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    These 40 BDSM Gifts Are The Next Best Thing Since You Can't Sit Under The Tree

    Forget about dick in a box — I'm cuffing bae to the tree this year. 🎄

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    What a year! The holidays are finally here! And while we’re doing our best to make sure the products we feature will arrive in time, shipping times are especially tricky this year, so we suggest shopping as early as you can.

    Stock and shipping times can vary depending on where you live, which product you purchase, and more. So order earlier than you think you need to and be sure to double-check the retailers’ websites for shipping information to ensure that your gift will arrive in time for when you need it.

    1. A luxury leather collar and chain leash with an ornate thorn design, that offers a glamorous accent to any sub's style.

    Zalo

    The leash is 42.5 inches long and the collar can adjust to 15.5 inches in width. Not to mention, you can remove the leash and wear this tulle and leather collar just as a fashion statement.

    Shipping info: Zalo processes and ships orders placed before 11:30 a.m. CST on business days. FedEx Standard (2–7 days) shipping is free and FedEx 2-Day delivery is also available for $9.99.

    Get it from Zalo for $140.

    2. A very discreet submission collar that will remind them of all the kinky fun you've had together, whenever they wear it out as necklace or choker.

    Woman wearing goldtone o-ring necklace
    Collar Amor / Etsy

    This discreet and delicate collar is created with sterling silver and also available in gold and rose gold finishes.

    Promising review: "I LOVE this necklace. I've been wearing it nonstop the last few days. Collared myself and it feels so good! I love how dainty and discreet it is." —Sarah

    Shipping info: Orders are processed and shipped for free within 3–5 business days.

    Get it from Collar Amor on Etsy for $59.99 (originally $79.99; available in four lengths and three finishes).

    Collar Amor is based in Rhode Island and designs discreet BDSM collars.

    3. An adjustable nipple clamp that'll tease and please your lover with a gentle biting sensation.

    Silvertone nipple clamps
    Homemade Sex Toys / Etsy

    Promising reviews: "I love these clamps! Oh my god! The give me the feeling of my nipples being pierced w/o being pierced! So well made, and the packaging was nice! They come with a little red pouch! So cute!" —Presley Hays

    "I actually love these more than I thought I would. The bite feels amazing and you can adjust it!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️" —Teena

    Shipping info: Orders ship free to the United States and will be delivered within 5–9 business days.

    Get it from Homemade Sex Toys on Etsy for $13.50 (originally $15 and available in three styles).

    Homemade Sex Toys is a small business that specializes in metal BDSM accessories and gear.

    4. A chain necklace that makes it way down their sternum to reveal two adjustable nipple clamps for a sexy and stimulating treat.

    Model wearing necklace attached to dual nipple clamps
    Ne Dlya Skuki / Etsy

    Promising review: "I absolutely love this body chain! It's incredibly sexy, surprisingly comfortable and so much easier to put on/off than I expected! If you're unsure whether to order one or not — order it! You WON'T be disappointed!" —Tara DeBorde

    Shipping info: Orders are shipped express via DHL.

    Get it from Ne Dlya Skuki on Etsy for $23 (originally $46).

    Ne Dlya Skuki is a small business based in Ukraine that specializes in lingerie, role play costumes and erotic jewelry.

    5. Orrrr a 24-karat gold-plated nipple clamp that follows the happiest of trails down to the clitoris for an extra-stimulating squeeze.

    Model wearing nipple and clit clamps
    Unbound

    Promising review: "I am just starting to experiment with nipple clamps, but I think I found my favorite. Honestly, other clamps looked a little intimidating but these look like a beautiful piece of jewelry. They're so easy to customize pressure (especially for a novice) and it's nice having the versatility to choose whether or not you want to use the clit clamp. I did notice that the clamp guard did stick to my skin when taking them off, but next time I will try using a little lube beforehand. Overall, I would definitely recommend. I am buying a second pair to give to my sex therapist so she can show them in her practice, especially for newbies exploring pleasure. :)" —L J.

    Shipping info: To arrive before Christmas, domestic orders must be placed prior to 2 p.m. EST / 11 a.m. PST on the following days: Dec. 2 for economy shipping (free with orders $69+), 12/9 for standard shipping and Dec. 15 for expedited shipping.

    Get it from Unbound for $35.

    6. A vibrating Verge cock ring by We-Vibe designed specifically to stimulate the perineum with eight rumbly vibrations that'll make them wonder, "Is that Santa Claus making all that racket, or me?"

