28 Sex Toys For Beginners Or Anyone New To Masturbation
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1. A petite precision bullet designed with silky silicone and seven vibration modes to tickle your fancy all over.
Promising review: "It is pretty small which makes it a great toy for beginners. I was pretty nervous to try anything bigger but I think this is a perfect beginner toy. My favorite parts about this toy is the silicone on the outside. It is super smooth and if you want anything entering you this should be the way you go about it. I use tons of lube and slowly work my way with it, but I definitely recommend doing the same. The price is super affordable too and it comes with a discreet travel case so I don't see any issues at all. Please buy." —Que
Get it from Amazon for $12.99+ (available in four colors).
2. A silicone heart-shaped clitoral vibrator that'll give you butterflies in your stomach...well, before they migrate further south.
This little vibe is cute enough to gift, but boasts 10 powerful vibration settings to get you all hot and bothered.
Promising review: "I'm in love with this little vibe — it's cute, not too big, and surprisingly powerful. (The third straight vibration is almost too much for me!) The silicone is smooth and satiny, and its shape is surprisingly versatile for focusing or diffusing the vibration where you need it. My only complaint is that it's just a little louder than I'd like (living with roommates as I am), but that comes with the strength of vibration. You can really tell the makers of this toy put love into the design and considered everything, even down to the little heart shaped light that turns on when it's charging and the wax seal on the top of the present-like gift box." —Em
Get it from Early to Bed for $30.
Early to Bed is a Chicago-based, queer- and woman-run retail sex boutique committed to providing an inclusive shopping experience.
3. The Tulips vibrator by Sweet Vibrations, boasting a unique, waterproof design with its two lips caressing your clit and making sure you feel those vibrations entirely.
This tiny toy has 10 vibrations and five intensities for you to explore and a rechargeable battery that will probably outlast you (and if it doesn't, reviewers swear by their customer service).
Promising reviews: "This little toy is the best! It’s incredibly effective and easy to clean. The battery lasts forever and I love how many different settings it has. No matter what mood I’m in the Tulips always works! Their customer service also rocks! They answer concerns immediately. They have a customer in me for life!" —Adrienne
"I was a bit skeptical at first with this toy — boy was I wrong! In the time since I have owned this toy, it has become my favorite. 10 settings and multiple vibration strengths equals orgasms every time! If I could give it more than 5 stars, I would. Sadly, my Tulips died after a few months of ownership. Sweet Vibrations stands by their lifetime guarantee. When I contacted them to replace it, customer service had not one, but two replacements out to me in less than a day. Would buy again!" —missspacecase
Get it from Amazon for $41.19+ (available in three colors).
4. A vibrating masturbator sleeve that does away with all the bulk of a classic masturbator but still delivers with 10 vibration settings and a customized snugness based on your (or a partner's) grip and rhythm.
There's a little bump at the top for an even more stimulating touch to the base of your tip, and ridges on the inside so that every movement offers stimulation.
I don't have a penis, but this looks incredible, and I want it.
Promising review: "Never bought a toy like this before, and I have no regrets! Multiple settings and very easy to use, the vibrations feel very tender but intense when used in the right spots. Used it on my partner while we play together, he loves it when I use it on him and feels great in my hand. Used it in the shower, and it is completely waterproof! A great toy to mix things up in bed or by yourself!"—Tony P
Get it from Amazon for $23.99.
5. A minimalist vibrator that boasts three speeds and a tapered tip for targeted stimulation. This vibe includes a convenient canvas carrying bag for when you eventually decide to take it on the go.
Promising review: "Somehow, I’ve made it to 29 years old never taking care of myself. I know, it’s crazy, but it always weirded me out; so keep that in mind for my review. This was a great intro to self-care. It’s the perfect size and not intimidating at all. I found that other types were a crazy size or function. It was overwhelming and a little scary. But I’m really glad I bought this. This is perfect size and features for me. It has three vibe strengths and are constant vibes. The material is soft. I used this with the aloe lube (I don’t know if that’s a thing but I did it) and really liked the combo. It comes with a little zip pouch to store it. The mini lube + toy + charger all fit so it’d be good for travel. I think it would be fun to use with my partner, too. If this is your first, I highly recommend it." —Amy
Get it from Maude for $45 (available in four colors).
6. A versatile glass dildo by Unbound named after everyone's favorite zodiac sign: Gemini.
Truly a Gem, this toy has a curved end and a beaded end with a flared base in the middle for easy removal. Oh, and it's dishwasher safe? Um, yes please!
