25 Arousal Serums And Lubes To Heat Things Up (Or Cool Them Down)

Tell your erogenous zones we're turning up the thermostat this winter with these arousal products.

1. A stimulating serum by Hello Cake to help you turn up the heat with tingling sensations that alternate between cooling and warming. There's one for penises and another for vaginas, so everybody can play!

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Promising reviews: "I really didn’t think it would work too well but it did, it was also had a very soft and slippery texture, like a jelly almost, very smooth. it was a nice tingle." —raezberru (on Tingle to Mingle)

"This stuff is amazing. Definitely a new sensation I wasn't expecting. Lasts a pretty good time and even works under a condom. 10/10 great for solo masturbating too!" —Nova (on Stim for Him)

Get it from Amazon for $14.99 (also available as Tingle to Mingle for vaginas).

2. A tingly water-based lube that'll add a new and thrilling sensation to your sex life or self-care routine.

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A water-based formula means you can use it practically anytime, but it's not compatible with condoms (latex or not).

Promising reviews: "Without getting too personal, this is a product that you are either going to love, or hate. I am a woman, and let's just say that this turns the intensity up, WAY up. A-l-m-o-s-t too much, which is perfect for me, but probably not for everyone." —G W

Get it from Amazon for $5.48+ (available in three pack options).

3. A 3-in-1 arousal serum that'll help stimulate, lubricate and plump your vulva and labia with a warming sensation that elevates your *me time*.

Rosebud Woman

Promising review: "Smells good, but subtle. Works great. I’m ordering my second standard size bottle. I love this! I use with the Honor after giving it a few minutes to work. Lives up to the claims." —ventana

Get it from Amazon for $75.

4. A clitoral balm with a warming effect that'll elevate your pleasure and sensitivity for an out-of-this-world sensation.

Bijoux Indiscrets

This balm boasts ginseng and arginine as ingredients and is compatible with latex condoms and sex toys.

Promising review: "To say the clitoral balm provides a 'warming sensation in a matter of seconds' is no joke! I put a small amount on myself at first to see how quickly I'd feel it warming and how long it lasted. It feels unmistakably warm but not at all too much or unpleasant. I found it felt warm long enough that I was definitely turned on looking forward to trying other things with the new sensation. I did wish it lasted a bit longer for me, I don't think I got near 40 minutes without reapplying, but I still enjoyed using the balm. Would buy again!" —Tiffany

Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $16.95.

Bijoux Indiscrets is a woman-owned and -led company that designs intimate cosmetics and pleasure toys that go against masculine and pornographic depictions of female pleasure and help women feel comfortable exploring their bodies and sexuality.

5. A stimulating water-based lube by Sliquid that delivers a cooling sensation upon contact, but warms up with friction...so get moving!

@sliquid / Via instagram.com

A water-based and vegan formula offers versatile use that's still body-friendly.

Get it from Rodeoh for $12.

Rodeoh is a woman-operated, community-driven artist collective and collaborative with a home base in San Francisco.

6. A KY lubricant duo designed to deliver a warming sensation for penises and a tingling sensation for vulvas, whether you use it as lube or a massage oil.

KY

Even though gender isn't real, you can still have a good time with this lube-slash-massage oil by KY. The Yours (for penises) can be used during penetration, but it does contain glycerin, which can sometimes lead to yeast infections for people prone to them when used internally in vaginas. The Mine (for vulvas) lube is water-based, meaning you'll need to reapply when necessary, but it'll last! Just make sure not to use this product with condoms, it's not compatible.

Promising reviews: "Talk about heating things up once the two come together. Quite a nice feeling and definitely gets you where you need to be." —Margie M

"This pink lotion is light, nonsticky, and makes me feel incredible! You’ll feel pleasurable heat when it’s applied. I give it or recommend it to every friend." —Folly girl

Get it from Amazon for $14.97.

7. A pleasure serum that's 99% pure CBD and designed with science in mind, so that every part of the clitoris is stimulated.

Vella Bioscience

I actually had the opportunity to try this product, and TBH it was my first foray into using CBD during masturbation...but it definitely won't be my last. I will say this product is definitely all about the science, so when it says three pumps, it means no more and no less. The serum is topical and only for external use, so clitoris and labia only. It's supposed to set in around 20 minutes, so I literally tried to be productive while I had a timer running, but the more time I spent waiting, the more it seemed like my vagina had grown a mind of its own. I decided to forgo ol' faithful and try out a couple new products, but I only was able to test one because I was having such a great time. 🥴 The orgasm(s) I had with this serum was so great, that I actually said "I love Air Pulse technology" aloud, which may be the most embarrassing thing I've ever done alone?

The facts: This serum has 320 mg of CBD, a vegan formula, and doesn't really have a smell, like it just smells like a lotion. It's a bit thick — not like lube at all — and creates kind of a mess, but it wasn't hard to clean up at all (toy cleaner + soap and water). So far, it's only been tested on cis-women / AFAB people, so if you weren't born with a vagina...I would not recommend it. It's also compatible with latex.