    Models holding dark gray vibrating cock ring on torso
    @wevibe / https://www.instagram.com/p/B01c2xlhTv-/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    You can control the vibrations of this waterproof wearable manually or from the convenient We-Connect app.

    Promising review: "This thing is the bee's knees. It's strong, has 10 different levels of strength, multiple different vibe modes, just the right amount of weight and does the job, very well at that! It's great for solo and couples. It also comes with an app for long distance fun with a partner! Be aware that you must plan to use it before any kind of stimulation because YOU WILL NOT GET IT ON! Other than that I couldn't be happier with this one!" —JacksonP

    Shipping info: FYI, the shipping address and billing info will be labeled as "Wow Tech" on discreet packaging. Free FedEx standard shipping (3–5 business days) is offered on orders $30+ and FedEx express shipping (2–3 business days) is also available at checkout.

    Get it from We-Vibe for $119.

    7. A uniquely-shaped vibrating cock ring by Fun Factory with rabbit ear attachments to stimulate their clit — it may not be decorated with diamonds, but they'll still appreciate this ring.

    Model holding green cock ring
    Fun Factory

    Or, use it with your fingers to finger your lover or wear it during a blowjob for added stimulation to the perineum during oral. The vibrating component boasts two motors with four settings and a "flirt" mode, which is a five minute loop of varying vibrations, so you don't get acclimated to a single speed or pattern.

    Promising review: "This is great for amping up intercourse for both the wearer and his partner. I definitely need lube to get it on and off as It is rather tight on me. Once on, it is comfortable and stays in place. We have several Fun Factory toys and while expensive, have always been impressed with their quality and functionality." —Anonymous

    Shipping info: Lovehoney offers DHL 4–6 day shipping ($9.99 or free with orders $49+), 2–4 day shipping ($19.99), and FedEx one working day shipping ($29.99). Orders ship M–F and the cutoff date for shipping depends on the shipping carrier you choose.

    Get it from Lovehoney for $99.

    8. A luxury silicone ball gag adorned with a delicate rose. Remove the rose to reveal a hole that's perfect for teasing.

    Zalo

    Promising review: "This is such a beautiful gag for personal play. It’s super comfortable and I love that the rose is removable." —Savannah P.

    Shipping info: Zalo processes and ships orders placed before 11:30 a.m. CST on business days. FedEx Standard (2–7 days) shipping is free and FedEx 2-Day delivery is also available for $9.99.

    Get it from Zalo for $65.

    9. A simple ball gag that gets the job done while providing a soft silicone material for them to sink their teeth into — who needs cavities from snacking on gingerbread?

    Reviewer holding pink ball gag
    amazon.com

    Promising reviews: "I’m currently wearing this thing. I always want to try things out before sharing. I can’t say a word. Can’t scream. Nothing! I do seem to be drooling a lot though." —Bob

    "I love this gag! It's not hard like other gags but still firm enough. I like that the silicone extends to the sides of the mouth/connect to the straps, as ones I've had prior have the straps continue through a slit in the ball and skin often gets pinched by those designs...This one, however is phenomenal! Super comfy, the straps are good, quality, leather and strong buckles. The only con I have when cleaning it is trying not to get the soft suede on the interior of the straps wet, as it starts to damage them if not dried quickly." —Keg

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with next-day delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $8.99+ (available in two sizes and three colors).

    10. A breathable ball-gag designed with adjustable straps for comfort. It's perfect for the person who wrote their wishlist so that the first letter of each word spells out "gag me."

    Honey Play Box

    Promising review: "It’s a present sent by my boyfriend. I really like its size and function. Good quality overall! 5-star rated! Will consider purchasing it next time." —Pattie Z.

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $12.99 (available in black and pink).

    Shipping info: Honey Play Box offers flat rate shipping ($7.95) and free shipping on orders $69+ and most orders ship within one day.

    Honey Play Box is a sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators and self-proclaimed lesbian meme queens who are passionate about all things pleasure being positive, inclusive and accessible.

    11. A unique, soft and silicone gag designed to make them drool...literally. 🤤

    Purple pearlescent drool gag
    Godemiche / Etsy

    Promising reviews: "This gag blew me away. It is the perfect size, so beautiful and comfortable, and does exactly what it says it does :) I'm so thrilled with this and all of my purchases from this shop, will definitely order again!" —Hannah O' Connor

    "This drool gag is so beautiful, both the gag itself and the leather strap. it feels so nice in your mouth and honestly can be worn as a cute accessory as well." —ramonasaurus rex

    Shipping info: Orders are processed and shipped via DHL Express within 1–2 business days.