Promising reviews: "This is my first dildo and it’s definitely a different experience from using a vibe, but sometimes you just want penetration, ya know? Like having a variety of options now and this is such a beautiful and well made piece! Perfect size, too." —A.
"This is my first glass toy. I’ve used it every which way (even for self-massage) and I adore it. One of my favorite things about it is after I’ve been using it internally for a while & switch to using it externally it’s very warm & the sensation is great. It’s also just generally lovely to look at and the weight of it is nice." —Ciara H.
Get it from Anthropologie or Unbound for $34.
7. An oh so convenient OhNut set designed with stretchy silicone to fit your favorite penis or dildo and offer extra cushioning during penetration.
This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation. Though it's stretchy, OhNut is designed in two sizes: Classic and Wider, which can be determined based on condom sizing!
Promising reviews: "So happy to have made this purchase. After having uncomfortable sex and not being able to do many positions the OhNut has quite literally changed the experience for me. I now view sex differently and enjoy it!" —Krystal M.
"I don't need this for sex but I'd try if I had to. For sex toys like dildos you actually need this product! Many stores right now ONLY sell really long toys and they feel awful slamming into your cervix, so the OhNut is needed to remedy this." —Sharon C.
Get it from OhNut for $65 (available in jade and aloe).
OhNut Co is a woman-founded wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.
8. An oral sex simulator that might actually become your new best friend after you experience its 20 suction modes and 20 vibration modes — yes, 2-0 of each, meaning there's 400 possible combos...aka it'll feel like limitless pairings.
Promising reviews: "I got this after a recent break up and dry spell, and oh boy worth every penny. It's the first sex toy I've ever bought and I was shook. I say just buy it, it comes in discreet packaging, if that is a worry for you. Amazon also has lockers available in some stores if you're extremely paranoid like me and want no chance of receiving explicit ads in the mail." —Karen
"I'm single & living alone and g*dd*mn this is the best purchase I've ever made. I had literally no sex experience before this but this got me the first time within 10 minutes. I use it in the shower/bath sometimes and it's still working great. It is loud, but so damn powerful. Your clit will absolutely thank you. Lots of different settings for whatever you're feeling. I can't rave about this product enough. If I had less judgy friends, I'd buy one for each of them. Long story short, good for solo & partnered/group sex. Make sure to get a toy cleaner to use between sessions keep your downstairs healthy. My only complaint is not buying it sooner!!" —j
Get it from Amazon for $49.99 (available in periwinkle and lavender).
9. An external vibrator to stimulate your erogenous zones and bring a new meaning to the term "French kiss" with its flared and flexible tongue shape 😘.
The French Lover vibrator boasts four speeds and two pulsation modes to tickle, tease and titillate your favorite body parts effortlessly. A wide-flared "tongue" is flexible enough to bend for pinpointed pressure or lightly caress, sending each vibration mode onto the skin like a delicate kiss.
Promising review: "I bought this for my wife and it's the first self-pleasure product that she has been able to use to orgasm successfully. Thanks." —Chris W.
Get it from Smile Makers for $60.
10. A water-friendly rainbow stripe silicone butt plug by B-Vibe with a flared base for easy removal and a smooth tapered tip for easing in.
It comes in multiple sizes, so it is a great beginner's toy for anyone interested in butt stuff.
Get it from B-Vibe for $16.99 (available in three sizes).
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
11. A powerful miniature wand vibrator created with supple silicone for a soft-touch feel and 20 functions to take you right to that blissful, blurry edge.
Promising reviews: "This is the first toy I’ve ever bought and it deserves 5 stars. I’ve only used it three times since I’ve bought it and it hasn’t disappointed me once. Within two minutes, I was seeing fireworks everywhere whereas it would’ve taken me closer to 10 minutes using my hand alone. It really gets straight to the point...almost too fast. I 100,000% recommend this product." —A Very Satisfied Girl
"This is my first ever sex toy, and I was already apprehensive about buying it, but after reading so many positive reviews I just had to order it...and boy am I glad I did! This little thing has given me the quickest orgasms I've ever had, definitely under a minute! If you're questioning if you want it or not, trust me you do, buy!" —K.
Get it from Amazon for $22.75+ (available in four colors).
12. The Pom vibrator by Dame designed to deliver broad or targeted stimulation with its flexible design that fits effortlessly into the palm of your hand.
A waterproof design plus five vibration modes and five intensities, make this luxury toy great for bath time or introducing into couple's play.
