Skip To Content

    We hope you love our recommendations! Some may have been sent as samples, but all were independently selected by our editors. Just FYI, BuzzFeed collects a share of sales and/or other compensation from the links on this page.

    25 Arousal Serums And Lubes To Heat Things Up (Or Cool Them Down)

    Tell your erogenous zones we're turning up the thermostat this winter with these arousal products.

    1. A stimulating serum by Hello Cake to help you turn up the heat with tingling sensations that alternate between cooling and warming. There's one for penises and another for vaginas, so everybody can play!

    2. A tingly water-based lube that'll add a new and thrilling sensation to your sex life or self-care routine.

    Blue box of KY Give Me Goose Bumps lubricant

    3. A 3-in-1 arousal serum that'll help stimulate, lubricate and plump your vulva and labia with a warming sensation that elevates your *me time*.

    Orange bottle of Arouse Rosebud serum on top of lace bra

    4. A clitoral balm with a warming effect that'll elevate your pleasure and sensitivity for an out-of-this-world sensation.

    5. A stimulating water-based lube by Sliquid that delivers a cooling sensation upon contact, but warms up with get moving!

    Orange bottle of Sizzle lubricant by Sliquid

    6. A KY lubricant duo designed to deliver a warming sensation for penises and a tingling sensation for vulvas, whether you use it as lube or a massage oil.

    Blue bottle of Yours and pink bottle of Mine

    7. A pleasure serum that's 99% pure CBD and designed with science in mind, so that every part of the clitoris is stimulated.

    8. An orgasm enhancer by Bijoux Indiscrets specially designed for your clit to help prepare your body and increase sensitivity for explosive results.

    Black and gold bottle of Aphrodisia orgasm enhancer balm

    9. An arousal cream that'll help stimulate libido by increasing blood flow for a more sensitive clit and firmer penile erection.

    White box with tube of Horny Honey arousal cream

    10. A love gel originally created for post-menopausal folks to help heighten sensitivity and increase libido for a more pleasurable experience.

    White Alfie love gel

    11. An oil-based, hemp-infused massage oil by Coconu that'll help you get in the mood for ~play~ whether you use it topically for extra stimulation or internally as a lubricant.

    Tube of white Coconu oil next to green box and spoon with coconut oil

    12. A massage oil by Slow Sex that delivers a warming effect when you blow on it for extra intensity and a sweet flavor in case you'd rather use your mouth.

    Models with a bottle of Slow Sex warming massage oil tomorrow

    13. A menthol-free arousal oil enhanced with natural botanical oils that'll press your favorite "button" and turn you on with a tingly sensation.

    Black and pink bottle of On arousal oil next to box

    14. A silicone-based lube by Trojan to help intensify sensations for more arousing play with cooling and warming sensations.

    Purple bottle of Trojan Arouses & Intensifies

    15. A stimulating anal lubricant created with an extra-thick, water-based formula that'll last way after the arousal stage.

    16. An oral sex balm by Bijoux Indiscrets that offers a cooling and slippery enhancement for cunnilingus or fellatio and a sharp contrast against the warmth of a mouth.

    White tube of Slow Sex oral sex balm on model's body

    17. A Fleshlube Fire lubricant by Fleshlight designed to deliver a warm sensation upon contact whether playing alone or using your favorite sleeve.

    Model posing with orange bottle of Fleshlube Fire

    18. Orrr, cool things off with Fleshlube Ice, a water-based lube delivering a cooling sensation that'll feel like you're getting off on the top of a mountain.

    Model posing with blue bottle of Fleshlube Ice

    19. Or a 2-in-1 arousal gel and lubricant by Trojan boasting a motion-activated formula that keeps things slick for both parties and delivers a tingly, warming sensation.

    Red bottle of Trojan Arouses & Releases lubricant

    20. A clitoral balm boasting an earthy scent and warming effect for increased sensation and sensitivity during partnered or solo play.

    Ghosting remedy, Horny Jar and Sexting Balm clitoral balms

    21. An all-natural arousal oil by Foria created with a blend of CBD and botanicals to help enhance sensation and pleasure.

    22. A stimulating nipple gel with a roll-on applicator to deliver an eyebrow-raising cooling effect that boasts a menthol flavor and coconut aroma.

    23. A stimulating gel by SKYN that's both condom- and toy-compatible for a real good, feel good time whether partnered or solo.

    Black and pink box of SKYN Excite stimulating gel

    24. An edible and body-safe arousal balm created with peppermint, hemp seed and avocado oils for a silky smooth and stimulating sensation wherever you put it.

    25. A clitoral pleasure gel that helps heighten stimulation and sensation during foreplay or sex.

    Black and pink Tickle Her Pink clitoral pleasure gel

    Always remember to do a spot test beforehand, to see if there's a reaction...if there isn't one, then off to the races—um, bedroom!

    Looking for the perfect gift for any occasion? Check out all of BuzzFeed’s gift guides!

    Gift guide banner