    Get it from Godemiche on Etsy for $47.69 (available in eight colors).

    Godemiche is a UK-based, family-owned small business that specializes in vibrant handcrafted sex toys and BDSM products.

    12. A satin blindfold to deprive their sense of sight and help elevate other senses for some semi-mysterious sensation play. Plus, the red matches their Mx. Claus lingerie!

    Lovehoney

    Promising reviews: "Surprised my OH with this one date night. Haven't really tried bondage and stuff like that so this and some nipple clamps we got were a good start. Made the sensations more intense and the fact she didn't know what I was going to do drove her crazy. Fun, easy way to spice it up some!" —Colorado C.

    "I love a blindfold so much but some let you down it are uncomfortable. This one is so comfy to wear and when positioned right neither me or my husband could see a thing when wearing it. We both love to be blindfolded because it heightens the pleasure, I would always recommend using one." —TheaD

    Shipping info: Lovehoney offers DHL 4–6 day shipping ($9.99 or free with orders $49+), 2–4 day shipping ($19.99), and FedEx one working day shipping ($29.99). Orders ship M–F and the cutoff date for shipping depends on the shipping carrier you choose.

    Get it from Lovehoney for $7.99 (available in black and red).

    13. A Shibari rope that allows them to practice all those "knotty" skills they've been working on this year. This rope is made of 100% natural jute and enhanced with aroma oils for a special touch.

    Shibari rope bundles in assorted colors
    Bliss BDSM / Etsy

    While you can buy just the rope you need, this listing also offers sets that include other bondage accessories.

    Promising review: "The rope is so nice and the color is so pretty. The shipping was fast as well. I forgot to mark my color choices and the seller was super kind and responsive. The rope has a rougher texture which is nice. It does shed a little bit." —Holly Robinson

    Shipping info: Orders are customized and shipped via DHL for free within 2–7 business days.

    Get it from Bliss BDSM on Etsy for $14.10+ (available in nine colors).

    Bliss BDSM is a small-business based in Ukraine that creates handcrafted BDSM leather gear and accessories, Shibari jute ropes and wax candles.

    14. Or an ultra-soft bondage rope by Emojibator with Funfetti rainbow colors and 26 feet of length.

    Emojibator

    This rope is made of hypoallergenic and sustainable bamboo silk, so it's safe for anyone with allergies to jute or hemp. While this rope is sturdy and supportive, it's not recommended for suspension use.

    Shipping info: Standard (5–7 business days), expedited (1–3 business days) and next-day (1 business day) shipping is available at checkout. Free shipping is offered on orders $50+.

    Get it from Emojibator for $35 (also available in Unicorn).

    Emojibator products are designed with love in Philadelphia and include novelty sex toys inspired by veggies and emojis.

    15. Don't forget to grab a pair of bondage safety scissors to help them get out of those ropes when the fun ends.

    Purple bondage scissors
    Emojibator

    Shipping info: Standard (5–7 business days), expedited (1–3 business days) and next-day (1 business day) shipping is available at checkout. Free shipping is offered on orders $50+.

    Get it from Emojibator for $9.

    16. A 75-foot roll of bondage tape that only sticks to itself, so they can decorate their lover like the tree and become the angel on top.

    Roll of light pink tape
    amazon.com

    Promising reviews: "Only have used it once but was very fun when I did. I like that it only sticks to itself, so no pain if it touches hair. The bright color makes for nice photos if that's something you are interested in." —Stephanie

    "This tape is a lot of fun. It adheres to itself but not to skin so you don't have to worry about having a bunch of tape residue stuck to your skin. Since you have to make sure the tape comes in contact with itself to stick, taping sometimes requires a few wraps. It could easily be used in place of a blindfold for example or to tie hands." —Sky Etkin

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with two-day delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $7.90+ (available in three colors).

    17. A discreet wearable egg vibrator that won't clash with their favorite lingerie and will get them off with seven vibration modes and or personalized patterns using the Bluetooth app.

    Pink egg-shaped vibrator next to cell phone
    gif of egg-shaped vibrator in water to demonstrate strength
    Amazon, Lovense

    The ergonomic egg shape means this discreet vibe stays put, so you can wear it out and about (if that's your thing) and control the vibrations effortlessly from your phone. No one would suspect a thing and with a five-hour battery life...this toy can probably outlast you.

    Promising reviews: "App works great super powerful and quiet. All I had to do was send an invite to my bf and he instantly was able to connect and control this thing. AMAZING!!" —Rachael M.

