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    11 Black-Owned Sexual Wellness Shops To Put On Your Radar

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    1. Enby is a Trans-owned company run by three enby folks who believe all bodies deserve affirmation and pleasure. They focus especially on providing a safer, more comfortable sex toy shopping experience for the queer community.

    Enby, @shopenby /, @shopenby /

    Why it's great: This company caters to Trans, nonbinary and gender nonconforming communities, making sure they have a safe space to explore sex toys and they prove a well-rounded range of products from both small businesses and major retailers. As a community-focused organization, a portion of their products go to small, underfunded organizations that support queer communities of color. Their shop is organized by collections, including: pleasure, gender-affirming, wellness and homogoods (merch and decor).

    Check out these products: The Avant hand-crafted dildo collection ($20+) boasting a variation of silicone dildos; the Shot Pocket pleasure sleeve ($30) for FTM Trans people experiencing bottom growth; the Spareparts Joque Harness ($129) and the specially-curated zodiac collections (see Leo season here!). The Fetish Fantasy Magnetic Nipple Clamps ($49) are absolutely gorgeous and on my #musthave list.

    Shipping: Discreet shipping and free shipping on purchases $99+ (United States only).

    2. Feelmore is Oakland's only Black- and queer-owned sex shop known for top-notch customer service that strives to make shoppers feel comfortable talking about sex and asking about sex toys.


    Why it's great: Besides selling sex toys, the owner is known for their advocacy and activism on destigmatizing conversations around sex and decriminalizing sex work. Feelmore offers sex toys for all bodies, lingerie, kink gear and wellness products for sexual enhancement.

    Check out these products: A faux fur bunny tail butt plug ($33.29) boasting a tapered 1.2-inch diameter for a full feeling with a too-sweet accent to sit between your cheeks. A Paris dildo ($44.99) designed with a ribbed exterior and 6-inch insertable length. It also has a suction cup base to stay put when you don't. The Enby 2 ($74.99) designed for all bodies and featuring a flexible design for versatile positioning and use, not to mention three vibrating speeds and three patterns to up the ante.

    Shipping: Orders ship within 4–5 days.

    3. Lylyth is a woman-owned online retailer offering a collection of lingerie, bondage accessories, and of course, curated sex toys and wellness products to add a little spice to your sex life.


    Why it's great: Inspired by the folklore story of Lilith, this shop encourages shoppers to indulge and explore their sexuality and fantasies with the carefully-curated products. From delicate lingerie to various arousal serums, there's a product for everyone and anyone to choose and satiate those carnal desires.

    Check out these products: The The Gag Is ball gag ($30, available in pink and black) created with sturdy rubber to sit behind the wearer's teeth and an adjustable leather strap for comfort. The Remote-Controlled Jumping Egg ($55, available in pink and black) great for couples' looking to take things to the next level with 10-function vibrating egg and a remote that works up to 30 meters away. Lylyth also offers a Mystery Lingerie Box ($60) that you can buy in various selections, including men, women, couples and a holiday edition. This box is perfect for people who don't know what to choose — or simply can't — and don't mind a surprise! Included in the box is an array of products from lubes and arousal serums to vibrators and bondage gear.

    Shipping: Standard (7–15 days) and Express delivery (3–7 days) after order completion.

    4. Hart's Desires is the lovechild of Tony and Shani Hart, a couple who have created a store modeled after their own love and adventurous sex life. Their store offers a full-on sensual experience with a range of products from lingerie and high-end sex toys to intimacy consulting.

    Hart's Desires

    Why it's great: This DC-based sex shop combines entertainment with education, with one of the owners being a certified sexuality coach and sex educator, as well as having a team of trained consultants, to help teach customers how to pleasure themselves (and their partners).

    Check out these products: An Inflatable G-Spot Stimulator ($99.99) created with silky silicone and an inflatable bulb that offers customized pleasure alongside 10 vibration settings. A rechargeable and remote-controlled Gladiator Cock Ring ($79.99) that wraps around and delivers 10 powerful vibrations to both the wearer and the receiver. A U-shaped Leah Rabbit Vibrator ($74.99) allowing for deep penetration and external stimulation with 10 vibrating functions and a 3-hour run time.

    Shipping: Free shipping on orders over $49 within the contiguous 48 United States, DC, and US Military APO/FPO/DPO addresses (not including stationary and spinning poles).

    5. Organic Loven is a woman-owned online retail shop with specially-curated collections of sex toys and wellness products, ranging from books and lube to adult subscription boxes and even personal shopping consultations.

    Three different boxes with an assortment of sexual wellness products
    Organic Loven

    Why it's great: This company carefully curates products designed with body-safe and eco-friendly materials, so customers can be confident in their purchases. Organic Loven offers monthly and quarterly subscription options, allowing users (solo or couples) to explore their fantasies with sustainable and premium-quality products. The Try Me box is monthly, and the Tease Me and Indulge Me box subscriptions are quarterly.

    Check out the three subscription boxes: The Try Me box ($55), which includes a variety of sample-sized lubricants, massage oils and stimulants, along with a small sexual wellness book. 

    The Tease Me box ($95), which includes a body-safe sex toy up to $50, a penis-friendly toy, several travel- to full-size body products, vegan condoms and a sex-positive book. 

    Finally, the Indulge Me box ($198) includes the same things as the Tease Me, except the featured sex toy is valued up to $100 — because with this box, you know what you want and you want it now. 

    Shipping: Free U.S. shipping for subscription boxes.

    6. The Butters Hygienics is a queer-owned, Michigan-based shop that provides hand-crafted, high-quality personal solutions to everything from dry scalps to PMS symptoms. One of the first products created was The Butters Lube, which has since spawned a collection of sexual wellness balms and oils.

