail butt plug ($29.99) boasting a tapered 1.2-inch diameter for a full feeling with a too-sweet accent to sit between your cheeks. The Vibe Pad 2 ($124.99), which is made for grinding and riding with a contoured design — and don't forget the flickering tongue. It also has two independent motors and seven vibration modes that can be controlled by remote.

Shipping: Orders ship within 4–5 days.

4. The family-owned small business Emojibator designs novelty sex toys and wellness products with love in Philadelphia. They specialize in creating iconic fruit-inspired vibrators and other products inspired by emojis that are perfect for gifting.

Emojibator

Why it's great: Emojis + sex toys, need I say more? This company creates inclusive products for all bodies, as well as wellness products and BDSM accessories, like bondage rope and nipple pasties.

Check out these products: The Eggplant Emojibator ($34) is the OG of the fruit vibes and this powerful, pocket-sized pleasure product is battery-operated with 10 vibration functions. Plus, it's waterproof! The Tiny Wand vibrator ($44) is one of Emojibator's newest drops and reimagines the wand vibrator with a handheld, waterproof design and 10 powerful vibration settings.

Shipping info: Standard (5–7 days), expedited (1–3 days), and next day (1-day) shipping options are offered at checkout.

5. Unbound breaks the mold with a growing collection of bold dildos and body-safe vibes, not to mention a line of *very* chic BDSM accessories and gear.

Negesti Kaudo / BuzzFeed, Unbound

Why it's great: Unbound's team is made up of 8 women and non-binary folks, the majority of whom identify as queer (including their CEO!). You may know them for their word-of-mouth advertising and collaborations with sex workers and sex-positive influencers, after finding out their content and advertising was being banned on various platforms (including the subways in NYC). Their products are designed with gender-neutrality in mind as a way to make pleasure accessible and affordable for all.

Check out these products: The Puff compact suction vibrator ($48) is a very popular sex toy at Unbound and boasts five intensity levels to stimulate your clit (or tip) for a feel good time. (Click here to read more in my Unbound Puff review about why I think everyone should have one.) Elevate your masturbation routine or partnered sesh with their Jolt Gel ($24), a stimulating arousal gel created with peppermint extract to deliver a warm, tingly sensation. It's also water-based, so it can be used with sex toys and lube. Oh, and like I said, their BDSM gear ($18-49) is pretty darn cute.

Shipping info: Domestic orders placed prior to 2 p.m. EST / 11 a.m. PST will be shipped out the same day. US Economy shipping takes 5–10 business days, standard shipping can take 3–6 business days and expedited shipping is available at checkout.

6. Lioness stems from the lack of research on sex, especially female sexual wellness and pleasure. What better way to answer questions and learn more about the female orgasm and pleasure than enjoying them? And so, two women teamed up to develop the world's first smart vibrator.

@lionesshealth / Via instagram.com, @lionesshealth / Via instagram.com

Why it's great: Founded by Liz Klinger, who identifies as pansexual, Lioness was created to help women on their path of sexual self-discovery, through pleasure, experimentation, and research. They currently only have one sex toy, which is the Lioness 2.0 vibrator. Their innovative rabbit vibe is designed with built-in sensors that help track the body's response to arousal and stimulation to create "pleasure data" that can actually be seen and read on your phone!

Check out this product: Like I mentioned above, the Lioness 2.0 vibrator ($229) is a rabbit vibrator created for the tech-savvy masturbator who wants to get off and later read all about it.

Shipping info: US shipping takes about 3–5 business days and is free with any purchase of the vibrator. Express shipping is also available at checkout.

7. The Black-owned online retail shop Organic Loven boasts specially curated collections of sex toys and wellness products, ranging from books and lube to adult subscription boxes and even personal shopping consultations.

Organic Loven

Why it's great: This company carefully curates products designed with body-safe and eco-friendly materials, so customers can be confident in their purchases. Organic Loven offers monthly and quarterly subscription options, allowing users (solo or couples) to explore their fantasies with sustainable and premium-quality products. The Try Me box is monthly, and the Tease Me and Indulge Me box subscriptions are quarterly. If a subscription box seems a little overwhelming for you, don't worry, you can also purchase individual products.

Check out: The three subscription boxes. The Try Me box ($55) includes a variety of sample-sized lubricants, massage oils and stimulants, along with a small sexual wellness book. 