    "I use mine on Chaturbate mostly. Connects super easily, which was something I was worried about. The app is easy to use and this device works great for me on Chaturbate. Super comfy, sometimes I forget I have it in." —Vallaria

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $129.

    18. A pair of bangle handcuffs in case they've been hinting at jewelry, but still enjoy some light kink. These cuffs are beginner-friendly, lightweight and adjustable for comfort.

    18K gold-plated and stainless steel bangle handcuffs
    Unbound

    I've been wearing these cuffs as a bangle, just to make sure I don't lead you wrong and — I'm obsessed? Like, they aren't comfortable to type with, but I'm sure you won't be doing that while wearing these. The adjustable sliding knot is really convenient, the cuffs aren't heavy at all (even with both on one arm) and there's definitely enough room to be comfortable while restrained. They are definitely for light restraint play, but I'm literally going to keep wearing them and can't wait for someone to use them on me. 

    The stainless steel bangles have a blue enamel accent and the 18K gold-plated ones have a coral accent.

    Promising review: "My partner and I are new to restraint play, so we were super excited to ease in with the Bangle Handcuff. First of all, they are BEAUTIFUL and look super luxe. They jangle a lot, so I'd probably not wear them around too much in public (if I was trying to be discrete), but that wasn't a problem in the bedroom. They're easy for either me or my partner to put on, are adjustable and can be slid on an off, and have a clasp for removal as well. Would definitely recommend to other restraint newbies!!" —Kay

    Shipping info: To arrive before Christmas, domestic orders must be placed prior to 2 p.m. EST / 11 a.m. PST on the following days: Dec. 2 for economy shipping (free with orders $69+), 12/9 for standard shipping and Dec. 15 for expedited shipping.

    Get it from Unbound for $49 (available in small and large; stainless steel / blue and 18-karat gold-plated / coral).

    19. Or a pair of luxury leather cuffs that look like a fashion statement from the Tudor Era and meant for things that...Anne Boleyn might have been into, tbh.

    Zalo

    Shipping info: Zalo processes and ships orders placed before 11:30 a.m. CST on business days. FedEx Standard (2–7 days) shipping is free and FedEx 2-Day delivery is also available for $9.99.

    Get it from Zalo for $74.99 (originally $119.99).

    20. Orrr, a set of transparent vinyl cuffs, so it'll appear like they're wearing nothing at all and shine brighter than the decorations.

    Transparent vinyl handcuffs
    Spectrum Boutique

    These lightweight cuffs are adjustable up to an 8.5" circumference.

    Shipping info: Spectrum Boutique offers a flat-rate shipping is $10 and free for orders $90+ and is completed by UPS, FedEx and/or USPS.

    Get them from Spectrum Boutique for $44.

    Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive retailer run by self-proclaimed "Dildo Duchess" Zoe Ligon to provide customers with curated collections and resources.

    21. A versatile bed restraint system that includes four adjustable cuffs and restraint straps that fit underneath the mattress, offering comfy immobilization. Just try to be quiet as a mouse if there are others in the house.

    Model with black ankle cuffs and wrist cuffs
    Amazon

    Promising reviews: "I absolutely cannot say enough great things about these straps. They are versatile, discreet, convenient, extremely durable, well-made, and a ton of fun. Highly recommended for anyone who loves to spice things up in the bedroom." —AB

    "These are very good. Wasn't sure if the velcro would be strong enough, but it was! She loved them and I loved them. If you are looking for a great addition to fun in the bedroom I highly recommend getting these." —N. W.

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with next-day delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $45.99.

    22. A set of genuine leather restraints including wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs and a convenient hogtie to keep them all tied up under the tree until Christmas...or in bed, where it might be a little more discreet.

    Bliss BDSM / Etsy

    The wrist cuffs are adjustable from 6.7 inches to 9.8 inches, and the ankle cuffs are adjustable from 7.87 inches to 11.81 inches.

    Shipping info: Orders are customized and shipped via DHL for free within 2–7 business days.

    Get it from Bliss BDSM on Etsy for $92+ (available in five colors).

    23. A pair of extra soft and sensual bondage restraints with pre-looped twists, so all they have to do is slip them on and start to play.