    The Butters Hygienics Co, @getthebutters /

    Why it's great: The products created by The Butters are created using simple ingredients and hand-crafted in the owner's kitchen. In true millennial fashion, they want you to be able to afford quality body products that do what the bottles say they do.

    Check out these products: The Butters Original Lube ($6+), a vegan, oil-based lubricant enhanced with moisturizing aloe that's safe to use on toys (not latex though)! The Lube Sampler Pack ($39), so you can try out the OG lube, alongside its ultra-thick counterpart Palm Grease with 400 mg CBD and a cocoa butter version of the original (that's also soy and palm free). The PMS* Rescue Bath Soak ($20+) is one of the bestselling products and designed to help alleviate some of the symptoms during that time of the month. Also, the body moisturizers ($10+) have fantastic names, so definitely check them out too!

    Shipping: $6 flat rate shipping fee ($7 for expedited shipping) and free shipping for orders over $45 (U.S. only).

    Facebook thumbnail image from @getthebutters.

    7. New York Toy Collective is a queer-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.

    New York Toy Collective

    Why it's great: New York Toy Collective is the first company to use 3D technology to allow customers to create pleasure products molded after their own bodies. Their tech-savvy innovation has led to a line of body-safe dildos, packers and accessories that help people with gender dysphoria feel better connected to their bodies.

    Check out these products: The Shilo Dildo ($149; available in eleven colors) designed with body-safe silicone and a posable core, so you can wear it tucked or untucked throughout the day in your favorite strap-on. Sam ($75, originally $94; available in seven colors), a silicone stand-to-pee (STP) packer for Trans, gender non-conforming, gender fluid and gender queer folks. The Love Bump ($49.99), a silicone attachment compatible with a bullet vibrator to add vibrations and a second point of contact during strap-on play or fisting.

    Shipping: $5 standard shipping and $12.95 expedited (2-5 days) shipping.

    Thumbnail image from @newyorktoycollective.

    8. Kink Crate is a monthly subscription box service for all things kink and BDSM, offering crates for solo users, couples, beginners, and more, as well as individual sex toys and products to purchase.

    Kink Crate

    Why it's great: Kink Crate was started by husband-and-wife team Karl and Cheyenne Williams, with a goal of supporting and enhancing people's relationship to kink through education and inclusivity. Their subscription boxes are easy to sign up for. Simply choose a crate, pick a subscription plan, and then wait to receive your collection! The crates can be for partner play (penis/penis, penis/vulva or vulva/vulva) or solo play (vulva), and each one is uniquely themed every month.

    Check out these products: The Domme Kink Crate — Solo Vulva ($69.95), which includes a vibrator, paddle, CBD massage candle, bondage rope, condoms/dental dams, stickers and candy for a sweet treat afterwards. The Hook, Line and Sinker Partner's Option Crate ($47), which includes a jock strap, bondage cuffs, nipple clamps, guidebook, bondage rope, a hook, condoms/dental dam, stickers and candy.

    Shipping: $5 flat rate shipping and free shipping on all orders over $50.

    9. B Condoms offers premium-quality and vegan-friendly latex condoms designed for comfort and maximum pleasure.

    Three silver boxes of condoms
    B Condoms

    Why it's great: B Condoms strives to start conversations about health disparities in communities of color concerning HIV/AIDS and STIs. They hope to use their premium-quality condoms to lead discussions that lead to change in communities of color by partnering with non-profit organizations and donating condoms to help reduce STIs, unplanned pregnancy and human trafficking in the Black community.

    Check out these products: Classic fit ($9.99+), an ultra-thin and ultra-lubricated condoms created with non-toxic, vegan latex. The PlatinumXL ($12.99) condoms, which are designed for larger penises with the same vegan latex and lubrication as the classic.

    10. Ardentley is a woman-owned sexual wellness shop that focuses on providing body-safe sex toys, as well as a digestible and informative approach to sex education.


    Why it's great: In order to promote healthy and safe pleasure, this shop prioritizes selling body-safe sex toys that are either non-porous or created without harmful chemicals and toxins. The informative and carefully-curated approach to sexual wellness at Ardentley allows shoppers to safely explore different aspects of their pleasure.

    Check out these products: Check out this Unicorn Tail butt plug ($72) made of supple silicone with a tapered design for comfort and the eye-catching unicorn tail adds a unique and playful touch. A transparent and girthy Textured Glass Dildo by Icicles ($72) makes a luxurious addition to your collection and satisfies with its 8.5-inch length, textured exterior and heft two pounds weight.

    11. Bedroom Kandi is an online sex boutique that features hundreds of sexual wellness products from lubes and massage oils to sex toys and lingerie.

    Bedroom Kandi

    Why it's great: Created by RHOA star and singer-songwriter Kandi Burress, this boutique offers everything from sex toys and wellness products to gift sets and sex-positive books. For the more adventurous lovers, you can even host a party at your home with the help of a Bedroom Kandi consultant!

    Check out these products: The Kiss & Tingle Set ($25), which includes two cooling and tingly lip and nipple balms in Raspberry and Breakfast In Bed flavors, for an unforgettable foreplay session. The Helping Hand masturbator ($30) designed with a textured interior to keep your partner company when away or add a to your couples' play. Also check out the popular Kandi Kisses ($70) lipstick vibrator with three speeds and four patterns and the Hip Hop ($70) clitoral vibrator, boasting seven vibration patterns.

    Shipping: Orders ship out 3–4 days after receipt through UPS or USPS.

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