The Tease Me box ($95) includes a body-safe sex toy up to $50, a penis-friendly toy, several travel- to full-size body products, vegan condoms and a sex-positive book. 

Finally, the Indulge Me box ($198) includes the same things as the Tease Me, except the featured sex toy is valued up to $100 — because with this box, you know what you want and you want it now. 

Shipping: Free U.S. shipping for subscription boxes.

8. Fantasticocks on Etsy is a queer-owned sex boutique based in Ohio, creating premium-quality silicone sex toys designed for all bodies and desires.

Fantasticocks / Etsy

Why it's great: This shop offers a fantastic (no pun intended) array of toys for everyone and anyone, and many of the products are created with fantasy twists. While the shop's known for fantasy dildos, it also offers innovative silicone grinding pads, Kegel eggs, and trans-friendly strokers. All sex toys are also offered in customizable designs, meaning you can truly have a one-of-a-kind toy that indulges your deepest fantasies.

Check out these products: The Rubbies Wave grinding pad ($55), which can be attached to a pillow, couch arm or partner's thigh. The pad is designed with silicone ridges to deliver external stimulation as your ride or stroke your way to bliss. And definitely checkout the line of Zodiac dildos, including the best-selling Pisces the Merman dildo ($68) designed with a unique texture for exhilarating sensations and not to mention a sizeable length and girth that'll fill you up.

Shipping info: Free shipping available for U.S. orders.

9. Adam & Eve, one of the biggest sex toy retailers in the United States, has been building their reputation for over 50 years. Although they are widely known for their storefronts, their website hosts thousands of erotic and wellness products from hundreds of brands including Satisfyer, Fleshlight, and Evolved.

Adam & Eve

Why it's great: You can pretty much find anything on Adam & Eve: vibrators, penis products, couple's toys, BDSM gear, lingerie, lubes, and even bath and body products like massage oils, candles, bath bombs, and toy cleaner.

Check out these products: Eve's Rechargeable Thrusting Rabbit Vibrator ($99.95), boasting 10 vibration modes and 10 thrusting modes, plus it's waterproof and has a 5.5-inch long shaft. A 3-Point Prostate Massager ($49.95) with 10 vibrating functions and dual motors for optimal perineum and prostate stimulation.

Shipping info: Standard shipping orders are delivered to the eastern United States within 5–8 days, the western United States (including Alaska, Hawaii, and US Territories) within 10–14 days. Expedited shipping, 2-day shipping, and UPS overnight are available at checkout.

10. RodeoH, a woman-owned and -operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.

Rodeoh

Why it's great: Rodeoh is known for their collection of innovative and genderless harnesses that can be worn by anyone. They've done away with buckles and straps, so you can focus on the moment and the pleasure that comes with it. Along with harnesses, the company also offers gender-affirming packers, vibrators, dildos, and accessories to take your strap-on harness to the next level.

Check out these products: The Classic Boxer+ Harness ($49.99) created with a cotton-blend and double layered for dependable support and can accommodate dildos with a 1.5-inch O-ring diameter on the base. Two interior pockets for bullet vibrators are strategically placed around the O-ring to add a little more rumble. Or the Crotchless Panty Harness ($49.99+) boasting an open-back design and delicate lace accents. A mid-rise waist design also offers support and control during use without sacrificing style.

Shipping info: Rodeoh offers free shipping on orders $75+ and has USPS First Class (7–12 business days), USPS Priority Mail (3–7 business days), and FedEx Express (2 business days, excluding weekends and holidays) shipping options at checkout.

11. Désirables, based in Montreal, creates luxurious, handcrafted porcelain dildos and massage stones, delivering one-of-a-kind erotic and body-safe sex toys.

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Why it's great: Porcelain! Do you have a porcelain sex toy?! They've elevated the internal sex toy by deciding against making vibrating toys and designing durable, body-safe dildos that allow you to tease and please yourself at your own pace.

Check out these products: Their signature G-spot dildo, The Dalia ($121) has a sensual curved design to reach all the right spots and its dual-ended for you to choose what kind of sensations and stimulation you want. Or explore your favorite erogenous zones with the Adori Massage Stones ($82), which comes in a set of three porcelain stones with a curved design to fit effortlessly in the palm of your hand as you rub and tease.

Shipping info: Orders are shipped within 1–3 business days of being placed. Orders $95+ ship free.