    Lovehoney

    Promising reviews: "Bought these a while ago for tying up, obviously. They do the job well and can be used on both ankles and wrists as well as tying to other things.... like a bed. The perfect thing about these is that they are no clinky like cuffs and don't have noisy Velcro that could give away any goings-on..." —Explorer1

    "I was hesitant to be tied up and was pleasantly surprised by these. We just tied my wrists to the bedposts on the headboard, and they worked well. They’re soft and satiny enough that they are comfortable to have on and don’t leave rough marks on your skin. Our bedpost is thicker which didn’t work the best with them as they are kind of short. This wouldn’t be an issue with a thinner post to tie them to though! Definitely a basic must have for the price." —Tayls

    Shipping info: Lovehoney offers DHL 4–6 day shipping ($9.99 or free with orders $49+), 2–4 day shipping ($19.99), and FedEx one working day shipping ($29.99). Orders ship M–F and the cutoff date for shipping depends on the shipping carrier you choose.

    Get it from Lovehoney for $9.99 (available in three colors).

    24. A faux fox tail butt plug designed for tugging and teasing, with the option of having a silicone or metal plug for added weight.

    Mannequin holding faux fox tail metal butt plug
    Vuzara / Etsy

    The fluffy tail is removable, so you can change butt plugs and sizes for training or texture, whatever you need.

    Promising reviews: "It took a while to ship which I knew from the onset. Well worth the weight beautiful lush and plush tail. Inexpensive for the quality. My new favorite tail, thanks." —Diana

    "Oh my god I love ❤️ so much it stays in and this fox tail feels amazing" —Jon Wright

    Shipping info: Orders ship for free via First Class and are delivered within 2–5 business days. Currently, orders may take up to three weeks to process. Expedited shipping is offered at a flat rate of $3.99.

    Get it from Vuzara on Etsy for $39.99+ (available in three sizes and silicone or metal).

    Vuzara is a Michigan-based small business that creates realistic faux fur tails with detachable butt plugs that help fantasy become reality.

    25. A flexible vibrating butt plug that'll sync to the beat of their favorite Xmas playlist — be honest, is it the Justin Bieber Christmas album or the *NSync one?

    Black anal plug spinning
    Small plug next to large plug
    Lovense, @lovensetoys / https://www.instagram.com/p/BinjFJGAozC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

    There's also an option your own custom patterns, or buzz along to user-created vibration modes already on the app. Supple, body-safe silicone offers a waterproof exterior and the spiralized stem traps lube to help the plug stay put.

    Promising reviews: "Exactly as described, and exceeded expectations. This is a great buy for individual’s who seek self satisfaction. This plug is also a fantastic idea of fun for couples who look to spice things up a bit. Couldn’t get any better. Extremely happy with this purchase, and look forward to purchasing more products by this brand." —William Gardener

    "We have had a great time with this. I bought the largest and it took a bit to get used to it. We are a couple of states away from each other and he has had a great time setting me off while I’m at work or doing things around home. The vibration is very intense at the highest setting and at the lowest just keeps you on edge. Being made of the material that it is, you have to keep it clean and let it air out, so it doesn’t smell if you get any fecal matter on it. Definitely recommend!" —JayyDee

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $94 (available in 1.5" W and 1.75" W).

    26. A faux leather paddle with "inappropriate" words mirrored on it, that'll leave them with a strong impression.

    Black and red paddles with cutout words
    Pretty Inappropriate / Etsy

    Options for words include "XOXO," "Slave," "Love," "Slut," and "Ouch."

    Promising reviews: "I absolutely LOVE it. I got the ‘love’ paddle and I can say it works perfectly 🥵 plus the item quality is great! Thanks again!" —Kaytee Louise

    "Great product. Well made. The wife and I love it. It leaves xoxo imprints on the skin." —Kristopher

    Shipping info: Due to shipping delays, USPS standard shipping can take up to 2–7 business days and priority can take up to 4 days. USPS express shipping (1–2 days) is also offered as an option.

    Get it from Pretty Inappropriate on Etsy for $18.99+.

    Pretty Inappropriate is a family- and woman-owned small business based in Illinois that creates naughty keepsakes and gifts.

    27. A 5-inch penis candle created with blacklight wax, so they can enjoy some fluorescent wax play under the mistletoe with your love.

    Agreeable Agony

    Sensation play that also allows me to burn a dick? Count me in. Remember, the closer it drips, the hotter the wax!

    Not a fan of dicks? There's also a vulva version of the candle.

    Shipping info: Spectrum Boutique offers a flat-rate shipping is $10 and free for orders $90+ and is completed by UPS, FedEx and/or USPS. Agreeable Agony offers free shipping on orders $49+ with the option of expedited shipping at checkout. Wax candles ship within 2–3 weeks. For holiday shipping, there are specific shipping cut-offs as follows: USPS: Dec. 2 (for standard shipping), Dec. 15 (priority mail), Dec. 20 (priority express). For UPS: Dec. 10 (ground shipping), De. 18 (second day air) and Dec. 20 (next day air).