Get it from Nordstrom for $65 (also available in single-use packets).

8. An orgasm enhancer by Bijoux Indiscrets specially designed for your clit to help prepare your body and increase sensitivity for explosive results.

Bijoux Indiscrets

This scented balm is designed to help get you there with just a few drops.

Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $17.95.

9. An arousal cream that'll help stimulate libido by increasing blood flow for a more sensitive clit and firmer penile erection.

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Of course, since this isn’t a lube, you should probably stick to external use only!

Promising reviews: "So I am 36, going through early menopause! My sex drive is almost nonexistent. So I tried this and believe me when I tell you, it most definitely got things going down there!!! Don't wait try this, I promise you will not regret it!!!!" —Talishia Crosby

"This stuff is definitely worth a try. It feels amazing for both us, and it's easy to apply. The tube is a bit small, but you really don't need much." —Paul

Get it from Amazon for $12.89.

10. A love gel originally created for post-menopausal folks to help heighten sensitivity and increase libido for a more pleasurable experience.

Revolve

This lightweight gel is formulated with natural aphrodisiacs, but also hydrating Jambu extract and hemp seed oil for a stimulating and rejuvenating feel (which may feel warm for some users).

Promising reviews: "My husband now asks for this every time we are intimate, It's a nice warm feeling that heightens sensitivity down there in a very good way!" —Anonymous

"Heard so much about this and have been so keen to try. So I bought it, and allI can say is that it really works." —Emily

Get it from Revolve for $39.

11. An oil-based, hemp-infused massage oil by Coconu that'll help you get in the mood for ~play~ whether you use it topically for extra stimulation or internally as a lubricant.

@coconu / instagram.com

Promising reviews: "I think this is my very first Amazon review and, wow! This is the absolutely best lube I have tried, and I think I have tried them all! I saw this brand Coconu all over Instagram and was excited to see they’re finally on Amazon for free shipping. The good stuff — it is SO moisturizing both externally and internally, absolutely perfect for every type of massage and intimate action. This is a serious game changer, it’s unlike any other of its kind on the market and you can see from the product photos that it’s completely natural!" —Marie

"What a great product. It's a perfect consistency and really makes a difference. I've tried other brands, but I'm so impressed with this one. It's gentle and it's so comforting to know I'm using safe and natural ingredients. So glad to have found this." —RR

Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

12. A massage oil by Slow Sex that delivers a warming effect when you blow on it for extra intensity and a sweet flavor in case you'd rather use your mouth.

Bijous Indiscrets

This oil is toy-safe and body-safe!

Promising review: "I gave my bf an intimate massage with the gel and I licked and blew his skin and his reaction was amazing." —Carina T.

Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $22.95.

13. A menthol-free arousal oil enhanced with natural botanical oils that'll press your favorite "button" and turn you on with a tingly sensation.

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And by button, I absolutely mean clit.

Promising review: "Works well... Doesn't take much to feel it. It was a strange feeling at first but REALLY got the juices flowing 💦💦💦" —joe jensen

"Yes yes and yes...I used this on my lips and for a trip down south on him...LOL yes is all I'm saying." —stacey malone

Get it from Amazon for $12.95.

14. A silicone-based lube by Trojan to help intensify sensations for more arousing play with cooling and warming sensations.

Trojan

This stimulating lubricant is all about getting you hot during foreplay and intercourse.

Promising reviews: "Warm and stimulating. Works every time! Need I say more? ;)" —Cathleen Arhelger

"It has no flavor FYI. But feels amazing. Me and my partner like it. It does have a warm sensation but nothing too wild like you're on fire. A bit pricey but worth it." —Omar pastora

Get it from Amazon for $21.39.

15. A stimulating anal lubricant created with an extra-thick, water-based formula that'll last way after the arousal stage.

RodeoH

The Jelle Heat and Chill formulas are both latex-friendly and enhanced with olive leaf extract for an always slippery, never sticky experience. So you already know you want/enjoy anal, now the question is: do you want cooling tingles or a warming sensation?

Get it from Rodeoh for $18.99 (available in Heat and Chill).

16. An oral sex balm by Bijoux Indiscrets that offers a cooling and slippery enhancement for cunnilingus or fellatio and a sharp contrast against the warmth of a mouth.

Bijoux Indiscrets

Promising reviews: "I get chapped lips after going down on him. With this it's a whole new story: my lips are healthy and we both can enjoy oral." —Anonymous

"The best BJ ever! :) Try it to believe it." —Anastasia M.

Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $16.95.

17. A Fleshlube Fire lubricant by Fleshlight designed to deliver a warm sensation upon contact whether playing alone or using your favorite sleeve.

Fleshlight

While this lube is water-based, it's intended for external use on a penis with or without a Fleshlight toy.

Promising reviews: "The Fleshlube Fire warms without being uncomfortable. The sensation it provides is amazing. If you have never used this before, you have to try it. This is the perfect lube to use with any sleeve. If you buy it, you will not be disappointed." —Kevin G.