Promising reviews: "This is my first dive into the toy world and I am pleasantly surprised. Worked well with my partner and solo. Was a good first toy to see what I like. I don't know if the different patterns matter as much to me as I thought they would but I love that it fits in my hand easily and can be used with my partner or with out." —Chavez K.
"I bought this not really knowing what to do with it (I'm a beginner and I don't do much riding) and I was pleasantly surprised. The feel of the product is amazing as always and it works well whether you use it for riding or not. Definitely brings much satisfaction. And don't even get me started on using this with the Arc, oh my god." —Kaitlyn E.
Get it from Dame for $95 or from Amazon for $76.35+ (available in jade and plum).
Dame Products is a woman-founded company developing premium sex toys to encourage vulnerability, heighten intimacy, and add value to pleasure.
13. A transparent masturbator with a tight, convex, textured interior that you can twist, stroke and watch through its case until you're finished.
Yes, it's waterproof, so go ahead and play with it in the shower.
Promising reviews: "Love the product, my first purchase of a masturbator, very snug and stimulating. I don't consider myself very big girth-wise, but this is very snug yet 'adaptable.' It is extremely stimulating after orgasm as the toy stays tight around your very sensitive head, shaft, etc. Appears very durable, use water-based lube. 'Sucking' sound is rather stimulating depending on how you hold/use the toy. Easy to clean, pliable." —Terry
"First toy for husband, he was really surprised at how nice it felt. We did parallel play to get him comfortable. Unbelievably soft but firm enough for resistance. Easy to clean — we have some light fabric towels to pull from one end to the other to get fully dry." —Ashwdwrd
Get it from Amazon for $24.99.
14. A biodegradable bullet vibrator that can be displayed with the rest of your crystals and will help you save the planet one orgasm at a time...kind of.
This unique battery-powered multispeed vibrator boasts a slim, body-safe design for internal and external stimulation.
Promising reviews: "This is my first vibe so I didn’t know what to expect. but, I like it & it gets the job done! It is a little loud but like a previous review said if you wrap a little Scotch tape over the batteries it cuts down on the rattling/sound :)." —_nicole
Get it from Amazon for $15.71 or Free People for $16 (available in three colors).
15. The Puff compact suction vibrator beloved by beginners and more experienced 'bators who enjoy riding the five intensities to climax over and over again.
It's me. I am 'bators. JK, but seriously — I love this toy. And every time I think another one has shown up to take its place, I am reminded by the compact size, easy handling and very very discreet noise (when pressed against the body)...that this toy is my ride or die. I tell everyone I know, and now I'm telling you. Never used suction? Get the Puff. New to sex toys? Get the Puff. Just want to expand your ever-growing collection. Puff.
Promising reviews: "Was hesitant to try this since I wasn’t sure about the whole suction aspect but I do not regret going for it at all! Such an incredible price for an equally amazing toy! If you’re on the edge about getting this, just buy it, you’ll love it <3" —jillian
"I’m new to the all of this. My friends literally raved about puff for a year before I finally decided to get one. I did not know…I could feel like that. It is amazing. It took me some time to fully utilize the suction feature in the puff, but the vibration itself is *chefs kiss*. I also used it once during sex with my boyfriend and phew!!! I don’t even know if I have any words. Great for beginners!" —B.
Get it from Unbound or Anthropologie for $46 (available in quartz and mint).
16. An adorable (and waterproof) bullet vibrator with 10 settings and a discreet design, so you can bring ~good vibes~ with you on the road.
Promising review: "This is my first time buying something like this so I expected some dryer machine level vibrating. NO. I fully charged it for maybe two hours and it woke up and it chose violence. I pushed the on switch and scared the crap out of me by vibrating so fast I couldn’t hold it in my fingers without feeling numb. This thing felt like one of those toys that are supposedly shocking you, but obviously in a good way. And that was the first setting 🤧 as you click through it goes ever faster and harder than the first and then it goes through some rhythms. Obviously I was worried about what I was about to do to my lady bits but I can honesty say it was pleasure that was unknown to me. That’s good. Tried it when I wasn’t exactly in the mood so I can only expect it to be better. It’s not that noisy under the covers and it’s super easy to clean it seems. Also a fair width. At this price, it’s pretty powerful and worth the buy." —Sandy
Get it from Amazon for $10.28.
17. The Starsi vibrator, created with supple silicone and a unique star shape that curves and clings all over for out-of-this-world sensations.
Starsi was designed for all bodies to explore pleasure and can be used with the included removable bullet vibrator or without, in case you are a fan of grinding or just want to stimulate areas with a little less intensity.