    Get it from Spectrum Boutique for $14 (available in five colors) or Agreeable Agony for $12.95+ (available in three styles and 15 color options).

    28. Or a pitcher of UV / blacklight reactive wax in rainbow colors that warms to the touch for a sensual and visually exciting massage or foreplay addition.

    Pitcher of rainbow colored wax with lit candle wick
    @shopspectrumboutique / Via instagram.com

    This wax melts at 124–126 degrees F and it's recommended to increase or decrease the distance you pour from. A pour spout offers easy application, and pro-tip: let the wax melt and pool before blowing the candle out and then drip. 

    Shipping info: Spectrum Boutique offers a flat-rate shipping is $10 and free for orders $90+ and is completed by UPS, FedEx and/or USPS.

    Get them from Spectrum Boutique for $34.

    29. A chastity cage for their cock, boasting a transparent design that makes sure neither of you miss out on any of the action during your play.

    Reviewer holding transparent chastity cage
    amazon.com

    This lightweight cage is made of medical-grade polycarbonate and includes five U-rings, a brass lock with two keys, and five plastic locks...just in case you need to get it through TSA.

    Promising reviews: "Good product overall. Make sure you order the correct shaft size. The ball collars are tight. The biggest size being what most men would be able to tolerate. Some lube may be necessary for sliding into the shaft. It’s a fun dirty secret." —Bilbo

    "Pretty sturdy cage. The rings have a lot of different diameters to choose from. They are thicker plastic than I've seen in other cages. There's a lot of pieces to it, so it's a little more complicated than other cages I've seen. Be aware the sheath part is somewhat narrow and curved. We got the largest size and had to work a bit to stuff him into it. (Granted we are newer at this.)" —C

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $26.49+ (available in two sizes).

    30. A waterproof octopus-shaped vibrator that also doubles as a mini flogger, so they can engage in some light sensation play and good vibes under the twinkle of holiday lights.

    Purple octopus-shaped vibrator and mini flogger
    Honey Play Box

    The vibrating end and whiskers both have nine vibration modes to explore and are made with body-safe silicone for simple cleaning.

    Promising review: "For anyone who has trouble getting to the happy place this increases sensitivity of those special parts. We use this as a teaser much of the time and it leads to multiple orgasms. As a stand alone it will get the job done with no problem. The wife and I would recommend this item to anyone who has any difficulty reaching that happy place." —Anonymous

    Shipping info: Honey Play Box offers flat rate shipping ($7.95) and free shipping on orders $69+ and most orders ship within one day.

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $57.99.

    31. An adjustable strap-on harness designed with not one, but TWO O-ring harnesses perfect for attaching their favorite dildos.

    Mannequin wearing purple strap-on harness with O-ring and hole
    Love Abby Shop / Etsy

    This universal harness can also be used by people with penises, with the lower hole fitting their penis and the higher O-ring fitting a favorite dildo. Maybe this year is the year Santa delivers you the gift of double penetration?

    Shipping info: Orders are processed within 1–2 days and are shipped for free via USPS (2–5 business days).

    Get it from Love Abby Shop on Etsy for $15.99 (available in black and purple).

    Love Abby is based in Daytona Beach and sells an assortment of sex toys, lingerie and pet apparel.

    32. A wearable vibrator with a wireless remote that works using haptic technology that increases the vibration intensity based on the pressure of each squeeze.

    Unbound

    I've used the Divvy alone and the haptic technology is truly out of this world! There's a little bit of a lag between the squeeze and increase-in-vibration technology, but it definitely works and I'm excited to try it out with a partner. If you choose to not use the remote, there are three vibration intensities and two patterns to explore. All you need to experiment with is getting the vibrator in the right position and then you're off to new sensations.

    Promising reviews: "My wife loves her new Divvy. We get excited just talking about using it. Even more exciting when we actually do. My wife allows me to control her sensations as I please. Enough settings for every feeling." —Chile M.

    "I bought this for my boyfriend and I to try after he loved using my wand with me. Divvy is really fun because it provides a hands-free (mostly) way for him to tease me that I love and that lets the moment feel really intimate. I was worried it wouldn’t be powerful enough, but it’s more than enough with the heightened arousal during sex. Fun for couples!" —sarah

    Shipping info: To arrive before Christmas, domestic orders must be placed prior to 2 p.m. EST / 11 a.m. PST on the following days: Dec. 2 for economy shipping (free with orders $69+), Dec. 9 for standard shipping and Dec. 15 for expedited shipping.

