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1. A luxury leather collar and chain leash with an ornate thorn design, that offers a glamorous accent to any sub's style.
2. A very discreet submission collar that can also be worn as a chic necklace or choker.
3. An adjustable nipple clamp that'll tease and please you or your lover with a gentle bite sensation.
4. A sterling silver O-ring necklace that descends into discreet nipple clamps that can be worn underneath your favorite tops, day or night.
5. Orrrr a 24-karat gold-plated nipple clamp that follows the happiest of trails down to the clitoris for an extra-stimulating squeeze.
6. A vibrating Verge cock ring by We-Vibe designed specifically to stimulate the perineum with eight rumbly vibrations.
You can control the vibrations of this waterproof wearable manually or from the convenient We-Connect app.
Promising review: "This thing is the bee's knees. It's strong, has 10 different levels of strength, multiple different vibe modes, just the right amount of weight and does the job, very well at that! It's great for solo and couples. It also comes with an app for long distance fun with a partner! Be aware that you must plan to use it before any kind of stimulation because YOU WILL NOT GET IT ON! Other than that I couldn't be happier with this one!" —JacksonP
Get it from We-Vibe for $119.
7. A uniquely-shaped vibrating cock ring by Fun Factory with rabbit ear attachments to stimulate your lover's clitoris with each stroke during PIV.
8. A luxury silicone ball gag adorned with a delicate rose. Remove the rose to reveal a hole that's perfect for teasing.
9. A simple ball gag that gets the job done while providing a soft silicone material for you or your partner to sink your teeth in.
10. A breathable ball-gag designed with adjustable straps for comfort and...um, "communication" between partners.
11. A unique, soft and silicone gag designed to make you drool...literally. 🤤
12. A satin blindfold to deprive your sense of sight and help elevate your other senses for some semi-mysterious sensation play.
13. A Shibari rope for tying down your lover as temperatures cool off. This rope is made of 100% natural jute and enhanced with aroma oils for a special touch.
14. An ultra-soft bondage rope by Emojibator with Funfetti rainbow colors and 26 feet of length.
15. Don't forget to grab a pair of bondage safety scissors to help you get out of those ropes when you need to.
16. A 75-foot roll of bondage tape to help you immobilize or restrain your lover — and the best part is that it only sticks to itself.
17. A discreet wearable egg vibrator that won't clash with your favorite lingerie and will get you off with seven vibration modes and or personalized patterns using the Bluetooth app.
The ergonomic egg shape means this discreet vibe stays put, so you can wear it out and about (if that's your thing) and control the vibrations effortlessly from your phone. No one would suspect a thing and with a five-hour battery life...this toy can probably outlast you.
Promising reviews: "App works great super powerful and quiet. All I had to do was send an invite to my bf and he instantly was able to connect and control this thing. AMAZING!!" —Rachael M.
"I use mine on Chaturbate mostly. Connects super easily, which was something I was worried about. The app is easy to use and this device works great for me on Chaturbate. Super comfy, sometimes I forget I have it in." —Vallaria
Get it from Amazon for $129.
18. A pair of luxury leather cuffs that look like a fashion statement from the Tudor Era and meant for things that...Anne Boleyn might have been into, tbh.
19. Orrr, a set of transparent vinyl cuffs, so it'll appear like you're wearing nothing at all.
20. A versatile bed restraint system that includes four adjustable cuffs and restraint straps that fit underneath your mattress, so you can be immobilized by your lover with comfort.
21. A pair of extra soft and sensual bondage restraints with pre-looped twists, so all you or your lover have to do is slip them on and start to play.
22. A faux fox tail butt plug designed for tugging and teasing, with the option of having a silicone or metal plug for added weight.
23. A flexible vibrating butt plug that'll sync to the beat of your favorite songs, mimic your own custom patterns, or buzz along to user-created vibration modes already on the app.
Supple, body-safe silicone offers a waterproof exterior and the spiralized stem traps lube to help the plug stay put.