Promising reviews: "My partner and I have had so much fun with this! It's so soft and all the different parts have such different sensations. The bullet is so strong, too, I can only use it on the first setting!! As a nonbinary person I've been so pleased with this toy, it really alleviates any dysphoria I have about playing and it's such a relief! What a lovely toy from an incredible company!" —Kate
"There is a different feeling from each point of the star, and the center works well too! Another review pointed out that this is not the most powerful vibrator out there, which is true. But I happily contend that it's one of the best vibrators available! It's unassuming, quiet, and easy to use with toys or a partner. And I LOVE that the vibrator motor can be replaced. Big fan. :)" —A L
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79.
Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.
18. A set of three anal plugs with different shapes and sizes that are ideal for beginners who want to explore penetration through the backdoor.
Choose your favorite: the seductive spiral, the narrow bulbs, or the classic graduated bulbs? Convenient retrieval loops offer easy removal.
Promising reviews: "These were great for my entry into anal play, I think the material and size were great with not having much experience. The purple one felt incredible for both my partner and I when he was penetrating me vaginally at the same time. All in all led to a very fun night." —Paige
"This product is perfect for those beginning to experiment and play. Three separate sizes and shapes really helped us ease into the process. Great product for an affordable price. Can't go wrong buying this product and I highly recommend these plugs to be added to your toy box." —Scotty
Get it from Amazon for $12.94 (available in black and pink/purple).
19. A waterproof Finger Pro vibrator from Bellesa for all my acoustic masturbators interested in amplifying the action. A flickering tongue with 10 intensities for your clit and a convenient wearable strap for my left- and right-handed babes who enjoy the rush of having a lot of power in their hands.
Promising reviews: "This is my first time ever buying a sex toy, and I am so glad I did!! I have a hard time pleasuring myself on my own, but it didn't take long for me to figure out how to apply it to myself. Just on the first levels of power I already feel great, and with the high range it goes to I seriously doubt I'll ever want more than it can give. I'm so thankful for the discreet packaging, and the easy instructions provided. It's been easy to clean, easy to charge, 'n' easy to use! Thank you so much!!!! ^^ <3" —Lisa
"I only discovered sex toys last year and since then I’ve mostly used vibrators. They’re great but most of the time they make me orgasm really quickly, which is great but also makes the orgasms not very intense. When I first saw this toy, I was a bit hesitant since it’s different from what I usually go for but after reading all the reviews decided to give it a try. HELL YESSSS!! This toy has different intensities and if you start with low you can build it up and have a super-intense and amazing orgasm! Just what I was looking for! Definitely recommend. 😋" —Sky
Preorder it from Bellesa for $39.
20. A precision bullet vibrator by Vush that's both pretty and powerful with 25 vibrating combinations and a gently flexible design.
What, like it's hard?
Promising reviews: "This was my first time ever buying a vibrator or sex toy, and I’m completely amazed by the Rose 2! Has a great range of speeds and patterns, which I think was great for me as a beginner. The vibe itself is flexible and soft, so it’s easy to maneuver, and it’s really quiet!! Super easy to clean too. Would 100% recommend, especially for beginners! 💖" —Anna C.
"Amazing product, especially for first-time users. The petals are also lovely which I wasn’t expecting! It’s quiet, so need to worry about that if that’s a concern, and easy to clean as well. I highly recommend this to anyone looking for something effective and also pretty!" —Kate G.
Get it from Vush for $90.
Vush is an Australia-based sexual wellness brand that’s all about self-love and creating IG-worthy sex toys that’ll rock your world and match your aesthetic.
21. An air pulse suction toy capable of making your body respond to indirect stimulation in ways you can't even imagine.
It's waterproof and has five intensity levels to help you ease your way to orgasm...if you want.
Promising reviews: "Holy cow. I’ve only had one vibrator before this one and it was meh at best. This is a game changer, though. For one, it’s nice and weighty and fits really well in my hand, I don’t have to struggle to grip it or focus on keeping it in place. And my god it does it’s job and it does it well. My body did things I didn’t know it could do. I’ve never seen so much wetness in my bed. I laid there for a bit thinking I had died and experienced heaven. Vulva owners, do yourself a favor and buy this." —Anon
"I love this so much! I was dubious at first, but have other products in the line and was considering some products for clitoral stimulation, so I gave this a try. The first time I used it was in the bathtub and WOW! Then bedtime rolled around and my husband and I played with it. I love the stimulation and the shape. I don't really use the puffs of air, I apply it directly. I love that it teases me and sometimes I get off with it by itself, sometimes I use another toy with it, or with my husband during intercourse. It's one of my favorite sex toys." —Lammashta V. Machina 0
Get it from Amazon for $29.98.