    Get it from Unbound for $71.

    33. A versatile panty vibrator that they'll relish putting on underneath those kitschy matching pajamas that were also in their stocking.

    GIF demonstrating how to wear panty vibrator
    Pink and black panty vibrator inside purse
    Lovense

    Its adjustable vibration modes and speeds can be controlled at close-range or from afar. Unlike most panty vibrators, this one is strictly external and has a magnetic cap to help it stay put as you walk, sit, lounge or whatever else you plan on doing.

    Promising reviews: "This product is amazinggggg for long-distance relationships and even solo play. All different kinds of patterns, or you can make your own. Battery life lasts pretty well and it’s pretty discreet and stays in place well. I’d say that it is just a tad louder than what I expected, but I think that setting can be adjusted in the app. I’d definitely 100% recommend this — especially to long-distance couples." —Leah J.

    "I'm not sure how people say this doesn’t work from afar, because this works. My partner and I live a thousand miles away and we got this and he controls it from a thousand miles apart. You have to learn how to actually use the app. I 10/10 recommend this" —maricelis torres

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $119.

    34. A strappy full-body harness boasting adjustable and stretchy straps that offers inclusive sizing. A perfect gift for the lingerie lovers in your life who prefer leaving nothing up to the imagination.

    Hot pink strappy full body harness view from front and back
    Amazon

    Promising reviews: "Sexy and fun! Thick yet comfortable straps and many points of adjustment leading to a custom fit. A beautiful piece at a great price. You can easily wear whatever bra and panties you like underneath or go naked if that’s more your speed. A nice piece for those of us who are a little more busty as theres nothing in the harness that will squish larger breasts and make them look deformed. Only quibble is that it can be hard to unhook the straps when it’s time to take off the piece but it’s so sexy and comfortable, you may just want to leave it on!" —K. Taylor

    "I’m 5’0" and two hundred and something pounds, and not gonna lie, it’s surprisingly comfortable. It’s more stretchy and adjustable than it looks. I was worried I was going to look like a roasted ham in it but nah it’s just fine. Totally worth the money." —Alexa dejulian

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here).

    Get it from Amazon for $22.55+ (available in 14 colors).

    35. A full-body harness for penis owners constructed from genuine leather with adjustable buckles and an attached cock ring. Who needs mistletoe?

    Mama Leather / Etsy

    The small fits people up to 38-inch waists and the XL fits people with waists up to 54 inches. Check out the rest of the shop for more colors besides pink!

    Promising reviews: "Very soft and comfy! It took me a minute to find the right adjustment but once I did it fit like it was made for me." —Brian

    "Several vendors sell harnesses all over the place but there are only few that go out of their way to provide you with a service of creating something for you, rushing it to your location and following up to make sure you're satisfied. Shop this merchant with HIGH confidence!!!! The harness is OUTSTANDING! The look, feel, smell and fit are all perfect. I wear a large and the large fit perfect with room to go up or down. The hardware is top notch! The color is better depicted, its literally perfect! Opening it was such a gift and along with your purchase you get the most warm hearted HANDWRITTEN thank you note from Marco. I just loved everything about this purchase, I am sure you will too!" —Serg Garcia

    Shipping info: Orders ship within 3–5 business days and shipping rates vary by location / zip code.

    Get it from Mama Leather on Etsy for $189 (available with black or silvertone snaps and in sizes S–XL).

    Mama Leather is based in the Bronx and creates handmade leather fetish gear and accessories.

    36. A must-have bondage kit with a little bit of this and a little bit of that, so they can play out all their Dom/sub fantasies whenever and wherever.

    Honey Play Box

    This little kit includes a pair of wrist cuffs, a pair of ankle cuffs, one blindfold and one four-point hogtie base (without ropes), so you can up the ante on your partner play without breaking the budget. And all of the pieces are uniform with a unique textured vinyl design!

    Shipping info: Honey Play Box offers flat rate shipping ($7.95) and free shipping on orders $69+ and most orders ship within one day.

    Get it from Honey Play Box for $57.99 (available in pink and black).

    37. An 11-piece bondage set that's perfect for beginners looking to explore BDSM or experienced kink enthusiasts who prefer a one-stop shop option.

    the set in black with chrome accents
    Amazon

    This bondage set boasts various items made of leather and nylon, including one pair of handcuffs, one pair of ankle cuffs, one pair of nipple clamps, a whip, a rope, a ball gag, a feather tickler, a collar, a hogtie, a blindfold and a paddle.