"Hey, if you want things to get hot quick and need some extra experimenting, get this lube. It can be a little intense depending on your sleeve and your saliva, if you know what I mean." —Hector N.

Get it from Fleshlight for $11.95+ (available in 4-oz and 8-oz) or Amazon for $21.95 (8-oz. only).

18. Orrr, cool things off with Fleshlube Ice, a water-based lube delivering a cooling sensation that'll feel like you're getting off on the top of a mountain.

Fleshlight

This is also only intended for external use on a penis.

Promising review: "Ice is my favorite. Adds another layer of sensation. Not too powerful that it's uncomfortable. Just the right amount of cooling." —Steven S.

Get it from Fleshlight for $11.95+ (available in 4-oz and 8-oz.)

19. Or a 2-in-1 arousal gel and lubricant by Trojan boasting a motion-activated formula that keeps things slick for both parties and delivers a tingly, warming sensation.

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Meanwhile, this lube is all about helping you get to the BIG FINISH by heightening those sensations with each moment.

Promising reviews: "My product came and me and my fiancé bought it for our wedding night :). We couldn't help ourselves, so we opened it and tried some on him and a little on me, and a few minutes later into some heavy romance it kicked in, and I got super excited and you know what happened next LOL. We love and we will be buying more for our wedding night because this bottle won't last. Try it, you may like it." —Lisa

"Love this product! Its intensity notches up with the more motion you apply and it works very well for stimulation/arousal, if you’re looking for something that’ll give you a hefty tingle almost like a mild burning heat." —Chartman

Get it from Amazon for $14.97.

20. A clitoral balm boasting an earthy scent and warming effect for increased sensation and sensitivity during partnered or solo play.

Bijoux Indiscrets

These three balms have a coconut and almond oil base for a silky smooth texture that helps deliver a warming effect. I love the names of each of there...Horny Jar is right up my alley. Because that's what I am. A jar of horny.

Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $11.95 (available in spiced ginger, sandalwood and vetiver scents).

21. An all-natural arousal oil by Foria created with a blend of CBD and botanicals to help enhance sensation and pleasure.

@foriawellness / instagram.com, Foria

I have a friend who swears on this arousal oil, and TBH I live vicariously through her sex life, so I believe it. You can apply as much as a full dropper of the coconut oil-based oil to your inner labia and/or vagina, and of course, your clitoris. This oil is also oral-friendly and safe to ingest...y'know, just in case.

Promising reviews: "I was worried this would throw off my pH or feel weird to my partner because of the peppermint. Nope! And im pretty sensitive so I was surprised. If you're even thinking about it, just do it! Excellent!" —DSQ

"I have a very low libido. Highly abnormal for my age but there isn't any real reason for it. I got this beautiful oil as a Fab Fit Fun add-on and it's LIFE CHANGING! Absolutely does EXACTLY what it says/claims. I genuinely expected to be disappointed but in the very least it's moisturizing so it couldn't hurt right? Absolutely friggin' right and I highly recommend it for EVERYONE!! Also, it's not something to boost already low libido or to assist with low desire disorder but it WILL make time with your lover even BETTER on so many levels!" —Wifeynd

Get it from Nordstrom for $48.

22. A stimulating nipple gel with a roll-on applicator to deliver an eyebrow-raising cooling effect that boasts a menthol flavor and coconut aroma.

Bijoux Indiscrets

Promising reviews: "Very good to paint the spots of your body to be licked or kissed." —Emily A.

"Just pop it in the freezer and its effect will double. ;) Incredible!" —Lorianne G.

Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $16.95.

23. A stimulating gel by SKYN that's both condom- and toy-compatible for a real good, feel good time whether partnered or solo.

Amazon

This gel is designed to help intensify your climax and deliver cooling, tingly, and warming sensations to the user.

Promising reviews: "This is the absolute top sensations gel that I have ever used. Amazing!" —TheCardens1108

Get it from Amazon for $5.99.

24. An edible and body-safe arousal balm created with peppermint, hemp seed and avocado oils for a silky smooth and stimulating sensation wherever you put it.

Loveability

AKA: the nipples, clit, shaft, frenulum, anus, vulva, thighs, neck, and anywhere else on the exterior of your body. This oil-based balm is not compatible with latex condoms.

Get it from Lovability for $24.

25. A clitoral pleasure gel that helps heighten stimulation and sensation during foreplay or sex.

Lovehoney

Promising review: "This has got to be my favorite lubricant I have purchased for a long time — this is used at every opportunity as the sensation feels amazing! Even just getting my partner to rub it on and leaving me before getting frisky just teases! Even using with oral and the occasional blow gives a nice cooling tingling sensation which I love! It certainly makes things progress a lot quicker — I would definitely recommend and be purchasing more!" —CMC21

Get it from Lovehoney for $19.99.

Always remember to do a spot test beforehand, to see if there's a reaction...if there isn't one, then off to the races—um, bedroom!

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The reviews for this post have been edited for length and clarity.

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