22. A limited-edition butt plug by B-Vibe celebrating their 5th birthday in the biz! This metallic remote-controlled plug is designed for beginners with a slim, tapered design and 15 vibration patterns with six intensities for you to explore.
The set includes a vibrating butt plug, wireless remote, three B-Vibe enamel pins, carrying case, greeting card, and sticker.
Created with supple silicone, this body-safe plug is perfect for beginners and adds a little out-of-this-world bling to your booty.
Get it from B-Vibe for $140.
23. A slim silicone vibrator designed with a gentle curve to specifically reach your G-spot and blow your mind with 25 vibration modes and frequencies.
Promising reviews: "So this arrived in the mail today and of course I cleaned it and tried it out right away. I was BLOWN AWAY, maybe because this is my first toy or maybe because it's just that amazing. I'm 24 and I squirted for the first time. I literally couldn't believe it so I went for a second round and I squirted again. It's been an hour and I'm still shocked hahaha. Please do yourself a favor and get this. I like that it fits nicely in my hand and all the different vibration patterns it is. It's pretty quiet, too!" —evs2468
"After a lot of searching and debating I originally decided on the Svakom Coco but by sheer chance I ran across the Cici for less than half the price with almost all of the same features. I bought it almost as soon as I saw it and it got delivered before the estimated date. It works wonderfully and is very quiet, came charged right out of the box, and for a first-timer who can be a bit intimidated by girth and size, this was the perfect starter toy for me (would definitely suggest a water-based lube for internal use, it makes things a lot easier and more pleasant). I've seen reviews saying that the vibrations can be a bit buzzy rather than rumbly which I do think is true, but it's a moot point for me. Overall very satisfied with the purchase!" —Megan
Get it from Amazon for $34.66.
24. A leaf-shaped vibrator that's perfect for people who love to grind or prefer broader stimulation.
This discreet vibe has six vibration speeds and four patterns for you to explore, whether you choose to lay on it, grind on it or use your hands to guide it around your favorite areas.
Get it from Enby for $29.
Enby is a Black/trans-owned company that believes all bodies deserve affirmation and pleasure by providing an online sex toy shopping experience that's comfortable and inclusive.
25. The extra-sleek and ergonomic Kip lipstick vibrator by Dame designed with waterproof silicone and five powerful speeds, so you can enjoy pinpointed clitoral stimulation.
Promising reviews: "It’s my first toy and so far really digging the compact shape and different vibrations as I work up to climax." —Pia P.
"This is my first time using a toy... I have been using it for about three weeks now, and have found that it has added a new, fun layer to my (and my partner's) sex life. Although I thought it was a bit pricey, the ethos of the company, the design of the toys, and the packaging ultimately sold me. I highly recommend!" —Claire L.
Get it from Dame for $75 or Amazon for $75.77+ (available in lavender and lemon).
26. A very beginner-friendly plug made from supple silicone with a tapered tip for effortless insertion that'll hit all the right spots without being overwhelming.
This slim plug is 1.3" at its widest point and 4" long — just remember to use a water-based lube for extra-smooth sailing!
Promising review: "I’ve never had a toy like this so I was really nervous about how beginner friendly this would be but it’s seriously easy and not too much. The large handles make it easy to control and the slim shape makes it realistic for beginners. It came with instructions that will probably answer your questions" —toop
Get it from Urban Outfitters for $24.
27. A simple, but satisfying vaginal/G-spot vibrator with four speeds and three patterns that may prove chivalry isn't dead after all...
...it's just battery operated and made of silicone.
Promising reviews: "I love that it has four different speeds and even at its fastest, it isn't loud. It also doesn't come smelling like rubber / latex which is great! As my first toy, it really isn't intimidating at all!" —Lauren E.
"I didn't expect it to be so filling, it makes me feel content and warm, I never feel lonely, and it makes me come every time." —Larry
Get it from Smile Makers for $89.
28. A chili pepper Emojibator that's sleek and simple but will spice up your self-love routine with a playful flair.
This battery-powered vibrator has 10 settings and a waterproof, silicone design. If the chili pepper is a little too spicy for your taste, check out the pickle, eggplant and banana Emojibator vibes with the same power!
Promising review: "Love this little pepper. Small, cute, and, most importantly, efficient ;)" —Deanna D.
Get it from Emojibator for $34 or Amazon for $28.
Emojibator products are designed with love in Philadelphia and include novelty sex toys inspired by veggies and other emojis.
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