Promising reviews: "Exactly as described, and exceeded expectations. This is a great buy for individual’s who seek self satisfaction. This (Multi Pattern Vibrating) plug is also a fantastic idea of fun for couples who look to spice things up a bit. Personal Care Products couldn’t get any better. Extremely happy with this purchase, and look forward to purchasing more products by this brand." —William Gardener
"We have had a great time with this. I bought the largest and it took a bit to get used to it. We are a couple of states away from each other and he has had a great time setting me off while I’m at work or doing things around home. The vibration is very intense at the highest setting and at the lowest just keeps you on edge. Being made of the material that it is, you have to keep it clean and let it air out, so it doesn’t smell if you get any fecal matter on it. Definitely recommend!" —JayyDee
Get it from Amazon for $94 (available in 1.5" W and 1.75" W).
24. A faux leather paddle with "inappropriate" words mirrored on it, so when you spank your lover or sub with a love tap it leaves a readable impression.
25. A fluorescent penis-shaped candle in case you don't mind a little messiness delivered with your sensation kink.
26. Or a pitcher of UV / blacklight reactive wax in rainbow colors that warm to your touch for a sensual and visually exciting massage or foreplay addition.
27. A premium leather strap-on harness because your taste for luxury and your love of kink shouldn't have to be enjoyed separately.
28. A chastity cage for your cock, boasting a transparent design that makes sure neither you or your lover miss out on any of the action during your play.
29. A wearable vibrator with a wireless remote that works using haptic technology that increases the vibration intensity based on the pressure of your squeeze.
30. A versatile panty vibrator that'll stay put while your lover controls its adjustable vibration modes and speeds at close-range or from afar.
Unlike most panty vibrators, this one is strictly external and has a magnetic cap to help it stay put as you walk, sit, lounge or whatever else you plan on doing.
Promising reviews: "This product is amazinggggg for long-distance relationships and even solo play. All different kinds of patterns, or you can make your own. Battery life lasts pretty well and it’s pretty discreet and stays in place well. I’d say that it is just a tad louder than what I expected, but I think that setting can be adjusted in the app. I’d definitely 100% recommend this — especially to long-distance couples." —Leah J.
"I'm not sure how people say this doesn’t work from afar, because this works. My partner and I live a thousand miles away and we got this and he controls it from a thousand miles apart. You have to learn how to actually use the app. I 10/10 recommend this" —maricelis torres
Get it from Amazon for $119.
31. A vibrant vegan leather harness designed with a strap that attaches to your favorite cock ring for a full-body style.
32. A strappy full-body harness boasting adjustable and stretchy straps that offers inclusive sizing, in case you've been looking for some risqué lingerie that leaves nothing up to your lover's imagination.
33. A premium leather hogtie that ups the ante on your restraint play by allowing you to explore the kinkiest corners of your imagination.
34. A must-have bondage kit with a little bit of this and a little bit of that, so you can play out all your Dom/sub fantasies whenever and wherever.
35. An 11-piece bondage set that's perfect for beginners looking to explore BDSM or experienced kink enthusiasts who prefer a one-stop shop option.
36. An innovative training set to help you ease your way into the world of pegging or anal play with a supple silicone 6" vibrating dildo, a strap-on, a harness, a vibrating anal plug designed specifically for beginners, and two wireless remotes to control the vibrations from afar.
So, you want to try out pegging, eh? Well this bundle has it all, and both the beginner's anal plug and dildo vibrator can be controlled with wireless remotes. You can choose one of several different dildo options; the various shapes and designs let you pick exactly what kind of pleasure you want to deliver to your partner.
Get it from B-Vibe for $179 (valued at $250; available in black and fuchsia with 4 different dildo options).
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
37. An Intro to Kink set by Emojibator that includes a vibrating anal plug, rainbow bondage rope and your pick of water-based or CBD lube.
38. The Cum Together Set by Unbound that includes their Orion cuffs, a remote-controlled couples' vibrator, water-based lube and Truth or Dare cards.
Cuffing season is on, so now it's time to get freaky with bae.
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