12. Amazon — yup, you read that right: Amazon sells sex toys. They are hard to find, but trust us, they are there and ready to shop with reviews from verified shoppers.

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Why it's great: If you're a Prime member, Amazon is the perfect place for last-minute shopping, even if you're buying loved ones sex toys. Not to mention, several of the stores in this post also have Amazon storefronts that offer a selection of products, such as: Emojibator, Unbound, and Dame.

Check out these products: The Satisfyer Pro 2 clitoral vibrator ($43.94+) has 11 pulsating settings and a splash-proof silicone tip, so you can enjoy this top-rated sex toy in the bed or in the shower. The Shibari Mini Halo ($19.95+) is a powerful miniature wand vibrator with 20 vibration settings and a silicone design making it perfect for waterproof play.

Shipping info: Amazon Prime offers free delivery, and sometimes free 2-day delivery for members. Non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

13. Peepshow Toys — an immigrant-owned sex toy boutique — promotes sex-positivity and education by only selling products created with body-safe and nontoxic materials.

Peepshow Toys

Why it's great: Every single toy sold at Peepshow Toys is made of a body-safe material: silicone, glass, ABS plastic, metal, wood, or stone, to ensure that you enjoy your pleasure with the safest materials for internal and external use.

Check out these products: The Avant Free Spirit silicone anal vibrator ($39.99), which is one of the latest drops by Blush Novelties to celebrate Pride month. This plug has 10 vibrating functions through the removable bullet (in case you want to use it as a basic plug). The SquarePeg Toys Dirk Firm Dildo ($52+) is an uncircumcised dildo created with a firm silicone for extra stable play, and it's harness-compatible!

Shipping info: Orders are typically processed within 2 business days. Free shipping is offered on orders $75+ and standard, express and priority shipping are available at checkout for additional fees.

14. Cute Little Fuckers features some very adorable creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.

Cute Little Fuckers

Why it's great: Cute Little Fuckers' sex toys are genderless, making this one of the most inclusive queer-owned, small business sex toy shops to explore. Each toy boasts a unique design and includes a removable bullet vibrator with 5 powerful settings. So far, Cute Little Fuckers has released two phases of products and boasts a selection of six sex toys to choose from. Not to mention, you can also donate a sex toy (or part or half of one) to low-income members of the community who may not be able to afford one.

Check out these products: The Starsi ($79), a star-shaped external sex toy that's perfect for exploration, grinding, and even packing! Or check out their latest toy, the Shimmer ($74), an anal-safe internal vibrator to use for G- or P-spot stimulation thanks to the flared "fins" in the design.

Shipping: Orders $100+ ship free and are processed within 2–3 days. Shipping rates and delivery estimates vary by location and are available at checkout.

Here's even more queer-owned sex shops you can support!

15. Maude prioritizes quality and function over aesthetics, offering a simple line of sexual wellness essentials that boast a modern and minimalist design.

Negesti Kaudo / BuzzFeed, Maude

Why it's great: The refreshing design that Maude offers is something that sex toy enthusiasts have been begging for as an alternative to hot pink and other neon toys. Besides simplistic sex toys, Maude also offers latex condoms, lubricant, bath salts, and more, so you can cover all your bases.

Check out these products: The Vibe ($49), which is a cone-shaped vibrator with three speed settings and a powerful flutter tip. Or, stock up on the essentials with their Rise condoms ($12) that boast an ultra-thin, natural latex design and a convenient easy-to-open case, so you don't have to figure out which way is up.

Shipping info: Maude has a $5 flat rate and offers free shipping on orders $20+ with USPS First Class (5–10 days). They also offer expedited shipping at checkout for an additional cost: UPS Ground (2–5 days), UPS Next Day Air (next business day by noon if ordered before noon EST) and UPS Next Day Air Saver (next business day after 4 p.m. if ordered before noon EST).

16. The Butters Hygienics is a queer-owned, Michigan-based shop that provides hand-crafted, high-quality personal solutions to everything from dry scalps to PMS symptoms. One of the first products created was The Butters Lube, which has since spawned a collection of sexual wellness balms and oils.

The Butters Hygienics Co, @getthebutters / Via instagram.com

Why it's great: The products created by The Butters are created using simple ingredients and hand-crafted in the owner's kitchen. In true millennial fashion, they want you to be able to afford quality body products that do what the bottles say they do.