    Promising reviews: "I was surprised how many pieces came with this set. The fur lining makes the cuffs and collars very comfortable, and uses buckles rather than velcro. The set is shown on women but I used it on a man. Some of the chain link could probably be broken through, if they wanted to. Impact play items work well, and the variety of items give this set a lot of options. I used the cuffs with a bed strap system I already had." —Anonymous

    "I am in no way a beginner. But I did pick this set up to introduce my husband to some new things. The quality is really nice and the faux fur lining on the collar and restraints is awesome. Only downside is the gagball is breathable but great for beginners. Very pleased with my purchase and would order again!" —Julie

    Shipping info: Available on Amazon Prime with free delivery, non-Prime shipping options will still arrive by Christmas (see Amazon's full shipping information here). Provocateur Creations offers free shipping with delivery within 5–10 business days.

    Get it from Amazon for $26.99

    Or, if you prefer your kink in pink, get a very similar set from Provacateur Creations on Etsy for $48.99 (originally $69.99; it doesn't contain the hogtie or the paddle).

    Provocateur Creations is based in Ireland and specializes in hand-crafting adult products.

    38. An innovative training set to help them ease their way into the world of pegging or anal play with a supple silicone 6" vibrating dildo, a strap-on, a harness, a vibrating anal plug designed specifically for beginners, and two wireless remotes to control the vibrations from afar.

    Fuchsia butt plug with white wireless remote and purple dildo with black wireless remote
    Black harness with pink dildo attached
    B-Vibe

    So, you want to try out pegging, eh? Well this bundle has it all, and both the beginner's anal plug and dildo vibrator can be controlled with wireless remotes. You can choose one of several different dildo options; the various shapes and designs let you pick exactly what kind of pleasure you want to deliver to your partner.

    Shipping info: Orders are typically processed within a single day and ship via UPS.

    Get it from B-Vibe for $179 (valued at $250; available in black and fuchsia with 4 different dildo options).

    B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

    39. An Intro to Kink set by Emojibator that includes a vibrating anal plug, rainbow bondage rope and a choice of water-based or CBD lube.

    Emojibator

    The waterproof anal vibrator has 10 vibration modes and a convenient pull-out ring for effortless removal. The colorful Unicorn bondage rope measures 26.25 feet long for multipurpose use, and you make the choice on whether you want to purchase this kit with water-based lube or CBD lube.

    Shipping info: Standard (5–7 business days), expedited (1–3 business days) and next-day (1 business day) shipping is available at checkout. Free shipping is offered on orders $50+.

    Get it from Emojibator for $69+ (originally $100+).

    40. The All Good Puff set by Unbound that comes with all the essentials for a mind-blowing orgasm, at least in my opinion. This set includes the Puff suction vibrator, Stellar glass dildo, Jelly water-based lube and silicone Cuffies that stretch just enough to keep them comfortable as you take control this holiday season.

    Image of set components with green vibrator and green silicone cuffs
    Unbound

    Now listen, I have used Puff and Stellar in tandem with each other and...have you ever heard angels sing? Honestly, I didn't either bc I suffer from the temporary deafness phenomenon that happens after a serious O, but I imagine that's what happened outside of my body LOL. Anyways — the Cuffies have been on my list for restraint play: soft silicone and enough give to make newbies feel comfortable even while restrained. The Jelly lube is water-based, and thus compatible with both toys and has a faint vanilla scent (just in case you don't like using scented lubes). Stellar hits the G-spot every time and is really pretty to look at and Puff is the toy that keeps me coming back. Unbound, I forever Stan.

    Promising reviews: "My wife literally said OMG from the beginning when we started with the puff. Then started with stellar and the fireworks went in 30 seconds. Let just say she was very happy with my present." —Grant S.

    "This bundle has crazy good value for all the items you get!!! The puff is obviously the best of the bunch but I love the stellar glass as well and when used in combination I'm seeing stars within seconds 😱 thank you unbound babes you changed my life!!!!!" —Rhys J.

    Shipping info: To arrive before Christmas, domestic orders must be placed prior to 2 p.m. EST / 11 a.m. PST on the following days: Dec. 2 for economy shipping (free with orders $69+),  Dec. 9 for standard shipping and Dec. 15 for expedited shipping.

    Get it from Unbound for $98 (originally $123; Puff and Cuffies available in two colors).

    Santa honey, one little thing I really need...

    Focus Features

    Hint, it's an orgasm. 🤷‍♀️ 

    The reviews for this post have been edited for length and clarity.

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