Check out these products: The Butters Original Lube ($3+), a vegan, oil-based lubricant enhanced with moisturizing aloe that's safe to use on toys (not latex though)! The Lube Sampler Pack ($35), so you can try out the OG lube, alongside its ultra-thick counterpart Palm Grease, and a cocoa butter version of the original (that's also soy and palm free). The PMS* Rescue Cream ($13+) is one of the bestselling products and designed to help alleviate some of the symptoms during that time of the month. Also, the body moisturizers ($12+) have fantastic names, so definitely check them out too!

Shipping: $6 flat rate shipping fee ($7 for expedited shipping) and free shipping for orders over $45 (US only).

17. Queer-owned and run by a group of kinksters and artisans, Agreeable Agony specializes in handcrafted bondage gear and accessories, including floggers, sex toys, rope, wax candles, and more. Their mission is to further educate customers on kink and its communities.

Agreeable Agony

Why it's great: Unlike most of the sex shops on this list, Agreeable Agony doesn't actually sell your typical vibrators, dildos, and plugs. Instead, they are focused on making sure the kink community remains visible and accessible by offering an array of bondage accessories for restraint, impact, and sensation play; books, for you to learn more about your kinks, and of course, kits and combos for you to stock up on the essentials.

Check out these products: A Beginner's Rope Kit ($34.95+) that includes three 30 foot bundles of Shibari rope (with a selection of colors), safety scissors and the option of adding a book and/or ring. A Flaming Hot Genitals Candle ($12.95) that burns at a low temperature, making it perfect for wax play. Also, the candles are available in penis or vulva shapes and just look awesome.

Shipping: Free shipping is offered on all US orders $49+.

18. Black- and trans-owned, Enby is run by three enby folks who believe all bodies deserve affirmation and pleasure. They focus especially on providing a safer, more comfortable sex toy shopping experience for the queer community.

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Why it's great: This company caters to trans, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming communities, making sure they have a safe space to explore sex toys, and they prove a well-rounded range of products from both small businesses and major retailers. As a community-focused organization, a portion of their products go to small, underfunded organizations that support queer communities of color. Their shop is organized by collections, including: pleasure, gender-affirming, wellness and "homogoods" (merch and decor).

Check out these products: The Avant hand-crafted dildo collection ($36+) boasting a variation of silicone dildos and plugs in all different shapes and sizes. The Spareparts Joque Harness ($139), a size-inclusive strap-on harness that fits waists up to 65 inches with a versatile o-ring harness compatible with a variety of dildos (including the ones mentioned above). Or, check out their specially curated zodiac collections (see Leo season here!).

Shipping: Discreet shipping and free shipping on purchases $99+ (United States only).

19. Based in Brooklyn and queer-owned, Mama Leather creates handmade leather fetish wear ​and accessories.

MaMa Leather / Etsy

Why it's great: MaMa Leather is run by a gay, pansexual, Brazilian artist based in NYC creating handcrafted leather fetish wear including everything from harnesses to jockstraps and collars.

Check out these products: A Metallic Leather Jockstrap ($195) with adjustable leg straps and waistband. Also, the codpiece is detachable, so you can customize your style. A Classic Leather X Harness ($169) created with adjustable snaps for comfort in sizes S–XL.

Shipping: Prices vary depending on zip code, starting at $9+ and is listed on each product.

20. Ohnut Co believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort during sex, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.

OhNut

Why it's great: There are so many reasons that people with vaginas experience pain during sex and the founder of Ohnut Co came up with the wild idea of putting a frosted donut onto a penis... Her physical discomfort during sex was relieved immediately, and thus, the Ohnut was born.

Check out these products: The Ohnut ($65) is a set of four interlocking rings made of stretchy, body-safe material that can be put onto a penis (or dildo) and stacked to provide a cushioned buffer during penetration. You can choose to use one ring, four rings, or even more — whatever makes you feel most comfortable!

Shipping info: Orders placed Monday–Friday before 2 p.m. PDT will ship the same day. Orders placed after that, over the weekend, or on a major holiday will ship the following business day. USPS Ground shipping (3–10 business days) and USPS Priority Mail (3–5 business days) are available at checkout.

21. Honey Play Box is run by a group of sex educators and self-proclaimed lesbian meme queens who are passionate about all things pleasure, and keeping it positive, inclusive and accessible.

@honeyplaybox / Via instagram.com, Honey Play Box

Why it's great: This small biz is all about accessibility and offers a range of sex toys that are affordable, efficient and quality. They have everything from sex toys and BDSM accessories to lubricants, toy cleaners and lingerie.

Check out these products: The Jubilee ($58.99; originally $78.99) is one of Honey Play Box's bestselling sex toys and it offers dual stimulation with a "licking" clitoral tongue and vibrating internal shaft for G-spot stimulation. Or check out the Kai ($68.99; originally $78.99) a hands-free masturbator equipped with five suction modes and 12 vibration modes. Not to mention, the stroker is detachable for easy cleaning.

Shipping info: Honey Play Box offers flat rate shipping ($7.95) and free shipping on orders $69+ and most orders ship within 1 day.

22. Le Wand was founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair and is known for upgrading everyone's tried and true favorite, the wand vibrator, to a more luxurious and tech-savvy version.

Le Wand

Why it's great: The Le Wand vibes are a beautiful alternative to the OG Magic Wand and they come in three different options: rechargeable, plug-in, and petite, which is travel-friendly size. They continue to expand their selection with the addition of a line of stainless-steel wands, miniature chromatic vibrators, quartz wand dildos, even a new line of full-size chromatic vibes!

Check out these products: The Feel My Power Wand 2022 ($99; originally $225) is a unique, special edition wand vibrator created in collaboration with a female artist and released annually for International Women's Day. This powerful wand has 20 vibration modes and 10 intensities for your to explore, and TBH it's wonderful. It also comes with hella swag, like stickers, charger adaptors, and even an embroidery kit! And if you're not sure where to start, the Mini Pleasures Set ($149.99) offers a lot of bang for your buck since it includes a mini wand vibrator (like, very mini) and a miniature stainless steel toy. I have this set and it was the perfect introduction, helping me know I need to upgrade to the real version of the Le Wand Hoop dildo ($130.50).

Shipping info: Le Wand orders are processed within 1 business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Shipping options available at checkout include: UPS Ground, UPS 3-Day Select, UPS 2-Day Select Air and UPS Next-Day Air.

And we've got even more woman-run and -operated businesses for you, so check it out!

23. Also founded by Alicia Sinclair: B-Vibe, a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products.

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Why it's great: TBH, this store is great because it's literally all about the butt. Anyways, the sex toys offered here include everything from glass dilators for anal training and pegging kits to innovative anal plugs that simulate the sensation of rimming or are weighted for increased pleasure. B-Vibe's collection includes such a wide range of toys that it has something to offer and satisfy anyone, be it booty beginner or anal aficianado.

Check out these products: The Rimming Plug ($154.99+) is a unique anal plug designed with technology to deliver a swirling motion that offers the sensation of a rimjob. Or explore the Vibrating Snug 'N' Tug ($119.99+), which combines the best of both worlds with a weighted plug on one end and a cock ring on the other, but this new and improved version also vibrates, to help you really get your rocks off.

Shipping info: Orders are processed within 1 business day and shipped discreetly via UPS. Shipping options available at checkout include: UPS Ground, UPS 3-Day Select, UPS 2-Day Select Air and UPS Next-Day Air.

24. Ride the Cowgirl is a sex toy shop that specializes in one thing: sex machines. The Cowgirl is a premium sex machine that combines luxury and pleasure through interchangeable attachments, a powerful corded remote, and six vibration modes with variable speeds.

The Cowgirl

Why it's great: This shop is the sibling of certified sex tech Alicia Sinclair's other pleasure stores: b-Vibe and Le Wand. The sex machine is designed for users to ride it all the way to Nirvana with its silicone attachments and saddle-shaped design. The remote control has independently controlled vibration and rotation, meaning the attachments can swivel up to 360 degrees. And if the remote isn't your style...it can also be controlled via Bluetooth app.

Check out these products: The Original Cowgirl Sex Machine ($1,199) which has a sleek black design and includes a G-spot silicone attachment for internal stim. Or check out the Limited Edition Unicorn Sex Machine ($1,199), boasting vibrant colors, two fantasy internal silicone attachments, and an external attachment for non-penetrative stimulation.

Shipping info: Orders ship within 1 business day. Due to the size of the product, shipping times vary based on location. Expedited shipping is available at checkout.

25. The Black-owned sexual wellness company, Sex On The Table, focuses on providing millennials with the education resources, pleasure products, and more to manifest and enjoy healthy (and happy) relationships to sexuality, sex, love and relationships.